she is a stay at home mom..so I know that is a tough job...However she has plenty of time to chat on the internet with others. Do you think my request for attention are selfish or what?
2006-09-12 13:55:59 · 9 answers · asked by gean_yus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its normally the women who want the attention and don't get it.
You are not being selfish.
If asking don't work.
Get rid of the Internet. Forget to pay the bill or accidental break a wire. Get the hint.
2006-09-12 14:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what kind of emotions?I f it's sexual, I suggest take her away so she can get out of "mommy mode". Sometimes it's hard to display those emotions when kids are close by. If it's job related include her in yours. Take her out w/ clients etc. Or try to get involved in her world. Do something w/ the kids so she can do something for herself. Then maybe you can have some emotional balance. Lastly maybe she is pissed @ you for something-so i suggest you speak to her and clear the air. Hope this works out for you. Sometimes people lose themselves in the children(family) and forget their other half has needs to. It's all normal. Just show her some attention-like the good old days-and maybe she'll do the same!
2006-09-12 21:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could be burnt-out, depressed, or emotionally involved with someone else. The internet makes it so easy to form attachments to members of the opposite sex with seemingly no "danger" of hurting your mate....but quickly it can lead to more than that. I would say it's time that you had a very open and honest talk with your wife and tell her how YOU feel - do not accuse, do not demand. Plead with her and preferrably have the conversation when you've planned something nice and romantic for her - a night out, get a babysitter and draw her a bath with candles, make dinner, etc. GET CREATIVE. Let her know you're always there for her and want to be her best friend. You guys are disconnected....its time to hook back up.
Remember giving to your mate is like giving to yourself - you get what you give!!!!
Good Luck
2006-09-12 21:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not being selfish. I am the same way with my b/f. Woman are that great at starting up the bedroom fire... We find it to easy. The kids are also a challenge but, most of it is men usually can be turned on to easy. I don't mean to insult anyone. I hope no one takes that the wrong way.
2006-09-12 21:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by rose_adair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. She is just trying her options maybe you need to give her a reason to talk to you more then other people. Try taking an interest in things she likes, maybe watch a movie with her she likes. If that doesn't work try talking to her face to face. Good Luck!!
2006-09-12 21:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but make sure that you make her feel special as well. If she feels like you don't initiate to her, she might be finding that on the Internet without you.
2006-09-12 21:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by BuffyFromGP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is selfish. Maybe she is waiting on you. Take her out, just the two of you. Do something romantic.
2006-09-13 00:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by Cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no not selfish at all. You are her husband you have a right to have quality time.
2006-09-12 21:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by dots_1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said you are quit attractive? You? That could be part of the problem.
2006-09-12 21:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jimfix 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋