Marriage & Divorce - 12 September 2006

I have a bofiend that has an ex wife she is on social secerity and medicare and can not work . she gets about 700 dollars a month to live on and she cries to her ex hubsnd that she has no money for her meds , she gets help with her meds thur medicare ,so he helps pay for things not alot maybe 200 a month
but i give him 480 a month for half the rent and house bills ,sometimes when he is out of his own money he uses what i give him to help her .I do not like that cause i feel like i am the one that is helping her and she has been a very mean and hateful to me and would not help me if the tables was turned .she made a statement one day well she has a lot of money so she can take care of all of us .I want to be able to pay my bills (which i still do and i have some not alot left over )but i want to help my boyfriend with the house bills and get things for the house but it seems like he expects me to have money on me all the time forv when he don't have any , SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE

2006-09-12 16:53:20 · 17 answers · asked by dee d 3

My wife (of 3 years) and I just moved back to her hometown, about 6 months ago. A couple of weeks later her ex-boyfriend from highschool, and his wife moved back as well. We soon became friends and the four of us always hung out together.
To make a long story short, I found some letters that they had written back and forth to each other confessing their feelings. They have been physical with each other on 2 different occasions. I've already confronted both of them and they told me they already decided to stop before the confrontation.
My wife seems genuinly sorry, but I can't help but think what might have happened if I hadn't found those letters.
Please Help!

2006-09-12 16:52:24 · 37 answers · asked by Mr. Smith 3

My wife and I have been married for 17+ years. We have a 16 year old severely Autistic son who requires 24/7 care. I have no one but wife to care for him. Moved into her fathers house at her insistance. He went to live in Peru these last 4 months. He has a room in the house rented out to a guy, David. Yada yada yada... I caught her at 3am in his room doing David and some other guy. She told me it was just sport F'N' and that it meant nothing. I had major surgery a while back and was only somewhat able to be sexual with her while recovering. I decided fine she could do what she wants since I could not...So she has been doing David and his friend for the last 3 months. I asked her to use protection which she refuses to. In the past couple of weeks I have recovered enough to have normal relations with my wife and have regularly now. She does not want to give up the affair though. Did I mention she also started smoking pot with David? And he is giving it to her for free?

2006-09-12 16:43:03 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-12 16:34:15 · 17 answers · asked by LUVHUBBY 2

Where is the middle ground?
How much does either person have to change to fit what the other wants?
Religion,politics ,employment,friends ,where to live and how. Stuff like that.

2006-09-12 16:28:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-12 16:27:08 · 5 answers · asked by dede 5

What happens in a toxic love relationship? is all hope lost for being together? is it possible to fix?

2006-09-12 16:26:31 · 9 answers · asked by Elly 3

I dont know this lady well. Met her once and have been chatting on and off via msn.

Gave her some money even before we met. She wants to go through divorce because her hubby have committed adultry and insane. She have a lover but because she wants to have custody of her kids and do not want to break up a marriage, she decided to give up on her lover. Her life is a mess and she need help financially too.

I like her and feel like helping her financially though I have my own debts but worried that this might be a scam.

Even if this is not a scam and her problems are genuine. Should I help her financially???

2006-09-12 16:25:04 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband decided to one day hide his myspace friends

2006-09-12 16:15:00 · 12 answers · asked by jenlovely01 3

my parents divorced when i was young. my mother remarried so i then and now have three grandmothers. i married a girl whose parents divorced also. both her parents remarried. this makes a total of seven between us. holidays are exhausting

2006-09-12 16:14:52 · 10 answers · asked by capper 2

cheat on my husband.

I'm married, but curious what it would be like to have sex with another man. This has become a big fascination with me lately. I'm nearing the point of no return...

Would I be lower than scum if I slept with someone else? I've only been with my husband, and I want to know what it feels like to be with another person.

I don't plan on making it a habit, I just want to feel something new and different.

Help...

2006-09-12 16:13:54 · 24 answers · asked by Em 1

2006-09-12 16:10:08 · 4 answers · asked by Princess1 1

My friend husband is sending her through a lot.He don't want her to have any friends,he also don't want her to go any where.Every time she gets on the phone he gets mad and start saying negative things.He also gets mad at her when she goes by her family and start saying negative things and he also say that she is going by her family so that she can be with her other man.He says that her family is helping her cheat on him.They have 3 kids together,one girl and 2 boys.He treats their daughter good which is the oldest and he treats the baby boy good too,but treat the oldest boy different from the other 2.If the oldest son needs a hair cut,she has to bring him to the shop where her brother cuts hair at so her brother can cut his hair.But the thing is that her husband knows how to cut hair.He cuts his own hair every other day but don't cut the oldest son's hair.He needs a hair cut now real bad,he have not had a hair cut in 2 week now but his father's hair is cut.

2006-09-12 16:03:33 · 13 answers · asked by mrs.pierre3 2

I love my wife, but she only speaks to me when there is a financial issue at hand, wanting me to solve it (I always do) good ol' money bags husband, this is the ONLTY time she speaks to me and NEVER NEVER touches me or allows me to rouch her without acting exasperated. Help we have 4 kids still at home, but I get sick of it.

2006-09-12 15:58:04 · 41 answers · asked by kiny 2

2006-09-12 15:55:14 · 7 answers · asked by ping gaik mei 1

im married 4 a year.my husband watches adult movies.hes has every physical relation wid me...sexual....but he hasnt seen my body .i want him to see my body.today i asked him that u watch adult movies n u see other girls everything but u havnt seen mine.he became angry n shouted at me n said dont argue wid me.i feel like a lot crying!!!!!wat shud i do?

2006-09-12 15:53:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-12 15:42:35 · 13 answers · asked by Princess 2

I can't really work things out with my husband seeing as how he's in jail. I can write him a letter, but I've already pretty much said everything I want to say. We were seperated for 7 months because we bought a house where my family lives, I stayed there getting it ready and waiting for him to come back, and he was in Cali awaiting his trial. The trial didn't happen as soon as we expected it2. He's in the navy& the civilian world dropped his case because of lack of evidence. I actually heard from the ppl that accused him. I've heard pretty much everything concerning his case. He was treated unfairly by the military,&he was wrongly accused. I did tell him I didn't like him seeing his ex. There were other people that he shouldn't have been hanging out with considering that they partied all the time and he was away from me for 7 months. I told him that also. He didn't stop seeing them. He did have sex with his ex before we were married.

2006-09-12 15:32:39 · 5 answers · asked by verony 2

Im also a full time Dad 4 now. Specific Anwers plz

2006-09-12 15:30:43 · 16 answers · asked by ogeepyroh_lok 1

2006-09-12 15:20:18 · 7 answers · asked by Jebnifer 3

2006-09-12 15:13:27 · 34 answers · asked by TheHappyGuy 2

I am confused here....what are the different types of heterosexuality?

2006-09-12 15:09:37 · 7 answers · asked by yomayra 1

2006-09-12 15:08:58 · 29 answers · asked by pamela s 1

There are gender differences but why men and women view sex differently?

2006-09-12 15:08:14 · 8 answers · asked by yomayra 1

He moved out. I later found out that he had met someone(s?) else. I saw a lawyer. He said that it is cheaper if he files and I answer. I told my husband that he could go ahead and file, the kids and I will be fine. He says that he does not want a divorce? What?

2006-09-12 14:41:43 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

who does not like to talk? How do you get through to someone who will not listen to you or even make a comment back. Almost like talking to a wall. How do you get through without pis sing off the person.?

2006-09-12 14:41:30 · 7 answers · asked by Holly G 3

I have suspected that my husband has maybe done something, but when I asked, he said,"No, I haven't." There is no proof that he's committed adultery. But there was a problem with porn on his part. He says he's quit, and as far as I know, he has. But there's been things that he has said in the past that have really hurt me and messed up my self-confidence. He's not verbally abusive, but has said some unkind things. He also didn't want to give up his friendship with his ex. He seems to think that, if I trust him, and he's not doing anything, then there shouldn't be a problem. Do any of you remain friends with your ex's? I have a problem with it, but should it be? I feel like he's choosing other people over me, and I don't know how to get over my low self-esteem and feelings of resentment towards him. What do I do? I feel like if I continue on this way, I will lose all love for him. However, he's in jail right now, so I can't really work things out with him. He was wrongfully accused.....

2006-09-12 14:39:01 · 12 answers · asked by verony 2

I emailed an ex after an argument with my wife about her using drugs...Although it was innocent conversation...I apologized for making a rookie mistake...now four years later I caught her e-mailing her ex although it appears quite innocent...is this pay back or grounds for concern?

2006-09-12 14:33:01 · 2 answers · asked by gean_yus 1

Just wondering is this a common fantasy? I dream about it every night. Anyone?

2006-09-12 14:31:21 · 21 answers · asked by Austin C 2

Who will legally inherit, the children or the husband? This question refers to the law in the Republic of Ireland

2006-09-12 14:31:17 · 5 answers · asked by Rachel Maria 6