Marriage & Divorce - 9 September 2006

I can get a fake appraisal printed up. She won't know or figure it out anyway. If we break up, or she loses it, there is no loss. I really want to buy another motorcycle to cruise with my buddies instead. Should I do this or skip the ring idea?

2006-09-09 16:58:24 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubbies e-mail account was open, I enjoyed reading some mail from mutual friends of ours, I stumbled upon his ex-girlfriends e-mail, he wrote to her about kids, we're thinking of moving back to Ohio from Florida,etc. The last line written was "I had a dream of us in Hawaii", My stomache sank! I felt sick! I thought "wow, just when you think you kmow someone!!" I was not searching or digging for anything, we love and trust one another deeply,so much that I know he would'nt mind my reading because he has nothing to hide. She never did correspond, she must have felt uncomfortable.My question is was that an open invitation or what?? Such thoughts can lead to action. I want some serious answers, I am a Christian woman with a conscience, my hubby said "it was no big deal."Please do not give silly answers, I'm fully aware of the obnoxious world we live in. My hubby helped me write this , we are both curious for the right answer to this scrupulous question. Thank you for your help.

2006-09-09 16:32:37 · 25 answers · asked by smily 2

2006-09-09 16:32:17 · 18 answers · asked by Cardinal64 2

I have been married most of my adult life,so being single is hard enough for me.I found out in march of this year that I have a brain disease.The jerk I was married to for the last 5 yrs...that made me believe he loved me sooo much,turned out to be an abusive(verbally)drunk.It broke my heart,but when we found out I was sick..he threw me out.He told me to"take my broke down dying a** on down the road".I'm single now..and still hurting from that.I do want to find someone special,but how fair is it really to ask or expect anyone to want to get involved with me now?I get very lonely and I do miss having someone beside me,being held by loving arms and having someone to lean on when I'm at a low point.I just don't think I could take anymore rejection at this point.And to be honest..I really never thought about dying alone.Now I'm very insecure,and don't think it would be right to start a relationship that would last only a few yrs. What would you do? I'm not into casual sex or one nighters!

2006-09-09 16:20:57 · 38 answers · asked by desguisedangel06 2

2006-09-09 16:17:49 · 49 answers · asked by hazelshine 4

I've been married to my wife for ten years. All this time she has basicly done nothing. I have had to work and do all the hosework, cooking and cleaning. I wake up at 4:00 in the morning to get to work and get to bed at midnight because I have so much to do.Im exausted! As fst as I can bring money into the house, she spends it. Although I have always had well paying managment positions, we have always lived check to check or worse. I always stayed with her because I thought it was my obligation to our chidren. we have four incredible kids. For years I have talked to her , argued with her and even cried but nothing has changed. 4 months ago I fell in love with another woman and she made me see that my life doesn't have to be like this. I began making plans for divorce. My wife found the information from the lawyer and swears that now she's going to change. Is it too late? I have such resentment and loathing for her and I really want to be with my new love but is it fair to the children?

2006-09-09 16:07:36 · 48 answers · asked by Kungfudad 1

My husband has consistantly had problems speaking up on my behalf. For example, a few years back when we were in college, our boss made "a pass" at me. More specifically placed his hands on my hips and proceeded to rub himself against my "back-side" thinking it was "cute." After telling my husband, he just kind of shruged it off saying "that was just how he is." After seeing how upset I was and telling him I deserved an apology, he went to the manager to let her handle the situation rather than handle it himself. I wasn't wanting him to "punch his lights out," just wanted him to tell his boss how inappropriate that was and out of respect for both of us to apologize. I asked him why he didn't handle it himself and his reply was that "he didn't want to lose his job." This was a part-time $9 hr position. It hurt me really bad then, and it still does. He didn't even plan anything for my college graduation. He's always willing to do anything for me but what matters most. HELP

2006-09-09 15:58:52 · 16 answers · asked by LULU 1

on this forum?

2006-09-09 15:56:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

financial ties? of course; not really unhappy, just not happy. I mean, how could you be. No, the problem won't change. It's been his same problem for years even before marriage, but now life seems too short to not be truly happy. Remember, no kids. It's a caring, roommate kind of love, never has been very passionate or successful {I mean our sex life} Help!

2006-09-09 15:50:02 · 14 answers · asked by C S 1

We have been together for 1yr Feb. I have known him off and on for 12yrs. He's a great guy. He just had his share of acting like a kid. I know I'm not the only person in the world to do this. So please no insults. Thank you.

2006-09-09 15:38:50 · 8 answers · asked by rose_adair 1

28 years old and my stupid *** husband is in jail. its been 8 months and he still have 9 more months to go.but i am so darn horny its ridiculous.i have been craving sex for the longest.but dont want to cheat eather. my neiborgh he flirts with me and it drives me nut. what if i go for it once,just one time and thats it.doing it my self dont satisfy me anymore. whats your opinion on this?

2006-09-09 15:34:18 · 10 answers · asked by super girl 3

have anybody did a threesome was it fun or what be real and not negative talking

2006-09-09 15:30:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-09 15:29:25 · 6 answers · asked by lil mike 2

Here are some of the things that straight-sex marriage has wrought through the ages: polygamy, child-brides, loveless arrangements, trafficked women, bartered wives, battered wives, raped wives, sexual slavery, child abuse and abandonment, racist miscegenation laws, and astronomical divorce rates. If gays are unqualified for marriage, what can we say about straights? If George Bush and his homophobic worshippers really want to defend the institution of marriage, they can begin by taking an honest look at the ugly situations within so many heterosexual unions in this country and throughout the world.

2006-09-09 15:21:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

please help me answer this age old question!

2006-09-09 15:20:43 · 3 answers · asked by julikae32 2

2006-09-09 15:19:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do they suffer the divorce stages as well and can the rebound rule apply to them as well?

2006-09-09 15:01:55 · 15 answers · asked by Alijoy 1

2006-09-09 14:59:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-09 14:44:48 · 18 answers · asked by KATBLACK :) 1

How do I get my husband to stop watching so many sports? I could run naked in front of him when he's watching and he would push me out of the way. What do I do?

2006-09-09 14:44:36 · 12 answers · asked by sweet 5

2006-09-09 14:37:52 · 20 answers · asked by s_kay0113@sbcglobal.net 1

2006-09-09 14:27:32 · 36 answers · asked by J T 6

She was 110 and now she is 240 pounds. She repulses me. I cant even get an erection looking at her fat azz anymore. We dont have any kids so I think now is a good time to bail. I pride myself in keeping in shape but she got obese just like her fat mother.

2006-09-09 14:27:15 · 40 answers · asked by Read the Bible 1

A question for my friend she has just stop seeing this guy after a 5yr relationship and they have not talked in over a month. Is he sitting back waiting on her to call him? She is very hard broken by this but she says the relationship is going no where and she wants out. She really loves him he purchased her a car last year. Does he care anything about her at all or what?

2006-09-09 14:21:38 · 12 answers · asked by blessings2 1

2006-09-09 14:14:58 · 20 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6

2006-09-09 14:05:42 · 32 answers · asked by s_kay0113@sbcglobal.net 1

Just curious. If a married man has shown interest in her by way of flirting, what is the most common next step in order to get it going with this man? I know it sounds like a trashy question, but just curious as to how an affair starts.

2006-09-09 14:03:13 · 18 answers · asked by Confused_Rep 4

Because if I get caught I will be forced to kick her out of the house.

2006-09-09 14:02:38 · 34 answers · asked by dchella 2

2006-09-09 13:53:18 · 7 answers · asked by mgadbow 1

but know it's not the same I'm not that happy, I haven't make love or have sex for 10 weeks My wife is always attending the baby I work all day long from monday to saturday and sunday that it's my only day off she does n't have time for me, before the baby was born she was a lot nicer and know I feel like rejected and some times I feel like she does n't love me any more 'please' give me an advice what should I do about it

2006-09-09 13:48:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous