I have met someone that May turn out at very minumum to be a good friend. We have a lot in common and are both in crappy relationships. Being new to the area, I don't know many others and feel real comfortable talking to her. Should I pursue this and find out where it leads or continue on with my life as it is?
2006-09-12 10:27:20 · 8 answers · asked by rikv77 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is like it is.Relationship or not,Marriage or not,if the marriage was right and meant to be,you would not even be asking this question.Everyone seems to think that before you can relate to someone else you have to be divorced,in all reality,it really doesnt happen that way,you feel what you feel and sometimes someone else has the control of what situation you may encounter and when.Butterflies can turn our stomach upside down when we are not even expecting it.A soft voice can ring your phone and you feel in relax and comfort without knowing it was coming.It is like is,it will go where it is suppose to go.I believe that everything happens for a reason,in the long run you will know the reason,whether it be that you have a good friend in your life or something more
2006-09-12 10:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why would you settle for a crappy relationship, don"t you want to be happy? So tell your friend, this is not working, May be we need to meet new people, and see what happens. Than you are available to meet and go out with new people, take is slow, at first, get to know each other, and let it progress from their.
2006-09-12 10:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, break off the bad relationship. That will leave you more clear headed to find out if you even want to be in another relationship. Then see if your feelings are getting stronger or more platonic. Go from there....
2006-09-12 10:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by bdgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should persuer it but you need to break off the bad relationship. Its not healthy to be in a bad relationship and if this new person seems to be a good fit there wont be any anymosity with the other relationship
2006-09-12 10:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by sexyladylooking4love2233 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought it was just a funny story at first until it happened to me but if your serious or you like her go for it and stay out of the friends zone and if it doesnt work out then be the friend who she knows has a crush on her but whatever the situation do somthing
2006-09-12 10:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by james s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met one of my best friends that way,, but don't get too deep into the new girl until you resolve your relationships,, it's easier that way.
2006-09-12 10:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by B V 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lets see, crappy relationship vs. good time, mmmmm I don't know, ya right, lifes too short brother go for it
2006-09-12 10:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by Bob 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart leads you to do.
2006-09-12 10:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by nanny2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋