ive been divorced for about over a yr and have to kids with my ex wife,every time i go there to pick up my kids or somthing elese she always naked and its realy starting to make me feel uncomftable,i get a little excited sometimes and dont what to do should i act on it and get naked to is she doing this on purpose ,should i tell her to stop i dont want to offend ger -please help thank you
2006-09-12 08:45:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and she dosent do it in front of the kids
2006-09-12 08:48:25 · update #1
LOL....Yeah I believe she's doing it on purpose. She's teasing u and playing a game to see what u will do. I guess I could say it's a type of power play she's using against u to see how far u will go. What u do with it is all up to u.
2006-09-12 08:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt she is doing this on accident, but don't know her motive behind it.
You have a few choices that only you can make. Act on it and maybe feel guilt after wards ... who know what happens in such a situation. Politely tell her it makes you uncomfortable. Talk to her about it ... see where she is coming from and what she is looking for ... you never know ... stranger things than re marring your ex wife have happened.
Just be sure that you know what you will and won't do in a relationship ... don't just assume you are both on the same page and hop into her bed only to be surprised at what she really wanted.
Best to talk about it.
Good Luck.
2006-09-12 15:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex's behavior is sick. Especially considering the children are around to see her naked. Tell her you will stay at the front door until she gets some clothes on. If this continues I would report it to the court or caseworker who gave her custody of the kids. Children should not be subjected to such behavior from a parent.
2006-09-12 15:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by _me_ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you really are an adult, could you please do society a favor and learn to spell correctly and use punctuation? Secondly, why is this a problem? Be a man and simply tell your wife that it makes you uncomfortable and you'd like her to stop being naked when you come by for the kids.
Lastly, if she refuses to stop, then you are more than welcome to get naked as well, so long as your children don't see it.
2006-09-12 15:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's funny! I'm sorry...yes, she is doing it on purpose. If it makes you uncomfortable ask her to meet you somewhere to pick up the kids or bring a friend along with you if she refuses. I would love to be a fly on the wall if she answers the door naked then!
2006-09-12 15:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by Carolyn G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are she's trying to get excite you, yes she is doing it on purpose. But consider two things: 1) Does it really bother you? If so, then tell her....who cares if you offend her? She's your ex for a reason. 2) If it doesn't bother you, then make her an offer.
2006-09-12 15:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by Please use other door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want her to think that you want to get back together you need to tell her how it makes you feel. Not only that, but there's kids around and that's not proper behavior for the kids to be seeing. It's all based on what you do or don't do and how you handle things.
2006-09-12 15:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by missfinley2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting in bed is not going to bring the old relationship back.....if u 2 could not live together then there is no point in being selfish just to get some excitement out of sex.
2006-09-12 15:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by Farhan L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its a matter of her lack of propriety (which it seems like...she's just being a malicious ***** in my opinion), have her start meeting you in a public place to pick up the kids, rather than going to her house. I double-dog-dare her to show up at the park naked!!
2006-09-12 15:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just honk the horn and make your children come out to your car and get going before you get involved again. She's just teasing you and seeing how you will respond. Don't let her win.
2006-09-12 15:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋