Marriage & Divorce - 12 September 2006

Would i be able to leave this mistake of a marriage, without cheating? #2: Would it be wrong if i dont tell him im giving birth to our baby untill after it is done, because he gave me the thought that he did not want to be there. He said his mother will be there , he might be working or at school when im having the baby. every person i talk to says to leave him,but im scared he might make it hard for us to end this marriage . i will have problems the rest of my life with who can watch the baby and when. i trust no one with a newborn untill the baby reaches a year old. or older

2006-09-12 05:42:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

REALLY threw his stomach?

2006-09-12 05:39:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it possible to be happily married when you have so much responsibilty or does the stress get to you and make you feel too drained to enjoy your marriage?

2006-09-12 05:36:55 · 22 answers · asked by tenaciousd 6

I really love him. I'm just getting burned out going to prison after prison to visit. The drive kills me. And I am tried of being alone. What is a nice way to let him go??

2006-09-12 05:34:57 · 17 answers · asked by chocolate 1

Most women seem to complain about men missing the toliet when we urinate. Do they think we can actually aim that well with it? Don't they know about dry tip and what that does to trajectory? What about the random pube hair that is deflecting the stream or sometimes making it shoot in two directions at once! That is why someone created the urnal. The toliet is best suited for women. It is not our fault, is it?

2006-09-12 05:28:24 · 21 answers · asked by thebuffettour 2

There is no abuse. We don't really argue..just bicker, but we have nothing in common. I admit that it is all my fault - I thought that him loving me was enough. We are just two very different people. We have been together for 7 years. We have two children. We bicker over everthing. We never agree because we are so different. I can't help but think my dream man is out there and I will never meet him because I am stuck in this unfullfilling marriage. Is this selfish?

2006-09-12 05:27:11 · 33 answers · asked by ac_arrowsmitheye 2

Engaged?? Single?? Who on this site is happier.

I personally think the Married and Engaged are because so of the divorced people on here seem BITTER.

2006-09-12 05:26:29 · 27 answers · asked by Raineybaby 4

Cause he is jealous of what you are wearing and threatens to throw it away when you take it off. Then in a pm acts like nothing happened.

2006-09-12 05:26:08 · 20 answers · asked by 2strongfor2long 3

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2006-09-12 05:23:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Men like to feel that the woman is in need of him, and the more she is in need of him, the more it turns him on.

and women like to feel wanted, the more the man want her, the more she feels turned on.

so does that explains whay there are many divorces? because women become more indepented and has less need from the man?

2006-09-12 05:09:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you are in a horrible situation why should the kids suffer. I read all the time I should leave but for my kids. LEAVE. The kids would be better off in a healthy environment. I am glad my father and mother divorced ,alot less yelling. If the men and women are cheating or abusing what are the kids getting out of it.

2006-09-12 05:07:45 · 24 answers · asked by Raineybaby 4

about having affairs with married men but then there are all these married women on here asking stupid questions like "Im married but love somebody else. Is that ok ?". How come its good for you but not good for the rest of us ??

2006-09-12 05:06:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-12 05:06:02 · 31 answers · asked by plasticfloor 1

She has acctually forged my name to several documents and then says that since we are married she now has the right to sign my name. I don't think this is correct but I need some sort of input before consulting a lawyer.

2006-09-12 05:04:09 · 14 answers · asked by Gris Gris 1

I just found out that my husband cheated on me twice in the past year. Of course I'm hurt, but what now. After being lied to for so long, should he be trusted? How do I go about healing? How long does that take? I'm thinking of staying, but can't find a reason why I should. Except for the fact that we've got four kids. I've only been working for a few months so I don't really have any money of my own if I do decide to leave. If your spouse did cheat on you, what did you do? How did you manage to look them in the eye again? How do you "make love" when the love has been tarnished? I feel so used. How is forgiveness supposed to happen if I can't forget what he did? I know this is a lot of questions, but I'm tired of trying to come up with solutions on my own. Please be serious, because my pain is very real. Thank you.....

2006-09-12 05:02:30 · 11 answers · asked by vitamin D 2

my husbands best friend? our marriage is on the rocksand ive been keeping in touch with his bf and ONLY talking. However, we have both developed feelings for each other and temptation is killing me! I dont want to cross that line and be unfaithful. What should i do ? Im so confused .

2006-09-12 05:01:44 · 34 answers · asked by angeleyez 3

2006-09-12 04:58:55 · 31 answers · asked by HAS 2

I am in a complicated situation, because even though my boyfriend and I have been together for only a year, I can't really "take the relationship as it goes" (as he wants) because we were already planning to marry about 8 months into the relationship. I was the happiest person because he was everything that I wanted and I couldn't believe how lucky I was to be this young and have found the one who shares my dreams of love and sharing a lifetime together... then suddenly, the day came when he told me that he wasn't sure he wanted to marry so young, and that he was confused about what he wanted, and that he's sorry he hurt me, but that this is how he felt at the time when he told me he wanted to marry but doesn't feel that way anymore. He's dangling me along with a "maybe someday," & my Q is, should I stay? Is it right for me to want to be sure where the relationship is going before comprimising more of my time and emotions? Or should I be more understanding bc he's just out of college?

2006-09-12 04:54:44 · 15 answers · asked by loveissoooocomplicated 1

"You have the right to remain silent... anything you say can and will be used against you, over and over and over again!!!"... is one that made me laugh..Add your own!

2006-09-12 04:53:42 · 12 answers · asked by snorkelman_37 5

Or is it torture that your married and having sex with the same guy every day? Not that it isnt good but it is the same guy for 11 yrs.

2006-09-12 04:53:08 · 12 answers · asked by 2strongfor2long 3

I asked my girlfriend of two years to marry me and she said no. She is in the middle of a divorce wich i thought was the problem. but It isn't she said we are not ready, even thugh i have a career so does she. we have money and a 4 yr old boy at home. Should i be upset with her answer?

2006-09-12 04:46:33 · 18 answers · asked by slushy842003 1

Some people seem to lack what being married should mean...why is that? I have so much love for mine after being together for 5 years. We are a blended family. He is my best friend. He gave me 2 wonderful step-sons. Hes not a perfect man, but no one is perfect. It seems like there are so many selfish people in this world now days that everyone just gives up when times get tough, people cheat, they lie, i just dont understand where peoples morals and values went. and why its so hard to be a loving family that compromises and works together. Why cant people figure out if getting married is the "right" thing to do before jumping in with both feet. No one is perfect, tough times do and will happen, its how you work through them that matter. Of course we have our fights,and things like that just like everyother couple out there.But even in those times i love this man more than anything.what has happened with todays couples?Im just curious because the divorce rate is nuts :) have a good day!!

2006-09-12 04:39:32 · 9 answers · asked by jess_n_flip 4

Man boobs or a beer gut?

2006-09-12 04:33:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

when we marry, we all take vows,In these vows It says till death do we part, when you go before a court you are asked to raise your right hand and swear to tell the truth, you can be jailed for lieing, but then after taking vows,which is to swear to God, a judge will grant divorce, and this after knowing the facts that, this couple has given their vows to God that they would sty together till death. how can a court grant a divorce, and it really be legal, it goes against the VOWS that were made to GOD.

2006-09-12 04:32:21 · 12 answers · asked by theladylooking 4

Are u happy with the way ur living or could u have did better????

2006-09-12 04:27:47 · 27 answers · asked by **What??** 4

I have a friend who does that, and I say it's normal....But alot of other people, mostly women, say that it isn't. I've seen married guys have porn, and people are usually ok with that. It's not like he says he is going to do anything to them....He does sometimes joke around, along with his wife, that he has a another girl. I know for a fact that he wouldn't do something like that.....It's a long story if how I know.....No, I never tried anything. ;) Pure unadulterated curiosty. ;0

2006-09-12 04:20:57 · 30 answers · asked by ? 3

What topic do men like to talk about the most?

2006-09-12 04:20:05 · 24 answers · asked by kookie 3

Why is it that stay at home wifes think that they are considered real human beings and a normal part of society, when they really aren't respected and they are considered lower class?

2006-09-12 04:17:48 · 49 answers · asked by J-DOG77 1

He holds a job as a school administrator (30yrs now), so during his time off (summers, weekends) he stays out until 2-4am. We are separated for 6 wks, married 6 years. According to information I have gathered, I enabled his behavior, as did his family (mother, cousins, etc.) but it came to a breaking point where I couldn’t stand his actions anymore. Many things improved after he left(verbal abuse, cursing, coldness, loud snoring because of the alcohol). But I have started to get lonely on the weekends and wonder why he won’t call. I know better in my HEAD, but I hate the fact that my marriage is about to end.
Someone told me a possible reason he won’t call is that I won’t enable him anymore. I know he’s drinking and seeking out other friendships. We could have had a great marriage & I'm sad. My question? Opinions about why he won’t call and could it be that because I won’t enable him, he is looking for someone who will? We're 54, so the foolishness should have stopped long before no

2006-09-12 04:13:53 · 14 answers · asked by watergirl54 2

It's an ex-gf of mine ... we saw eachother after about 3 years and sparks flew ... just like before we broke up, but, now I'm married and have a sense of less importance towards my wife since I've been with this girl again. It's really hard and ugly, because, my wife is sooo loving and always happy and kills me to see her so in love. Please only serious answers!!!

2006-09-12 04:11:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous