Marriage & Divorce - 12 September 2006

What things would u do???

2006-09-12 09:35:09 · 19 answers · asked by **What??** 4

On Labor Day. We had the visitation and burial this past weekend. What is the best thing I can do for my husband now? He seems OK and has come to terms with it because she suffered for a long time - since April on - so he knew she wasn't going to make it. He doesn't really want to talk about it, seems like he is fine - but besides listening, what can I do to really support him? Just give him his space?

2006-09-12 09:27:41 · 19 answers · asked by Rachel 7

i have a attorney, but she seems to be lost now. I paid to much money to fire her, so I need help please.

2006-09-12 09:26:58 · 13 answers · asked by michael d 2

After I do the research on how to do it right.

2006-09-12 09:24:06 · 28 answers · asked by parkdad73 1

I really can't explain what i'm really trying to say but bare w/ me on this one. I had this conversation with my husband and he said that i'm looking for him not to trust me but thats not the issue i wanted him to take notice of me pay some attention...i did many things to get his attention to see if he notice me or anything i did or be concern. I noticed one time when i was out late 3am he didn't call on me to see if i was okay or where i am anything of that nature... zI thought that what people do when when they care or love someone..this happen many times. I've called him whenever he's out to see if he's okay if out late or he's traveling on the road..but when im out he doesn't call to be concern.. i did befriend a male friend for 2yrs(Platonic) to see if he would notice and he didn't. So does that mean he trust me b/c he didn't pay attention or did i betrayed his trust in me. Im not sayin for him to hire an investorgator or be a spy ..i just need attention.show me that he care.

2006-09-12 09:23:29 · 13 answers · asked by emotional misstres 2

ive narrowed it to 4 tracy lawrence -paint me a birmingham, tim mcgraw- its your love, lonestar-baby im amazed by you, or mariah carey-joyride(wifes idea)

2006-09-12 09:23:09 · 10 answers · asked by m203 3

In the state of MD, is it legal to date while separated? He filed for divorce in April, so he is legally separated. Does MD have any laws about that kind of stuff and if so, what are they?

2006-09-12 09:23:08 · 11 answers · asked by GooberPea 1

2006-09-12 09:22:44 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1

2006-09-12 09:19:42 · 6 answers · asked by lilhouis 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for more than 2 years but the second half of the relationship we have been in a long distance. I love him very much, I am not interested in any other guy and I care about him deeply. It's not been easy for us as we cannot see each other very often and we have had some arguments and fights. However, we always stayed together. Recently I have been thinking about our situation and I wanted to know some asnwers. I asked him the other day about our relationship and what was his expectations and if he saw me in his future. He said that he has been doubting our relationship as we have had too many arguments and fights and he said he cannot forget them. He said he is not sure and he needs more time. I told him that I was upset with his answer and I told him to make a decision. He said that he needs time to think about us but after a week, I pushed for an answer again. He said that it's not so easy just to decide like this about future and he needs to think

2006-09-12 09:17:24 · 10 answers · asked by violet b 1

I have been married for almost a year now. Before we were married, my husband and I had a great sex life, having sex quite often. Since the marriage, however, sex has almost gone by the wayside. He is not afraid to show affection to me in public but at home, there is hardly any affection at all. Sure, he gives me hugs and kisses like usual but in the bedroom there is nothing...hardly anything at all. I don't know what I did to make him lose interest in me but I'm willing to try anything to save my marriage and gain my husband's interest again. I want him to make love to me like he used to but I don't know what to do.

2006-09-12 09:13:37 · 30 answers · asked by Lisa M 1

we've been married for 9yrs. We've had many problems along the way. I had been faithful to him up until about 4 months ago. Before this happened I was very depressed and lonely even tho I had my husband here, he wasnt here for me. He would never talk to me or do things with me and our kids. Hed come home from work and not even tell me hello, never kissed me goodbye when he left. I was tired of feeling so alone and unwanted. I found my ex on the internet and we kinda rekindled what we had before and then my husband found out. We both realized how much we loved each other after this happened, but now my husband constantly says mean things about what I did. Sometimes even calling me a cheating *****. He tells me to go find this guy again. I have told him how sorry I am and why I did it, and he said he forgives me but his actions do not show it. I love him and I want to be with him, but I cant take his comments anymore. Hes killing our relationship slowly. He wont go to counseling

2006-09-12 09:04:29 · 22 answers · asked by Crystal 2

and gone to two different restaurants at the same time and sped things up? But nooooooo, Daddy had to stay. We waited in the mall lines for an extra 10 minutes because of that brat.

2006-09-12 09:03:10 · 5 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

my husband accused me of having an affair but then realized that he was being perenoid I actually had to leave the house and stay in a motel for about 2 weeks it got so out of control that my 17,18yr olds had to pin him down. When i moved out he apoligized to us. Were back home and have been for a year and half now were getting along but it just bothers me so much. It has caused me so much pain i just can't get over it. I've gained so much weight because i have no desire to do anything. We used have sex everynight but now its like every 2 to 3 weeks apart. Things have just changed so much that it bothers me I hope this doesn't seperate us. At the time of him accusing me I believe he was under the influence of using cocaine which he denise. do you think we will every be strong in our marrige again

2006-09-12 08:55:33 · 12 answers · asked by proudgrandma41 1

My Ex's new wife to be wants nothing to do with my 15, and 10 yr old children. this forces the older one to play parent for the younger one. have tried talking to ex and he is a hot who threatens me with court. Any advice appreciated, thanks

2006-09-12 08:54:13 · 8 answers · asked by murdoch 2

How did you know you had married the right person. The one God wanted for you.

2006-09-12 08:53:25 · 22 answers · asked by lindsay 2

why it so hard for a woman with a kid to find a man? why are men so scared to comit ? though it is the men who part away with their wives leaving the kid under her care

2006-09-12 08:50:07 · 32 answers · asked by pt0101 p 1

My husband and I just got back together after being separated for 6 years. I have been trying for the last 4 to reconcile with him. He has just moved back home, and everything has been great. But, he has a friend that lives about 6 hrs. away that he has been talking to for 2 years. I wasn't concerned until she started calling a lot more lately and when I tell him it bothers me that she will only talk when I'm not around he says..."well, I'm not giving up talking to her for you or anyone else." Am I just being silly, or does it sound like there is more to this than he is admitting. He swears nothing has happened between them and they are just friends, but now I'm starting to wonder.

2006-09-12 08:48:57 · 28 answers · asked by Joy S 1

ive been divorced for about over a yr and have to kids with my ex wife,every time i go there to pick up my kids or somthing elese she always naked and its realy starting to make me feel uncomftable,i get a little excited sometimes and dont what to do should i act on it and get naked to is she doing this on purpose ,should i tell her to stop i dont want to offend ger -please help thank , i know this is probaly the qwrong place for this but i need a womens opion,casue you know what guys are going to say

2006-09-12 08:46:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been divorced for about over a yr and have to kids with my ex wife,every time i go there to pick up my kids or somthing elese she always naked and its realy starting to make me feel uncomftable,i get a little excited sometimes and dont what to do should i act on it and get naked to is she doing this on purpose ,should i tell her to stop i dont want to offend ger -please help thank you

2006-09-12 08:45:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do people feel about cousins getting married and having children. I feel it's a but weird, and have never fancied any of my many cousins.

2006-09-12 08:44:04 · 14 answers · asked by pantocool 1

The situation: we have been married for two years. He cheated on me the entire time we were engaged (one + year) and cheated 3 months after we got married, same girl. Then he called her and said he wanted nothing to do with her, hated her etc. Hasn't talked/seen her since. Two years pass, he confesses to cheating on me (first time I have any inkling of it), and says he wants a divorce. At this point I tell him I want to work things out. We separate. I tell him that I want to work things out and he wants time, but wants to work things out. After two months separation we decide we want to work on things. But only after he confesses to cheating on me during the two months we were separated. He has said he's sorry, he'll change, etc. Just found out that I am pregnant, yes, with his baby, happened before the separation.

And for those of you who think that it must have been my fault b/c I'm ugly, fat, etc. I'm NOT.

2006-09-12 08:43:08 · 17 answers · asked by Please use other door 2

2006-09-12 08:23:49 · 19 answers · asked by qqqq w 1

is it a ball and chain, someone who u finally chose to share ur life with, OR does it start out the 2nd, but become the 1st?

2006-09-12 08:22:33 · 25 answers · asked by sasmallworld 6

My parents have been having problem on and off for awhile but nothing to bad and know my mom is really depressed and i keep trying to cheer her up and nothing seems to work its only been a few days been it feel like years that shes upset and i know its because of me and my brother. my mom gets mad at me easy for small things so i get mad and a tend to be snappy and my brother is just a plain jerk and he is only 9 i try telling him to stop being so mean but then again im being snappy and my mom blames the way he treats her my fault which it is, i love my mom to pieces and hate seeing her so upset but i cant think of anything to do i hate arguing with her and even when we are in a good mood we still end up getting into a fight now she wont even talk to me and i hate it cause i feel like shes not even here anymore someone please help im lost and cunfused and feel stuck!!!!

2006-09-12 08:20:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

In Washington State. Also, how will credit card debts accrued by husband affect me in a community property state.

2006-09-12 08:20:10 · 5 answers · asked by starbright84us 2

I'm trying to make out wedding invitations. I have a girlfriend that has moved and evidently changed her number. I have her last known address, and I can just send it there in hopes that they'll forward it, but is there any other way to obtain it?

2006-09-12 08:17:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i have been married for 4 years....i love my husband...but...on one hand i dont wanna be married anymore and we barley have a sex life.....i dont wanna have sex with him...theres no other man or anything like that....whats wrong with me?..please help!!!

2006-09-12 08:13:45 · 31 answers · asked by red head 1

since my hubby is gemini he keep changing every moment. He wont stick to whatever he says a minute ago. he never keep up his promises to his wife and baby but he keep up with his friends and other females .

2006-09-12 08:13:02 · 11 answers · asked by kiran123 2

We were driving home from marriage counseling and he was so quiet (which is usual, so I didn't wory about it.) When we got home, he changed clothes, ate, took a nap (all without a word to me) and then just silently starting packing his bags?

I asked him where he's going and he told me (incredbly calmly) it did not matter now that the divorce papers will be in the mail in a couple of months and just walked out on me! I've called his cell but it says my number is blocked. The therapist says he "shut down" in therapy. What is going on?

2006-09-12 08:09:42 · 10 answers · asked by Selly 1