i've told my husband that i would not appreciate him watching porno and he said he wouldn't...i asked him why especially since every other guy does..and he says he's "different" and i find that hard to believe...like some crazy a s s miracle happened and he's the only guy on the planet that wouldn't watch porn just cuz his wife says so...should i believe him??
2006-09-09 22:56:25 · 26 answers · asked by lindsay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should trust your husband .. simply because its one of the most important thing in a relationship - trust.
If you are that concerned about him watching porn .. why not watch it with him. Who knows it may lead into some extra activity for the two of you.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-09 23:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Don't let some of these people get to you NOT all guys like to watch porn I wouldn't worry about it I've been married to my husband for 4 years and he isn't into porn and neither am I not all men are the same just like women aren't the same some men and women like it and some don't believe your husband he's right every man is different if you listen to other people's comments about men liking porno it will affect your trust for your husband don't let it my husband doesn't do it so trust your man don't let other women put your husband down just because theirs might watch it it probably makes them feel better blaming it on other men trust me it will be alright
2006-09-10 16:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im gonna say you shouldnt believe him.
I am like you in this way. I dont want to be with a guy who is going to watch porno or be checking out any women for that matter. If he wants to be with me then he shouldnt feel he has to look at any other women. He shouldnt want to.
I have heard guys say that they dont watch porn, but I eventually find out that everyone is tempted sometimes.
But if he really loves you and wants to love you with his whole body and soul and heart then he will not be watching things like that, because it keeps you from fully loving someone if you are not being faithful to them with your whole body and mind and heart.
If I were u i would check up on him. watch what he does. look on the computer if he uses it. look around the house for hiding spots. If you dont find anything then talk to him again and tell him calmly that you just want to know if he does it or not and that he should just tell you the truth cause if people arent truthful then whats the point of being together. He should feel like he can tell you things and he shouldnt want to hide things from you. After all yall are planning to be together for a whole lifetime yall should be open and honest with eachother.
2006-09-10 06:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by sarah20xoxoyeps 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may make a difference as to the kind of porno he swore off viewing. In a general sense, like looking at erotic photos on the internet or reading erotic stories, one will most likely be drawn back to the internal heat of looking at them again. Something more out of the ordinary? And something you may have caught him at that is particularly embarrassing? For this he may incurred enough embarassment to be curbed from revisiting it. Probably you would know more than anyone as to how intense he is about certain subjects matter.
2006-09-10 06:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What are you doing,looking for fights? Every guy in the world looks at porn, you don't want him to watch porn, he agrees not to but you don't believe him. What kind of game are you playing? 1. why does it matter to you if he looks. 2.why are you making requests you know are out of the ordinary? 3. why are you then wondering if he can keep your goofy request?
Your scenario sets him up for failure on way or the other. That way you can say I told you so so?
Grow Up.
2006-09-10 06:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe you should try to explore what makes you so anxious about your husband watching porn. and what makes you think you could get the truth from strangers' answers and not from your own husband. maybe this porn issue is just a sign about something else going on.
and for the answer: some people may not watch porn at all.
2006-09-10 06:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by pazenadam 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I had a guy once who said the only sex he wants to watch is the one he's having. All guys aren't into to porn. I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-09-10 06:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes you need to trust him 24/7 in everything he doe,s Not only not looking at porn, until you find out otherwise , its ok having doubts but you need real evidence without that you run the risk of of damaging a good marriage though lack of trust
good luck
2006-09-10 06:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by lizella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not every guy will stop watching porno just cause you told him to guys will be guys. If he really loves you he will stop watching porno. If you know he loves you believe in him.
2006-09-10 06:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by caramel_estrada 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You CAN"T generalize - that is unfair. NOT ALL men watch porn. Some do but many don't. It is wrong to state that ALL men do something, just like it is wrong for men to say that ALL women do...."whatever". If he says he doesn't - then he doesn't.
BTW - my husband doesn't.
2006-09-10 06:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by doc 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋