2006-09-09 15:19:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you want to waist energy on hating someone. Just let it go, and be happy that he/she is an ex. Try and focuse on what you have learned from the situation that will better equip you for future relationships. Trust me, its way better revenge to move on and notthink twice then waist time and energy on resentments. Don't let them have any more control on your emotions. You will fell much better,
2006-09-09 15:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by shrimpseys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't hate your ex, only because it just torments you you can hate a person all you want and for all the days of your lives. But really your only hurting your inner-self and the person you hate well she/he aint feeling a damm thing ! think about it don't waste your time hating..
2006-09-09 22:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by luuvabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother wasting the time and energy honey. There is a saying that goes "Most of those you hate, don't even know you hate them; and the ones that do, don't care". Find someone better and live well, it's a much better revenge!
2006-09-09 22:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...it's a waste of time. I don't know why you called it quits but I know you two had good times. They helped you to be the person you are today. They were a part of your life. If you hate them, then you will hate that whole section of your life and that's a total WASTE. Be happy, move on and you'll be fine.
2006-09-09 22:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by sugarbud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, get over it and move on. It's a waste of time and energy to hate.
2006-09-09 22:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't hate anybody. No matter what anybody has done to someone, hate only hurts the person who hates. So, it really makes no sense to hate, you're only hurting yourself. I hope this helps.
2006-09-09 22:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what happened to the extent of dislike but I think life is too short to hate others... especially ones you once loved
2006-09-09 22:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope i tried to hate my ex but i cant cuz i can remember all the sweet things he did.. and that makes me smile
2006-09-09 22:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by ohdarliingletgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is that hate? Over is over and nothing to look back.
2006-09-09 22:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by skytwin0608 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive him and you won't have to waste your energy being mad at him any more. Then you can begin to find happiness.
2006-09-09 22:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋