She is one of his myspace friends but he has never meet her she lives in Los Angelas so it is a possibility that they could meet. I knew his password before and now he has changed it. I don't know what to do will he cheat on me?
2006-09-12 10:20:50 · 29 answers · asked by sexyladylooking4love2233 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its possible. If he finds it neccessary to change his PW, then hes hiding something.
2006-09-12 10:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are just friends and you said she is your myspace friend to maybe you could message her and talk to her about messaging your Husband but don't just go off an her about them cheating that is not the way to get the answers you need.Then I would talk to my husband about him messaging her and about changing his password. Once again don't just go off accusing him of cheating that doesn't help you get any answers.Were you snooping all the time is that why he changed his password.If not then I don't why he changed it.WE HAVE GOT TO HAVE SOME TRUST!At my House my husband and I use the same password we have nothing to hide.Good luck !
2006-09-12 17:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by lisababyg ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be upset!
By talking with another woman without you knowing about who she is... is already cheating on you.
Talk to your husband about it calmly and really listen to the answers he gives you. If he gets instantly upset that you're nosing around in his stuff....He is doing something that he even knows he shouldn't be doing. Why change the password if he's innocent? He may just play it off like its nothing or have an interesting excuse that may even sound good, at that point you may need to decide what your boundaries are in the marriage and discuss them with him.
It's not a good thing.
Something to ponder:
If you were shopping one day and caught him sitting in Starbucks talking with another woman and carrying on together, how would you respond?
Good luck....hope he talks to you about it and things work out for the best. Sometimes guys don't even think about how things look and affect us wives. Be sure to talk to him about it.
2006-09-12 17:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Julie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is alright to be upset. It is definately okay to be checking up on him. I have been in your situation. I made it really clear to my husband why this wasn't okay. I felt like it was too tempting for him to get to know someone else so close. That even though he hadn't done anything most likely the situation would come up then he would have to choose what to do. He should let you in on what his intentions are before they happen. Let him know how you feel. Expect him to not open up at first and try to blow it off but if you make a big enough deal of it he will have to figure out what he is thinking...
2006-09-12 17:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by starla_adore33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would question the fact that he changed his password .. is he trying to hide something. I think right now you both need to have a serious heart to heart.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-12 17:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be pissed if my husband did that..it seems that since he's changed his password..there's more to this than meets the eye!
To be honest...if he's going to cheat...all the thinking he will or won't ...won't change THAT fact...that he'd cheat!
Talk to him and tell him how you feel...the worst thing to happen...is he tells you NO!
2006-09-12 17:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do married men need myspace? Thats strange...thats for single ppl..is he happy with your sexlife?? Do you talk alot? Give him alot of sex and then you wont have to worry But tell him he should stop and watch his reaction That isnt right at all.
2006-09-12 17:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he needs to be emotionally faithful to you as well as physically.
Do the two of you talk a lot still? I mean just talk, share how your day went, your latest ideas, whatever. I'm just saying that hoping that you still are best friends, and are emotionally supportive of eachother. Everybody needs to feel emotionally supported, and the primary source of that for the two of you should be each other.
best wishes.
2006-09-12 17:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl don't worry if he does go an mess around with some skank he met on that they both are nasty his password the new one they usually send it to your e-mail so if you know they e-mail pass code look it up or try b-days your and his ss# license plate# old/new address cell/home # but for the most part if he cheats he is a loser for messing around on you good luck
2006-09-12 17:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should evaluate why he feels the need? Perhaps you have a disrespectful disposition with him? How about low self-esteem? Low-self esteem is less attractive than being 80 pounds overwieght!
2006-09-12 17:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, maybe you should be worried since he changed his password. If he hadn't changed the password, I wouldn't be to concerned.
2006-09-12 17:25:45 · answer #11 · answered by bookworm_382 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋