Marriage & Divorce - 12 September 2006

my husbend always disappence for days. he tells me this crazy storys. which i don't believe. this month alone he been gone 6 nights. frist 3 days in roll came home for 2 and left again. now is been 3 nights again. i get know phone call friends family don't here from him either . i know it's another women because last year he had affair. i asked to leave he said know hes going no where. and that i'm he's wife and am suppose to take him back he refuses to go. so i went out had fun enjoyed myself and did'nt come home one night. and i want him to leave the house. i want my freedom. and i can't afford to move. but i don't want him to leave forever.

2006-09-12 11:01:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so I ate alot of birthday cake that had blue frosting...I mean ALOT. So I was with the old lady last night, and my dna milkshake came out blue. Whats up with that?

2006-09-12 10:58:23 · 7 answers · asked by taterhog mung-flower 2

what would make you go crazzy,and get you very horney

2006-09-12 10:55:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have sex but it is always playful and I initiate. He only does when he is having a dirty dream and he rolls over on top of me.

2006-09-12 10:52:17 · 24 answers · asked by sarahds007 2

I'm married (12 years now) with two children (11 & 6). I met someone two years ago, and have been having a relationship with her for the last year and a half. I am in love with her very, very much.

My question is whether I should grin and bear my marriage (I am a relatively stoical type) or should I follow my heart and leave and live - I would hope - happily after. What would the childrens' reaction be? Could I ever be happy living with the guilt?

I have always been quite honest about the position with everyone concerned. I have spoken about it with my wife since the relationship started. I have exlained to the children that, were I to leave, it is no reflection on them or on my feelings towards them.

Will the guilt ever leave me? Has anyone firsthand experience of this? How should one do it? Just get on with it and jump or try and keep everyone happy? (I have been trying to do the latter and it doesn't seem to be working.) I am very serious about the woman I want to be with.

2006-09-12 10:52:13 · 35 answers · asked by Jake J 1

2006-09-12 10:51:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

punish her for?

2006-09-12 10:47:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

or do you have to go to Alabama for that?

2006-09-12 10:43:33 · 9 answers · asked by taterhog mung-flower 2

We've already got the ring, and he wants to make this special for me by giving me free reign. Trouble is, I don't have a lot of ideas! He wants to use the list I give him to customize his own way of doing this. What do you think would be the most romantic on a moderately cheap budget? Here are some more specs to help your creative juices:
1. Right now, we're attending different colleges, so he'd have to come out here. His brothers have an apartment in town, but he doesn't have one.
2. We're going to Disneyland in the middle of October, for all you guys with great Cali-centered ideas
3. I'm a bit of a romantic, and I'd like for things to be personal. So I don't want like a skywrite or billboard thing going, but a public place is still okay as long as we do something else first
4. Okay, I lied a little on the last spec. I'm REALLY a romantic. As in, some chick flicks make me cry.

Thanks a bunch!!! :)

2006-09-12 10:42:49 · 13 answers · asked by elusiveoptimist 2

2006-09-12 10:38:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm British & my fiance is a NZ citizen. We both live in London (her on a work permit). Both of us have not been married before. It is the UK side of things that I am interested in, we are sorted from an NZ perspective.

2006-09-12 10:36:24 · 3 answers · asked by mn4tcl 1

we've done it before and he loves it, but we have been fighting and he has not tried it, he knows i won't say no.I think he's stupid for not wanting to f... me from the back even if were mad at each other.

2006-09-12 10:34:40 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-12 10:31:11 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently I had to quit my job and find something else. I went from a cashier to a housekeeper and I am working 7am to 3:30pm. I am not used to the hours and I am feeling really tired. I am not sure how the winter is going to go with this job and I have got two more weeks to go before I get a check so we will have to make it on my husband's checks for three weeks. My husband seems under a lot of stress and he has been so mean. I have problems I say awful things and I did that again last night I told him I am going to go screw someone else and you should too it might be good for you but I didn't mean it. I have said these things before but never cheated on my husband. I was able to tell him sometimes when he has an erection it feels like it is soft.
He got some lotion last night we was trying to have sex it went down fast he said it was because of what I said that I was going to sleep with someone else what's the deal?

2006-09-12 10:28:59 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have met someone that May turn out at very minumum to be a good friend. We have a lot in common and are both in crappy relationships. Being new to the area, I don't know many others and feel real comfortable talking to her. Should I pursue this and find out where it leads or continue on with my life as it is?

2006-09-12 10:27:20 · 8 answers · asked by rikv77 3

Your opinion....I want to be with my boyfriend and love him very much but we have had a lot of problems through our relationship (who hasn’t) but okay here is the story.. we met when I was 18 and he was 24 the first 2 yrs of our relationship he would go out leave me all the time and not answer my calls the first time we broke up I put up with not seeing or talking to him for 2 weeks and I was living with him-because he wanted me to. I would go to work come home late and call him off the hook he never answered my calls and he would come home when he knew I was at work, I got sick of it and left out of state to be with my family and I was not going to go back but he begged me to I went to get my things but stayed because he promised me he wouldn’t do that to me, which he still did-my bad this time. Okay then after another year or so of putting up with his crap, he told me that he was going to make more of an effort to hang with me and my friends so we

2006-09-12 10:27:04 · 24 answers · asked by ~Ronyea Q♪ 3

He sais it's too dangerous, but i don't see it that way. I'll just be sitting in his patrol car, i don't have to go chase anyone.
should I just drop it and listen to him? cause i keep asking him a lot about it and it's anoying him and he still sais "no"

2006-09-12 10:22:40 · 25 answers · asked by chapped lips 5

She is one of his myspace friends but he has never meet her she lives in Los Angelas so it is a possibility that they could meet. I knew his password before and now he has changed it. I don't know what to do will he cheat on me?

2006-09-12 10:20:50 · 29 answers · asked by sexyladylooking4love2233 1

I am very happy!!!! But if anything, what would you change, or add? Give examples please, I am curious as to why couples cheat.

2006-09-12 10:12:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a couple ideas, but am hoping you all can help with some clarification...

2006-09-12 10:09:15 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

not engaged (yet) but the possibility is there,we know. we've been together 6months as of October 25th.already we have over come so many things together and have worked everything out for the best,its like we are meant to be, seriously. i love him so much..i want to bring up that i want him in my life forever and i want his kids, but i dont want to scare him off in any way. should i bring it up closer to our 6months or just let it happen as it happens?

2006-09-12 10:06:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

and we plan on getting engaged this year. is it possible, this early?

2006-09-12 10:05:58 · 24 answers · asked by Glamourest_girl 1

I did a horrible thing to my husband. I cheated on him. I told him because I wanted to be honest and start working on our marriage. He says that he forgives me and I've done so much to save our marriage. I've changed everything about me but I feel like my husband is just taking advantage of me. Before he used to help me with things around the house and with my daughter and now he doesnt do anything. He doesnt wash a single dish or change a single diaper. He took away all access from my credit card and bank account. Also he's really confused. Since I told him what I did he's been fine in the sexual part of our marriage but the other day he told me that he never wants to have sex with me ever again and the times we have had sex he said that he's froced himself to have sex with me. Then about an hour later he tried to have sex with me and I told him no because I don't want him to feel forced to have sex with me. He got mad and said that if he was the other guy I would have. He's confused!

2006-09-12 09:54:38 · 18 answers · asked by I smile because of them ♥ 5

Note:just drinks,neither party is happy with their partners

2006-09-12 09:53:20 · 26 answers · asked by TAMMY M 2

2006-09-12 09:51:34 · 26 answers · asked by TAMMY M 2

she had gastric bypass surgery to lose weight after our kids were born she balloned to 260.she had the surgery and was flirting and getting guys attention but what gives shes still alone. how can i make her realize what we had.i'll try anything spells or another option.i need her back.i love her unconditional.i know deep down she still loves me.

2006-09-12 09:50:13 · 14 answers · asked by Rob C 1

I have decided on a variaty of colors they are Silver, lilac, pink, emerald, and yellow... I like the idea of Pink with a silver embelshment.....i have no clue i know its my wedding but i have no clue about the colors. ... HELP!

2006-09-12 09:46:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Your spouse tells you they love you so many times a day?
My husband tells me he loves me alot and it makes me feel real good. so I was wondering if theres others that feel like me or that don't like to be told "I Love You" so many times?

2006-09-12 09:45:24 · 18 answers · asked by kookie 3

My husbant is a cop and he caught me driving 40 in a 25mph zone. he had the nerve to pull me over and give me a warning. I told him not to but he said that "he took an oath".
i'm super upset. what should i do? who is right?

2006-09-12 09:44:36 · 29 answers · asked by chapped lips 5

if she is trying to claim money from him,and they live in difrent states? It's not part of the divorce settlement and the kids are my age,so it ain't child support.

2006-09-12 09:36:34 · 8 answers · asked by BellaDonna 5