Marriage & Divorce - 12 September 2006

I am going through a divorce and I want to purchase a property. Papers were filed in febuary and we seperated. I am in the process of purchasing a home and I was told by my loan officer that I need a quit claim deed signed by my spouse because the divorce isnt final yet. My X is very uncoopertive and refuses to sign. Do I really need that quit claim deed or she owns half.

2006-09-12 20:36:12 · 5 answers · asked by scruffydon01 2

2006-09-12 20:24:41 · 21 answers · asked by RAQUEL V 1

I have a friend (yes..a real friend) who would never ask this ..so im hoping to get answers and use them on her..
She is married for a long time, her hubbys best friend has been married the same length, they work together and they play together every weekend, they have known each other as couples there whole friendship, lately she says she feels so compelled to the best friend and she feels he might think the same thing, they are both unhappy in there marriages but stay out of loyalty and for kids..she does not have the nerve to ask him how he feels, just assumes it but he does not show her any real signs..she dont want to cause huge rucus if shes wrong and dont know how to find out with out that happening..doesent want to be unhappy any longer

2006-09-12 20:16:32 · 16 answers · asked by Snake happy 1

my ex as of today made me feel like i was abused. for 2 years he would say one thing and do another. he would always say he is trying to change then later would say he is not doing anything to me. this went on for two years. was this mental abuse?

2006-09-12 20:11:20 · 14 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

i found out my husband my having affair, he say sorry to me and ask me to forgive ,shud i forgive him,i really dun know what shud i do ? ,i have 2 lovely kids.he having an affair with his coworker , when i was on confinement at my mum place,he told me he regret it and he say he love me ,he ask me to give him a chance.i am very confused ,shud i forgive him ?

2006-09-12 19:54:08 · 41 answers · asked by sadlady 1

I am a healthy, pretty 35 year old woman with two young boys.I live a very busy life and clean all day and night (clean freak) so I am on Paxil for that. But for some reason I feel like when I am expected to have sex, it is just one more chore to do before bed...does anyone else feel this way? I have had other men turn me on and I am seperated but I can go with or without...what is wrong with me, and NO I do not like other woman. Please help

2006-09-12 19:46:37 · 22 answers · asked by bunnylatte 2

Which is worse?

2006-09-12 19:42:19 · 23 answers · asked by Direktor 5

we been married almost a year and all we do is fight.
when we were dating he was nice to me and he wanted to spend time with me but now were married all he does is yell at me and calls me bad names and he never wants to spend time with me.
i know he works but when he does have time he spend time with me he don't he go hang out with his friends and when i ask him what he doing he say it ain't none of my business and he never tells me anything he think its none of my business and when he is in a really bad mood he hits me.
i can't even see my friends and sometimes my family.
im so alone and confuse and don't know what to do please help...

2006-09-12 19:40:41 · 31 answers · asked by Ms. Rockstar 3

2006-09-12 19:33:03 · 14 answers · asked by lucky 1

I'm married too. Well, we have not pursued this affair any further. Should I? I love my wife even though she does not put out much. I know I'm not looking for any physical relationship in this, but things can go wrong.

2006-09-12 19:30:02 · 19 answers · asked by nice guy 4

With most Marriages end in divorces. Well, what's the point in getting married right?

2006-09-12 19:20:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-12 19:19:21 · 11 answers · asked by cotterall&elaineadams 2

2006-09-12 19:15:17 · 4 answers · asked by franklin4253 1

it hurts so bad,its just been 6 weeksintoour marriage,though menalways think its ok to cheat but i dont.i went through his phone and saw allthe details.what doi do?i'm so pissed andi love him so much.

2006-09-12 18:51:41 · 20 answers · asked by sweetheart 1

2006-09-12 18:47:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

She has a good heart and puts up with a lot of my quirks. But in return i put up with all of her crap and shes got a slight psycho side to her.She hates to compromise and isnt too understanding on most matters. We have been together for almost 2 years and its like a 50 / 50 thing whether or not i want to be with her forever. How and when will i know? Should i know already? Also im a very easy going guy and try to give her everything she requires except for marriage.

2006-09-12 18:44:56 · 20 answers · asked by newyorktocountry 2

Start to plan their weddings out before they even get in a relationship?

2006-09-12 18:44:10 · 19 answers · asked by Avia 3

So my previous question got a lot of people saying things about me getting married so young. Ok, well just because I'm engaged does not mean I intend to marry right away. I'm currently in school, as is my fiance. I've already got my EMT certification and am going to be a Paramedic. He's going for a physical therapy certification, then maybe sports medicine...he's undecided. Anyhoo,we've both got a good head on our shoulders and understand that marriage is a BIG deal. I intend to have a stable CAREER and a HOUSE before even planning the wedding. We made the decision to live together because it felt right. He wanted to put a ring on my finger bc he's romantic and very passionate and wanted it on me ASAP. lol. In all honesty,we've got a great thing going. And we work very hard (both full time employees w/good pay). Along with going to school. I just wanted to know,do ppl think we're wrong for getting engaged so young? Even tho marriage isn't in the near future? Just curious...Thanks !

2006-09-12 18:26:28 · 13 answers · asked by *Juicy Princess* 3

My wife and I have a "date night" Saturday.
Its been a long time.
No kids around either - yay!
I want things to be perfect....
I am 43, and less than 6 months ago had a complete physical and everything checked out just fine.
I am hoping to avoid going to a doctor - just for this 1 night.
How can I get just 1 Viagra pill before then?
I'm willing to pay, travel (Chicago area)...whatever it takes.
Any suggestions?

2006-09-12 18:19:12 · 8 answers · asked by ace_of_hubs 1

I have asked many questions before..I am lost..My husband came home and was almost bed time for our son he went to settle him in and I walked by his cell phone..I normally don't check on him or spy on him..But I took a peek and he had a new message at 9:30 and I knew I hadn't left any..It was the other woman!! I got the number just before he came in I memorized it by chance and left her a message with MY cell number and calmly explained who I was and she had best call me back! Well he threw the phone and ranted what was i doing? Me what in god's name was he doing? Well he says now he doesn't know what he wants. he did this once before and we came back together after a year apart and some mental help on my part.(I had a nervous breakdown.) I feel as though I am headed there again. I don't know what to do..I am a fulltime student with no income on my own with 2 boys 1 and 2 years old to take care of..Yes he will have to pay but doesn't make much as it is...Please help anyone someone!

2006-09-12 18:13:37 · 53 answers · asked by *bossy* 4

about his mother giving birth to a bastard brother that he committed suicide in front of her?
If he were still alive when she gets the $900 million, at her death he would have to split the money with his illegitimate brother. Could the loss of $450 million played poorly on his mind or the fact a brother born out-of-wedlock stole his inheritance?

www.societyofbastards.org
www.oneminutemarriage.us

2006-09-12 18:03:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i feel trapped in my marriage. for about a year and a half now my relationship with my husband has been moving in the wrong direction. he does not communicate and isolates himself in our other room for hours and hours at a time. when he finally comes out to eat or watch tv in our livingroom he is drunk and quickly passes out on the couch. i feel stuck in this situation and really don't know where else to turn or what to do or how to handle this. i can use some serious advice.

2006-09-12 17:55:31 · 24 answers · asked by non-curious 2

Married in Sri lanka and living in US. Baby is a US citizen. Was separated from my wife for more than 2 years. So I got the divorce in US. Can I get married in Srilanka? Was the US divorce internationally valid.

2006-09-12 17:52:44 · 5 answers · asked by Iro 1

I have been happily married for 4 years and have 2 beautiful children, We could never imagine doing this to one another.

2006-09-12 17:51:32 · 18 answers · asked by lil sexy 2

at what age should do you think it would be ok for dad to not walk them to the door when returning them to mom? they are 13 & 10

2006-09-12 17:50:16 · 19 answers · asked by Mrs.Robinson 1

I have on 2 occassions made reservations to take her and me alone, (no kids) to her favorite place in the world, Eureka Springs, Arkansas for a weekend, both times she cancelled the reservations w/out telling me until I started to pack, ... for the answer of get off my butt and out from in front of the computer and talk to her, I am self-employed and am on the computer working alllll day I never have played a computer game or even "surf".
I check email in the evening for about 10 to 15 minutes , then put the youngest daughter to bed and go to bed myself.I have tried unceasingly to "Listen" and talk when it is ok. I just need to communicate w/another human being (not the sex stuff) just talk to a caring female, you guys are great, I will not trouble you further, this is my lot to bare, good night.

2006-09-12 17:50:07 · 4 answers · asked by kiny 2

can you really get P W without having sex

2006-09-12 17:48:11 · 16 answers · asked by the boss 3

Why do men like woman who are hard an mean and treat them bad. Ones that are demanding and cruel. When there are so many woman that would give you so much. So many woman have so much love an caring in there heart. I dont understand this because I know so many woman that want to be loved an would treat you so good, So why are you with these woman?? im stumped !!

2006-09-12 17:40:43 · 9 answers · asked by BonnieJ 4

2006-09-12 17:23:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife and i have been married almost 7 yrs separated now for almost months we been staying to gether on weekends living apart during the week.A big issue we have is we dont have kids together we tried but our luck wasnt with us we couldnt conceive im 39 she is going to be 49 she wants a kid together so we have some sort ofa thing together that is both of ours she has kids from previous marriage but they are grown. i feel she is to old for a baby and she wants to travel and stuff but its not likely if we have a kid or baby around if we adopt. if we adopt by the time the kid is 20 she will be 70 and me 60 i feel its going to be a financial burden and i feel where we live doesnt help things because the cost of living is so expensive there is no way i feel we could start living our life together enjoying life especially if we have a young kid around. i accepted it because not everyone is lucky enough to have a child we tried and it just didnt happen what could i do to save my marriage

2006-09-12 17:19:31 · 20 answers · asked by alldayworker 1