is it true? Men like to feel need it? and women like to feel wanted?

Question

Men like to feel that the woman is in need of him, and the more she is in need of him, the more it turns him on.

and women like to feel wanted, the more the man want her, the more she feels turned on.

so does that explains whay there are many divorces? because women become more indepented and has less need from the man?

Answer 1

Yes I believe this is a turn on for the two, and I believe that alot of divorces take place when the nature is taken to extreme. Couples still need to have their own person that can make logical choices and decisions that when together come up with answer concerning the family can be respected by all.

Answer 2

I think this is a individual question rather than a gender specific attribute. I want to be wanted not needed, I know that my significant other wants me to want him with a slight hope of need, security and all. Most men today want a level playing field and women hopefully want their independence so that the need doesn't become a tool to abuse! The divorce rate is a tragic display of foolish people forgetting the promises that they made before GOD and the person that they are divorcing, some divorces are a must because of violence and adultery, the marriage in those cases represent the lack or ability to live up to the promises and are null and void anyway!

Answer 3

Yes

Men were designed to pursue as a lover, to work for the family. In short being needed gives him the sense of "manliness" no woman could attain. Example in man and wife, if the wife can do WHATEVER the husband can do... or probably better... the man's self-esteem lowers. He is supposed to be the head of the house. Sometimes, men need to feel the part of the 'hero' so that he feels satisfied that he was able to "provide".

For women, they were designed to attract or to seduce. That is why women flirt. (Of course some men do this too...) If she is 'desired' she feels beautiful. With the constant images flashed by the media about 'skinny' 'beautiful' 'hot' women... the average woman is pressured to level up to the "presumed norms of beauty." Examples in lovers, the best way to turn on a woman is to be told, "you are beautiful" the self-esteem of the woman would be boosted and then she would realize that somebody desires her even if she's not the sexiest, not the prettiest or not the most popular woman alive.

Answer 4

The biggest "reason" for the increase in the number of divorces is the "NO FAULT" divorce laws.. People tire of a spouse like they tire of a piece of furniture or a car, and decide to sell the goods and change models thinking somehow that will fix things. When in actuality it leads to multiple spousal changes over a person's life.

In my not so humble opinion divorce should be difficult to obtain except when there is abuse.

People should be mandated to attend marital counseling for one year, if they want to file for divorce. They need to see the impact of divorce on children before they have children.

Answer 5

Men do like to feel needed. Alot of times, when the man doesn't feel needed he will look elsewhere to fill that void.

Women, love to feel wanted and desired by their man. When, a woman doesn't feel wanted that's the prime time she will look elsewhere. If you want to keep your woman make sure she knows just how much you want her and how beautiful she is to you. Make her feel like the most beautiful woman in the world.

Women: if you want to keep your man don't become all clingy and helpless. That's a turn off. But, instead seize little opportunties to let your man know you really need him and appreciate him.

Answer 6

This for the most part is true. Woman tend to feel more wanted because of the fact there more sentimental, they want to feel that the man Wants to be with her, instead of just wanting to be in her. theres a big difference :-P Men tend to want to feel like the woman needs him. Like oxygen or water, or food. i know that when im with my girlfriend nothing turns me on more than when she bits on my lip, then pulls my hair and lays back then says, "Omg baby i want you so bad! I want you to...." lol cant say the rest, children might be reading. but u get the point. hope this helps ma.

Answer 7

it's true-i think what happens is that if a woman does not feel wanted, she may start to become more independent and THEN the man feels not needed, and then comes divorce or separation.

Answer 8

It should be 'Men need to feel needed, women need to feel loved'

since most ignore this basic rule it may have an impact on the divorce rate, yes.

Answer 9

WELL THAT MAY NOT BE THE REASON FOR SO MANY DIVORCES BUT WHAT UR SAYING ABOUT MEN AND WOMAN IS TRUTH MARRIAGE COUNSELORS SAY IT ALL THE TIME

Answer 10

I dont know I guess it goes by the relationship.