and we plan on getting engaged this year. is it possible, this early?
2006-09-12 10:05:58 · 24 answers · asked by Glamourest_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, it's possible
2006-09-12 10:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sydney 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's possible as long as you feel it. But your idea of "true love" will change as you get older too and you may look back and think what you have now isn't really what you wanted. That's not to say it can't work out but don't rush into an engagement before you have your own life sorted out. Are you going to college? Do you have career plans? Does he have career plans? Do you want children? How many and when? There are a lot of things to consider before you get married, these are just a few. If it IS true love then waiting a while before settling down won't change a thing except that you'll feel more confident that you are making the right choice.
2006-09-12 17:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by Beccawho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that anything is possible, especially with love. If you are concerned taht the engagement is too soon you could hold off for a while, or get engaged and then wait a long time to get married. If you truly love eachother everything will turn out how it should and I wish you the best of luck.
2006-09-12 17:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by blondyblonde08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes possible. My 2 friends are engaged right now too, they met about 2 years ago at age of 17/18. Still together, and love each other...
2006-09-12 17:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mrsashko 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i met my man when i was just barely 19. he is 4 years older than me. we dated for about a month or two and quickly got engaged. we have been together now for 4years. we still haven't gotten married, but thats ok for the two of us. there have been ups and downs, but that is normal for all relationships. the problem with young love is that they dont realize this. its perfectly possible that you've met the love of your life and will be with him forever, but you need to tread gingerly. know that you will fight and there will be days when you hate him and when he hates you; days might even be weeks or months. but if you're truly committed to each other these feelings will pass.
the best advice that i can give is not to rush things. stay in school. go to college. put marriage and children off until you two are in a more secure situation financially and emotionally. know that you do not need to look towards society for their approval to love someone. after all, only YOU can say if its possible and right for you. nobody else can.
2006-09-12 17:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by .jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course it is possible.
I married my husband when I was 18 and he was 30. We have been together for 4 years now and couldn't be happier with each other. We have two children and I don't know what I would ever do without my family. I don't regret marrying him at all, and if I could go back in time to do it all over again I wouldn't change anything.
2006-09-12 17:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by ForeverLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
True love can happen at 18, but also falling out of love can happen in a few years.At 18 and 20 niether one has developed into the adult you will probably be. usually people get emotionally balanced at around 25.
2006-09-12 17:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by desayunogratis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is possible. i was in love at 16 and now iam 21 and getting married to the same bloke. it should be better 4 u because he is older which makes him quite mature.we r planning a baby now and getting a house. my friends mum and dad have bin together since 13 yrs of age! love is when he makes u tingle when u see him. if u fall out u feel sick and dont want to eat. u just never want to be apart
2006-09-12 17:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by sexy shell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah girl! My best friend just turned 20, her boyfriend is a year older, they dated for almost a year before they got engaged, and then 8 months later they got married. They've been together for 2 months so far, and they have never been happier. Its possible, go for it Hun! Whatever makes you happy!
2006-09-12 17:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 17 and me and my boyfrind have been together for2 years and plan to get married on my feb 14 2007 i will be 18 then i fell in love with him when i was 15 and knew it was true love. so yeah its possiable!
2006-09-12 17:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by TinkerBell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, we learned in a class when I was younger that girls can really love someone at 16, but boys don't until they are 22. I always stuck to that, but I know some people that age who really do love each other.
2006-09-12 17:08:15 · answer #11 · answered by Amilucky0707 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋