Do they suffer the divorce stages as well and can the rebound rule apply to them as well?
2006-09-09 15:01:55 · 15 answers · asked by Alijoy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes of coarse all of the break up is hard
2006-09-09 15:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very much so honey. When people get divorced, everyone seems to have their fair share of adjusting to do. The reason it's not emphasized on the person who leaves is because that person has already taken the time to figure things out and realize this isn't for them, when they do that, they almost always have a game plan. If you happen to be the one who left, without a plan other than just "getting out", well then, there is going to be some adjustments as you search for what you want in life. This includes rebound relationships.
2006-09-09 22:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I left an abusive cheating husband and for a year a divorce was all I wanted. But as soon as those divorce papers were signed and complete I broke down. Not because I wasn't glad to be out of that situation but because of the weight I had on my shoulders. My kids are going to ask me why I left their daddy and I'm going to have to tell them. And I realize that either way they were gonna suffer. And then there is the idea of being single yet agian. I have yet to meet a person who truly likes the "dating game" And there is the guilt for "giving up" on the person you love. Becuase when you have kids together you can't help but always love the person. It's just a hard situation all around.
2006-09-09 22:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by cloudberry84321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is 2/3 accurate and 1/4 definite...that leaves a marginalspace for the word GOOFED
2006-09-09 22:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, the person dissolving the marriage often carries the feelings guilt and hurt of this failed relationship, even though they might not realize it until the divorce is final and they are alone with themselves.
I firmly believe the rebound rule applies, which is why you should always allow yourself ample time to heal before deciding to date again.
2006-09-09 22:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by Godisgood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, divorce is painful and the kids will suffer together with them. Always think twin before going into divorce.
2006-09-09 22:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by skytwin0608 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes .. .Most people leave for good reasons,so they may not have the shock of being left but they still suffer.you still go Thu the stages ,you still feel the loss and pain unless you are heartless,the only difference is you go Thur some of it before you leave so you properly get over it quicker.you should still have a gap between partners.
2006-09-09 22:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe so especially if the leaver left because the other was unfaithful or treated them very bad. they still love them very much just somethings are very hard to get over and that will make the relationship a phony sham if they stay
2006-09-09 22:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by whiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes nothing about a divorce is simple..Especially when you tried your best to make it work...Just take it slow and start dating but slow..get to know the person before you go any further
2006-09-09 22:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really at that time,they are doing what they want to do,if all fails after they leave they may think about it,depends on why they leave.
2006-09-09 22:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the reasons the person left...
2006-09-09 22:04:00 · answer #11 · answered by limgrn_maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋