A question for my friend she has just stop seeing this guy after a 5yr relationship and they have not talked in over a month. Is he sitting back waiting on her to call him? She is very hard broken by this but she says the relationship is going no where and she wants out. She really loves him he purchased her a car last year. Does he care anything about her at all or what?
2006-09-09 14:21:38 · 12 answers · asked by blessings2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Heck no....he is out there trying to tap every piece of *** he can get ahold of right now. He has been with the same one for 5 years.....doubt he is sitting around waiting.
2006-09-09 14:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy.
I have a good friend that is a huge drama queen when it come to matters of the "broken heart".
When I have ended a relationship I move on, almost the same day. My grief period, for the lost relationship, is day or two after I realize, "this ain't working" and is often over, before I actually break it off
If I've just been on the receiving end (dumped), it takes about a week for the shock to ware off, pick myself back up off the floor and I move on.
In either case, I feel that if the relationship wasn't good enough to try and fix either by me or her, then it might not have been worth fixing - for lack of mutual interest.
If it's been a month and he hasn't called to at least say I'm sorry it didn't work out - or - to ask for something he left at her place... it's not likely he is going to call at all.
There are really two reasons for that (lot's of little ones too)
1. He's done, he's over it and he has moved on and his "pride" won't let him appear "weak".... by calling... so he doesn't, end of story.
2. He's playing her, power/control, (the guy waits her out then when she call's) it's the - "See I told you - you can't make it with out me" line of bs an abusive person would pull
-- I really dislike guys like that, they give us good (well ok, semi-good) guys a black eye too, when they pull cr ap like that. If he is that type (and you'd know it as her friend) help her - RUN again I say RUN - from that guy and don't look back. She's gonna' need professional help if that is the case.
Best of luck to both of you and thank you for being a good friend to her.
2006-09-09 21:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by charlie_2you 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not sitting waiting for her call... he's moving on and doing whatever feels good for the moment. If the relationship wasn't going anywhere... it was about time to end. 5 years is a long time... no need to waste anymore. If it didn't work in that time, it never will.
I'm sure he cares at some level... but men don't grieve the way women do. Men have a different attitude about it... and they don't waste time crying over what could have been. Don't make that mistake. Move on yourself.
2006-09-09 21:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by VixenMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he waiting for her to call him again? No. If she hasn't heard from him in over a month, he's moved on. If a man wants to call, he'll call. Does he care "about her at all or what?" Again, he's moved on....and she should too.
2006-09-09 22:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he realy cared he would not have left her without contacting her for over a month. She should leave him where he is and move on with her life.
2006-09-09 22:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't buy me love...if the relationship was going nowhere she needs to listen to her gut. He may take her to court over the car, was it a gift or a loan?
2006-09-09 21:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is not sitting back waiting for her--she needs to MOVE ON..As Jody Watley said, "hasta la vista--ba-bey"
Peace
2006-09-09 21:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, Move on! What does a new car got to do with anything at all?
2006-09-09 21:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he care? THEY BROKE UP... if he's got a brain in his head he is moving on with his life - without her.....BTW she OWES him money for the car....
2006-09-09 21:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would be an idiot to take her back, he already wasted five years with this indecisive friend of yours.
2006-09-09 22:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by Niche Jerk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋