2006-09-12 16:34:15 · 17 answers · asked by LUVHUBBY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you asked this question then he probably is
2006-09-12 16:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be nosy. You have the right, after all, you are his wife. Check cell phone, check email, car, etc. If there's nothing to hide, than he won't have a problem w/ you doing that. There should never be any secrecy in your marriage. If he has a problem with you doing those things, than you might have something to worry about. Spend more time with him and not w/ friends or going out separately. Take lunch to him at work so his co-workers see his wonderful wife. Be sweet and wonderful so he's reminded of what he's got, and if he is cheating, than he might think twice about doing it again because what if he loses you?! Follow your intuition...but don't freak unless you have cold, hard facts! Don't let him know that you suspect him anything...if he continues he'll start making mistakes b/c he thinks you trust him. Give him the benefit of the doubt though and remember the man you married...
2006-09-12 23:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by breaker_1020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going out late.
Working late.
All of a sudden wanting fancy under ware - clothes that he never wanted bef.
Lying to you about where he has been etc.
Change in you sex life more or less sex.
Showering after he is out like he never did bef.
Talking on his phone secretly.
Talking on the Internet in secret.
Talking about some other woman all the time like Mary did this etc bef this happened.
Being unusually distant from you.
Normally we know when our spouse is cheating but need the proof to go got ya.
Try asking him.
BUT THAN some ppl are just paranoid hope you r not one of them.
2006-09-13 00:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously given you a reason to suspect something is not right. Put a pin in it. You don't have to follow him around, snoop, ask others, check his every move. Always, yes, Always- whatever is done in the dark soon comes to light. One way or another, the truth will find its way to you. When people cheat, and get comfortable with it, they also get sloppy and don't be a attentive to the detail of covering up. That's when some info will get to you. Be patient and ride the wave. If nothing comes to you, perhaps it was just a series of coincidences. But, I believe you have that little voice saying to you that there's reason to ask. Trust it and wait...Time will tell.
2006-09-12 23:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by hellokittyt012263 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people say that if your spouse is cheating on you thay will not want to be intimate with you. That is a lie if your spouse is getting it somewhere else, that dosent mean they dont want you too. also if they start acting crappy towards you like they dont value your feelings or what you want...just from my experience hope that helps
2006-09-12 23:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by amanda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best answer is at " Break-free-from-the-affair".com, on the left side of the page, go to "46 clues your partners having an affair." It's a great site, Not only will it help you find out, but it helps people recover. Good luck!
2006-09-13 00:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by kathy c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some cases they're nicer to you because of the guilt they're feeling. Go with your gut on this one. He'll leave clues. Look for odd and out of the ordinary behaviour.
2006-09-13 00:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't always tell. nobody knows nobody. we think we do. just be trustful until you do know something. don't be naive. are silly. some things are obvious. don't be too loose and find out later someone was taking advantage of your kindness. usually your first suspicion is correct. sometimes we over look it and say "it can't be true" Being honest with yourself helps a lots.
2006-09-12 23:46:44 · answer #8 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for the first thing if you see lipstick on him its a sure sign . if you see him come in really late it might be unless he has a really good excuse and its more than one time. if he comes in smelling like perfume, womans colonge, a different soap, or changed clothes, . acts like he doesnt care anymore. and says it i dont care. thats just a start.
2006-09-13 00:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by whitefang39_70726 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, what does this say about your marriage and your husband? I know of a man, a friend of mine, who is so honest, that no one, especially his wife would ever ask such a question, or believe any liar who might say it.
2006-09-12 23:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a gut feeling, he probably is. Why not clear the air and ask him outright. If he squirms and he-haws, you know he is guilty.
2006-09-12 23:48:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋