who just had a baby and didn't ask you to go? My husband told me he was going to the hospital and just left without even asking me. I called him on the cell, and he said he was going to go pick up his guy friends then head off to the hospital. I'm like...well what about me? He's like...it's a guy thing.
2006-09-12 13:26:35 · 15 answers · asked by SimpleGurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As a wife myself I understand where you're coming from as I would feel unimportant and left out if this happened to me. I don't know what he means by "it's a guy thing" but I would suggest u have a talk with him when he gets home and let him know u feel left out of the picture.
2006-09-12 13:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are involved in his friend's life, then you should have been invited - no questions asked. Its actually very weird that he would up and decide to go on his own anyway - usually visiting a new mother in a hospital is a GIRL thing. Not saying that there aren't caring guys out there who are interested in seeing a new baby, but come on.. to go about it like that??
I would get upset, but you know what? I would also get in the car (or find a friend who doesn't mind driving me) and go to the hospital too. There is no reason for you to not see the new baby if his friend is your friend too.
2006-09-12 13:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if he didn't want to go with me at a different time. I'm not sure why all the guys would want to go to the hospital to visit but I wouldn't want to go with all the guys. I also would have been very uncomfortable if I was the wife in the hospital and a whole bunch of guys came to visit. I say don't sweat the little things it's not high on the bad thing to do list.
2006-09-12 13:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I'd be more surprised that my husband would be interested in someone else's newborn baby. My husband doesn't visit other people's homes, let alone visiting someone in the hospital.
I'd definitely be asking why he would be going to visit someone at the hospital, with or without me. I'm the one who goes to visit people at the hospital, not him.
As for him meeting other men at the hospital to see this baby, that's also not happening, because his friends all live out of state, so would be a really strange scenario for him.
2006-09-12 18:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know your husband best. Is this typical? It sounds rather fishy to the outsider. How likely is it that a bunch of 'guys' go off to the hospital to see a woman and her new baby???? My husband certainly would feel alittle awkward in doing that without me....so, I'd check it out...what are those boys up to....hmmmm??
2006-09-12 13:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by Nisey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off she had a baby and some guys want to go see her. That is a guy thing. Surely you wouldn't want to be the only women with 3 or 4 other guys would you?????????
2006-09-12 13:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go along with Bored at Work, and say all these guys went to see which one of them the baby resembles. That's the one who treats everyone else to cigars and drinks right after that, which IS a GUY thing.
Believe me, you wouldn't want to be at that celebration!
2006-09-12 13:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing a gal who just had a baby is qualified as a "guy" thing nowadays?? I musta missed something. Your husband is full of it. Ask him where he REALLY went.
2006-09-12 13:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what the hell is going on! his guy friends are more of a priority than his wife
2006-09-12 13:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by rsclflat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just weird. I wouldn't know what to think of that, but i'd be upset too.
2006-09-12 13:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by ~SSIRREN~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋