Marriage & Divorce - 9 September 2006

Can you tell me if you wished it never happened and came to realize that it was lust and want to make right with your spouce OR was there to much guilt to want to come home and moved on OR what did you feel emotionally.

Thanks for your insight.

2006-09-09 23:50:05 · 16 answers · asked by james.ampmerch 1

2006-09-09 23:46:53 · 18 answers · asked by Roseyposey 1

2006-09-09 23:35:02 · 11 answers · asked by doggylegsniff 1

i've told my husband that i would not appreciate him watching porno and he said he wouldn't...i asked him why especially since every other guy does..and he says he's "different" and i find that hard to believe...like some crazy a s s miracle happened and he's the only guy on the planet that wouldn't watch porn just cuz his wife says so...should i believe him??

2006-09-09 22:56:25 · 26 answers · asked by lindsay 1

I want some companionship, some affection, help

2006-09-09 22:48:10 · 8 answers · asked by psst69u 1

I've been married for 20 years. My husband and I don't seem to talk much anymore. We work all week long and on the weekends I'm so depressed I just want to stay in bed anymore. We don't seem to have anything in common. It seems when we had to struggle to survive when we were younger we were always strong together and now when life and things come a little easier we have nothing left. I feel so alone! Maybe to much time, life's strife and words have passed under the brige for us? And as sad as this make me I'm not sure I even care anymore. Any advice would be appreciated.

2006-09-09 22:35:58 · 20 answers · asked by Linda 1

I and ex got the problem in their past. Now I ready to be new person to heal our pain.( I think he is also changed) Able and possible to come back? I want my ex bf back.I feel that he is still love me. He still talk on mobile and email to me. I felt he changed his attitude. He was so much pushy and i also changed. I was jealousy. I understand a lot about the past. Both of us appreciated to each other more than ever.

2006-09-09 22:21:36 · 4 answers · asked by boathouse 2

A man loves me...a married man. His wife is violent and I know this as I heard this from his son too (who is a decent boy), and she would come with long canes, knives, bottles in her hand and throw at her son out of rage. Her socio-economic status also doesnt match his. He has tried a lot but has failed in his endeavour so much so that he has fallen in love with me as we gel very well. but since he has lived with his wife for so many years , he says he loves his wife. He says that he loves both of us just as we love both our eyes. His wife has been always suspicious of him as he is a doctor. She is taking medicines for anxiety.His wife has given him 2 children n so he wont divorce his wife as this would affect his children and also bcoz he doesnt want to commit sin.

2006-09-09 22:02:52 · 27 answers · asked by Sweet Lady 1

2006-09-09 21:54:41 · 7 answers · asked by love finder 1

I've been married 10 years. It's been up and down for the last 8 because he cheated on me twice, once when I was pregnant and another a few years later. Anyway lately we seem to be on a downward spiral, and he has a double personality (one minute he's friendly and normal, the next he can be nasty and agressive). And when I say I want to talk about our problems he won't, he clams up and says that he can't be bothered with it anymore. I don't know whether our marriage can be saved. We have debts in my name that I wouldn't be able to afford on my own, we rent our property and again I wouldn't be able to afford the cost of living alone (the south of the UK is extremely expensive). I don't want to move away because it would upset my 2 young children as one has started a new school and I need to be close to my elderly parents. I'm scared of being a single mum. He wouldn't go to counselling either, he's too stubborn. Any advice from people going or have gone through the same please?

2006-09-09 21:52:14 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

jerusale is a holy city and soo siprtual and las vegas is an entertainment city which we make a lot of money there which you will chose to go ?

2006-09-09 21:30:14 · 16 answers · asked by loveman 1

DON'T GET IT, I HAVE BEGGED FOR A INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP, SLEEPING IN SEPARATE ROOMS, NO SEX IN 2YRS., AFTER 33 YRS OF MARRIAGE, WHY? 99% SURE NO OTHER PERSON INVOLVED. NO BLINDERS !!!
WHY ANYONE WOULD WANT A NASTY,MEAN, VINDICTIVE,CRUEL AND A VERBAL ABUSIVE PERSON...ONLY ME ! ANY ANSWERS?

2006-09-09 21:21:39 · 20 answers · asked by daughterofanative 1

2006-09-09 21:10:44 · 24 answers · asked by ♥♥I am single♥♥ 2

2006-09-09 21:07:37 · 8 answers · asked by tiny 1

as a guy how living in this life this new sufusticated life which is rulled by money i m thinking aobut moving to the desert to make an owel and to bring animals with me and to live as a dadwoen soo simple life far from allll the complecation of this life what do you think agree with me ?

2006-09-09 21:06:00 · 14 answers · asked by loveman 1

why do you think he does so? he is married and should be committed! he loves me :(

2006-09-09 20:52:23 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am the widowed mom of a wonderful little boy....
I have dealt with serious hardships, and I thought I knew exactly where i stood...
Tonight, while out with friends, my son's Dad's(my husband died five years ago)cousin approached me to let me know how serious he felt about me....
i guess maybe I've known he has felt for me befoe now, but I just denied it.
He claims to have loved me for years, and finally wanted to have it out in the open....he flat out said, "look, this may be hard to hear, but I love you....it isn't going to change"
I care for him alot too. He was always our best friend, and I care for him even more deeply because of the loss we have both shared...but I am so shaken up.
I do love him, but not in the way he wants... I guess I could see how he thinks we could be compatable, but there would be serious family issues with this, even though we aren't related...
this family has had enough hurt...
what can I say that won't hurt him? He's like a best friend?

2006-09-09 20:50:57 · 17 answers · asked by smarty 2

Are there any good men out there that believes in love trust and loyalty ?

2006-09-09 20:40:28 · 18 answers · asked by silverice_20002000 2

I want to make my own wedding favours using gold and ivory material, how do i make them and is there any cheap places to buy the material, etc from online, im in the uk? thanks.

2006-09-09 20:39:50 · 12 answers · asked by rach_b_2003 1

We hung out together, went places together. He bought her lots of expensive gifts. Jewlery for Christmas, I got a $30.00 massage cert. She lied and told her husband our friendship had come to an end due to my jealousy. My husband finally told her husband the truth the whole truth, and transfered to a different building.

2006-09-09 20:34:23 · 6 answers · asked by zookeeper 3

yoga ? so he can be flexible enough to suk his own dik?

2006-09-09 20:30:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-09 20:22:48 · 17 answers · asked by rdx 2

A friend of mine recently remarried a man she met while they both had just seperated from their former spouses after decade long marriages for the both.My friend's new wedding was almost to the same date of her first and they honeymooned at the EXACT same place as she had with her first husband (when she was a poor college student and couldn't afford anything more) which I find disturbing. Any thoughts on this?

2006-09-09 20:20:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should i start over............I am currently married and planning a annulment,
I am 19 and deployed to afghan.
our relationship was crapped even before i got sent here..


Then I met someone new (not here, but at home) who posess most of the qualities that I want in a husband, but I dont know if iI should stay and be miserable, or to leave and start over, (but this time not moving as fast)

what u think?

2006-09-09 20:15:26 · 10 answers · asked by keshiasen 2

does it happen mostly to men only as I do, or girls/woman too fall into the love the same way again and again.
what is the reason ? does it change person to person.?

2006-09-09 20:12:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

and what did you do to make it go away, and did you have a child

2006-09-09 19:35:59 · 22 answers · asked by seniorcaredallas@yahoo.com 2

Why cant people work to keep the family together like they did years ago, divorce causes so much pain, to children and families in and out laws it effects everyone is it worth it ??

2006-09-09 19:28:23 · 14 answers · asked by seniorcaredallas@yahoo.com 2

2006-09-09 19:27:56 · 3 answers · asked by Wishful Writer 3

"Dump the jerk"-sort of response, fine, but why don't you move on to the next question?
Else, read on. Assume you are me: 42 years old reasonably intelligent, reasonably attractive, reasonably emotional woman. Your mum is dying. It is quite unexpected but very clear.
You are visiting back home with the children for one week, to be with mum. Husband happens to visit the town for work and lets you know he is going out for great dinner. You suggest he may want to invite you. He does. Whole dinner takes place with 2 new colleagues. Fine food, ok conversation (your mum is dying, remember). Not a single sign of "I am with you" or "how was your day?" etc. End of evening. About to jump in cab (all 4 going our own way). Hubby finally comes closer for a sort of "good bye kiss" (and possibly "I am with you" stuff??). Mind you, the secret message is: "don't forget to ask for a receipt". This is his way of being with me, not a one off. Otherwise a chap who has qualities. Your reactions? Is it me?

2006-09-09 19:26:58 · 21 answers · asked by Claire 4

to much???
I asked a question like this a few minutes ago called to hard lline and an answer was given that made me want to ask this one.


Situation is this... He had an affair and moved out but says he still loves me but is not ready to move back in and be a family. We have a child. I still love him think hes worth loving in spite of all that has happened. is that right or wrong?

2006-09-09 19:22:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous