I have on 2 occassions made reservations to take her and me alone, (no kids) to her favorite place in the world, Eureka Springs, Arkansas for a weekend, both times she cancelled the reservations w/out telling me until I started to pack, ... for the answer of get off my butt and out from in front of the computer and talk to her, I am self-employed and am on the computer working alllll day I never have played a computer game or even "surf".
I check email in the evening for about 10 to 15 minutes , then put the youngest daughter to bed and go to bed myself.I have tried unceasingly to "Listen" and talk when it is ok. I just need to communicate w/another human being (not the sex stuff) just talk to a caring female, you guys are great, I will not trouble you further, this is my lot to bare, good night.
2006-09-12 17:50:07 · 4 answers · asked by kiny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The old taken for granted... Happens all the time. Was in the same type of marriage for twenty years... If she refuses to change move on there is someone out there who will appreciate the kindness and attention you offer. I found it and it's wonderful.. Good luck...
2006-09-12 22:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her where she wants to go and when, so you can make reservations. It may means that she wants to go with her friends. That means you will be taking care of the children while she is out.
Remember the when is very important because you need a babysitter for the children, if you are going with her.
2006-09-13 00:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she checked out of the marriage, what woman passes on a romantic get away? Talk to her this behavior is not fair to either of you.
2006-09-13 01:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't know what she has. Have you wondered if there's someone else? Women usually love a devoted husband and father...
2006-09-13 00:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by breaker_1020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋