We have sex but it is always playful and I initiate. He only does when he is having a dirty dream and he rolls over on top of me.
2006-09-12 10:52:17 · 24 answers · asked by sarahds007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, we have only been married for a year and he was my "first" and we have sex all the time. It is good sex and I don't believe he would ever cheat on me. At least not anytime soon I mean we are all capable of that but he has never been driven by the skirt. I have known him for almost six years and at first this appealed to me and being less experienced I didn't see anything changing in the future. To the bald guy- it was just a simple question, no need to over analyze.
2006-09-12 11:04:10 · update #1
tell him what you want...honesty is always very sexy
2006-09-12 10:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you still love him and want to be with him? If so, you should get some marriage counseling. But first, you would have to be honest with him about what's up with you. If you can't bring yourself to be honest with him and get help, then I think you really do need to call it quits. I had the same problem, also after only a couple of years. I couldn't bring myself to tell him I had a problem regarding sexual attraction but I also felt guilty about divorcing him. So instead I had several affairs and felt horrible about myself. We finally divorced. He only knows about the final affair because I told him. Why hurt him more by telling him about all the others? Later I married another man (not the guy I had the final affair with) and we are still very much attracted to each other after 12 years.
2016-03-26 22:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by Janet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him make a game that one time one will plan the evening and go to a resteraunt and act like you don't know each other. Have a one night stand with each other. OR candles and sweet food all over bodies is always fun. Be creative and see who can come up with the most creative ways. Create memmories that will last forever, and guarantee to not have a cheating husband.
2006-09-12 10:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by FANNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
made a 'diary notebook'. Leave it by 'accident' out and open, somewhere to read. In it.. write what you would like done... step by step like a romance novel. And have all the things he will need for the sex... or/and the romantic night.. candles... G-string.... feather cuffs... (lol) anything you would want, handy for him.. then if he's not dense... he will take it from there. hopefully. Sometimes a shy person needs permission... again.
2006-09-12 14:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Order dinner for the two of you, have your favorite wine on ice, wear something sexy but not to reveiling, let him use his imagination, wear the perfume he likes, do your makeup just right and wear high heels, guys are into visual, high heels scream sex, be playful feed one another, and lots of kissing during dinner, tell him how much you want him, guys also love hearing things like that, after dinner whisper in his ear, take me to bed, lots of moaning and heavy breathing doesn't hurt either, remember being sexy and feeling sexy starts in the brain, so use your smarts turn that hubby into your personal sex slave for the evening,,,lol
2006-09-12 11:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may have gotten into the habit of you initiating sex.You might try backing off a bit and when he sees you aren't going to initiate it hopefully he will then.
2006-09-12 11:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by hungerforknowledge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds bad...... I have been there with my wife.... It lead to my first affair....... Sound like your sex life has become routine, and ordinary........You need to take it to the next level.... I don't know how open you are sexually, but you may try goint to a sex club, or trying some light S&M, or sex in public..... Anything different to break you out of your routine. If not, one of you is going to go looking other places for excitement.......
2006-09-12 10:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by whidd2003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes your husband talk to him tell him that u need to feel desired as a woman and part of that is him wanting you and showing you how much he wants u if u cant even talk to each other about this then that part of your life together is going to be boring
2006-09-12 11:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw on a sexy outfit and throw him a camera - show him what and where you need it. If he can't get passionate after that - he is dead! (or possibly not into this relationship anymore)
2006-09-12 10:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that's not his cup of tea, and it is what you want, you may be with the wrong guy. Couldn't you have figured that out before getting married?
You are married and he is still shy? I think you both have problems.
2006-09-12 10:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
make him set across the room while you tease the hell out of hom sexually. Make him promise not to move untll you say go/
2006-09-12 11:04:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋