Marriage & Divorce - 12 September 2006

hit on by one of their husband's female relatives?

2006-09-12 14:28:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay before we got married my husband had a porn addiction. He gave that up cause porn became boring for him. Then he started liking real people having sex (so it wasnt fake). Well now he wants to give up everything because "sex in his head 24/7" is becoming a problem. Its making him want to go back to porn or related things. Now he said he would try to stop completely but he is still looking for different sex related stuff on the internet. He's really getting pissed off at this cause it has hurt me before. MY QUESTION IS: How to start getting over this for real??? Guys what have you done?? or Girls what has your mate done???

2006-09-12 14:26:45 · 43 answers · asked by **What??** 4

Or wives married to men with low sex drives? It's hardly ever talked about!!!

2006-09-12 14:26:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I do? Should I go along with it, and not let on like I know, or should I be gut honest, and tell her I found out?

2006-09-12 14:12:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm just seeing if NE1 has any advice for my husband & I.We live in WV.He has to pay child support for a child thats not even his.We had DNA done on this child & he is NOT the biological father.But yet he has to pay child support b/c the child was born during his & his ex wifes marriage.Which i don't believe is right b/c she is the 1 who went out & done wrong.She cheated on him 7xs or more during their marriage.He stayed w/ her b/c he does however have 2 children that are his.But anyways the child support is still making him pay child support for this child.The mother lied to the judge & said she didn't know who the father was,which she does.She lied to my husband saying that it was his child,now his name is stuck on the birth certificate & hes stuck with paying child support until the child is 18 which is a crock of s***.We pay $1,000 in child support a month theres now way in H3ll we can afford a lawyer.The mother takes the kids 2 the doc all the time b/c my hubby has 2 pay for it

2006-09-12 14:09:10 · 12 answers · asked by BadAssGirlINWV 5

My wife is shy, but very steamy. I need advise male, and female, on how to encourage her to do a mmf threesome. She is ready, but nervous, on again, off again, like getting on a rollercoaster.

2006-09-12 14:06:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-12 13:57:25 · 17 answers · asked by gean_yus 1

i intercepted a call from a women i suspected and my husband said she was stalking him(from 1200 miles away) she left a squishy message about meeting and how she missed him and he didnt come home for those 4 days and tried to say at work but his work said he wasnt there then he said he was with 6 guy friends partying (yeah right) i havent let him come home and he owes my family alot of money and hes supposed to pay for my cosmedic tattooing class after my family helped him when he took his diving course mine is 50 hours and his was 7 months i was told to stick it out then decide i can NEVER forgive him i never did anything to deserve what he did to me and i know that wasnt the first time it was just the first time i got documented proof and i dont know what to do stay for all the wrong reasons or leave for all the right i at this point choose the latter but am in no position to do so at this time but after my schooling within a short period of time i will be

2006-09-12 13:57:18 · 22 answers · asked by parker 1

she is a stay at home mom..so I know that is a tough job...However she has plenty of time to chat on the internet with others. Do you think my request for attention are selfish or what?

2006-09-12 13:55:59 · 9 answers · asked by gean_yus 1

why would you ever get married if you know that most of them don't work >

2006-09-12 13:53:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious........

2006-09-12 13:51:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-12 13:48:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

.... and why ?

2006-09-12 13:46:28 · 22 answers · asked by Alex 3

I hear all this bad talk about CHEATING CHEATING CHEATING, but I know there has to b some good ones out there like my husband.

2006-09-12 13:42:47 · 25 answers · asked by **What??** 4

2006-09-12 13:40:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is a good man. He would do anything for me. But he doesn't know how to do anything and it makes me feel like I'm more of a mother figure than a wife. I'm tired of being his teacher. It's a total turnoff to me that he is like this. He forgets what I teach him and he sets himself up for failure every time. What do I do?

2006-09-12 13:34:37 · 19 answers · asked by sweet 5

there is a guy at my husband job and he has this 16 year old daughter that come up there to pick him up well one day my husband didnt have a way home and this little girl gave him a ride home i would have said nothing about it but be for then when i went to pick him up one day she was up there and the first thing that came out of his mouth was "she is built up like a grown woman what should i do about that

2006-09-12 13:32:14 · 21 answers · asked by kimbriang 1

I've gone through many questions and I'm amazed at alot of the questions of jealousy over minor things. I don't get mad if my hubby wants to go to the strip club once every 6 months with his buddies.
I don't get upset if he wants to do things by himself or run errands by himself.
If he looks at another woman I don't get mad.

I hope I'm not the only one that isn't the jealous type cause no wonder why men think women are crazy, some of the things people are getting upset over amaze me. PLEASE donot take offense to that but to me its amazing

2006-09-12 13:30:58 · 28 answers · asked by wilowdreams 5

....all the while still sleeping with his mistress...right up to 3 weeks before they move back in together???

2006-09-12 13:30:45 · 8 answers · asked by anon 2

who just had a baby and didn't ask you to go? My husband told me he was going to the hospital and just left without even asking me. I called him on the cell, and he said he was going to go pick up his guy friends then head off to the hospital. I'm like...well what about me? He's like...it's a guy thing.

2006-09-12 13:26:35 · 15 answers · asked by SimpleGurl 2

i have my child %50 of the time and i dont think its fair that i should pay the ex.

2006-09-12 13:25:06 · 18 answers · asked by down800 1

I've given her a lovely home, two clever beautiful children, but no excitement over the years, got to rapped up in the future and negleted the present, I love her so much, really want the marriage to work, but we are living in seperate rooms, just being friends, she likes going out, having a laugh with her friends and drinking, I like staying in with the children and being with her. I'm in love with her, but she isn't in love with me, she said I was perfect, husband/father/lover, but she isn't in love with me. I'm desperate to win her back, because the more she rejects me, the more I fall in love with her and want her more.

2006-09-12 13:23:05 · 9 answers · asked by saxons_uk 1

2006-09-12 13:19:23 · 10 answers · asked by Kevin K 1

Everyone's got them, and I'm just wondering what and how varied they are. I have one of my own...and will post it soon but I'm just curious about everyone elses...so...yeah..Alright, everyone name your fetish and what is your fantasy. If you want I'll tell you mine. :) So..yeah...what's yours....If you please. :) Thanks.

2006-09-12 13:18:22 · 10 answers · asked by Betsy J 1

I have told him, but he refuses to accept it. We have had a very rocky 6 years, so it is not surprising, I think. I do love and care about him and it hurts me to be this way toward him, but it is how I feel. I have gone out of my way, in my opinion, to try and save our marraige and only began to give up late last year when he decided he didn't love me anymore, thought I was disgusting and would not touch me for about 2 months...I think it just hurt too bad. The times that I have told him I was leaving, he has threatened blackmail. He has been abusive on and off and is very immature, but seems to be making a huge effort now. I don't know what to do anymore - I do not feel comfortable acting as his wife. I am so confused.

2006-09-12 13:16:44 · 28 answers · asked by angelina b 1

a guy from my wife job has been riding home with her and her sister from work and i was not told but had to find out by her sister saying it by mistake so i called my wife on break and was upset about it do you think she was wrong for not telling me that a guy from her work rides home with them

2006-09-12 13:15:16 · 15 answers · asked by kimbriang 1

2006-09-12 13:10:22 · 5 answers · asked by T B 1

My Husband is great guy, we broke up over this a few months ago, He gets really angry at very little things I think he has Intermitent explosive disorder, I saw that on a show and it is really badlots of people have it, He won't get help, we have a 4 year old son together and I think this is damaging his views on woman, Now my son yells at me for no reason, because he sees his dad doing it, I have told him he either gets help or we are leaving him, He still refuses, and goes out to our motorhome for days at a time, I am not stupid and I know that I WILL leave again but, really I just wnat our family to stay together. Please no hating and no stupid answers, I really need help! Is their something I can do to make him realize what he is like, he doesn't see it!

2006-09-12 13:03:59 · 22 answers · asked by Flagstaff mama 2

What percent of people marry their first loves or where could I find out?

2006-09-12 12:56:48 · 8 answers · asked by stacey_marie_08 1

donuts. is this weird?

2006-09-12 12:55:54 · 14 answers · asked by Mark 1