Can a marriage survive infidelity?

Answer 1

Mine sure the hell won't.The trust would be gone forever.

Answer 2

Everyone has a strong opinion about infidelity and what they would do in that situation. But, it all depends on both people, the relationship before and after the crime and what both people are willing to lose. I don't know how people can get past the trust issue afterwards. Yes, it hurts like death at first, but does it ever ease? My guess is, no. You will never truly trust that person again. Forgiving someone for making small mistakes along the way in the relationship is called compromise and accepting a person for who they really are without judgment. But, allowing someone into your heart completely and trusting that person with your whole being is true love. And, for the other person to, literally, toss that trust aside like a used napkin (for however short or long period of time) is inhuman. It's a personal decision that no one should have to go through. Sadly, it happens all too often these days.

Answer 3

Possibly, but probably not! Adultery is the right to a divorce says the Holy Bible. Even porn is adultery. Hope your marriage can survive the offset of this! Counseling and more time spent together can get you both focused on a successful marriage.
It depends if you love each other enough to get the right help you need...and that would begin with Christ Jesus. Forgiveness, Trust, and Being fully committed to your spouse and only to your spouse will be the obstacles which are the hurdles you will have to cross!

Answer 4

If the two people involved are mature inteligent then why not - - - this whole antiinfidelity thing is a crock of s h i t - - - this idea that two people must be pure holy untouched before settling into a monoigamistic relationship until the end of their existence - - - and whoa to the woman who remarries if her spouse dies - - -castigated for being a wh*re.' Augh - - - two people in a relationship should have the confidence and love for each other than cannot be rent asunder by one or the other snagging sex on the side. Peace.....

Answer 5

That would depend on many factors. Is the couple ready to deal with his/her infidelity head on? There will be trust issues, lies of the past, deceit and broken hearts to mend.

Answer 6

yes it can. as long as the cheating partner does his/her stuff discreetly.in that way u find that the other party does not find out. every normal person will get upset/ heartbroken or jealous when he/she finds out that they were cheated on . i am by no way encouraging/promoting cheating but i am fully aware that u hardly find a partner who will not cheat on u in some point of our lives. many of us sit and lie to ourselves saying "oh my husband/wife wont ever cheat on me" or crazy stuff like that.


btw. if there is cheating in a marriage then it must've been there before. so those who have this serious problem with infedelity should have done something way before marriage

Answer 7

All marriages need forgiveness to help breathe life back into the love you once shared. Talk openly how things led to that action, rather than the action itself.

Answer 8

Yes

Answer 9

sure, it depends on the two of you obviously but if you really think it's worth trying to work out it will. I've been there and 8 years later all is fine between us. And we do have trust with one another as well.

Answer 10

Yes, it can if both parties are willing to talk about what caused the person to cheat, is sorry for their actions, and the other person is willing to forgive them for doing it. Easy???? No way, and will take a long time to overcome....but it IS possible.

Answer 11

all depends on previes act,on how long you where married,any kids,finance,is the other part willing to forget..a lot of couples says yes,,you can forgive but every time you mad this is THE first think that will come out......YOU F..ing cheatter...you have to be strong mentaly to deal with trust again and never point cheatting out each time she/he is late