Marriage & Divorce - 12 September 2006

its been 2 days now since he asked me to leave i have not really got no where to go how do i convince him to let me stay at work it out im scared of him cuz of what he ,may say next..........

2006-09-12 02:41:08 · 13 answers · asked by skinnyminniekitten 1

2 months ago I got married unexpectantly, while on vacation with my long time boyfriend. we got married at his sisters house, and now I want to have a reception so we can invite our friends and family in our celebration of marriage. being as though te wedding was not planned, I just wanted some advice on planning a reception. what type of food should be served, what type of gifts do you normally recieve, activities. Please I never been to a wedding or reception so I don't even know anything about what goes on. shoukd I be dressed up, what should I wear?

2006-09-12 02:37:34 · 10 answers · asked by keke16 1

My ex is taking me court in December for a divorce.Actually,we agreed to go for a divorce about 20 months ago.And I moved out of the house voluntryly but 2 weeks later I realised that it was a wrong decision to divorce.I tried to sit her down and explain to her that I still love her and I do like to come back home.But instead to listen to me she asked her father to help her change the house doors locks so that I couldn't move in.
She've got boy friend(s) now and she doesn't look at my side any more.But she still allows me to have a good contact with our child of 3.5 years.I still love her and I can't get her out of my head.And at this moment I can't keep any relationship without bringing her into discussion.By December the law permit her automatically to go for divorce with or without my agreement.

2006-09-12 02:31:59 · 27 answers · asked by devout_kindhonest 1

I have a friend who i've known for 20 years. We are both married now and bumped into each other a year ago. We were always great friends but have started a relationship. I like him and have and am developing feelings for him. we have been seeing each other once a month and have great sex!

2006-09-12 02:29:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is the thought behind this: Whatever God says to do and we do it, we are worshipping Him...right?

2But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. 3The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. 5Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
1 Corinthians 7: 2-5

These make it clear that sex is important in a marriage.
Now here is the real question........
Have you been following God's word here when it comes to sex in your marriage ladies & gentlemen? Or have you been depriving each other?

2006-09-12 02:28:41 · 8 answers · asked by Dead 2 Self 4

Me and My husband have been married for 3 years. We have our fight and we don't like some things about each other but we work at are marriage. It seem like everyone is complaning. So is any one happy?

2006-09-12 02:12:42 · 38 answers · asked by Lori K 3

2006-09-12 02:10:07 · 28 answers · asked by JANE D 1

My husband really hurt me... and on the outside it appears as if we talked and worked things out. But on the inside I still feel very bitter and hurt. I want to let this go, but I am having a lot of trouble doing so.
Is it really possible to just forgive and forget and move on? How does one do that?
I just don't feel like I have ever had the personality to let things go.
Is it possible for me to really get over this? I love my husband, but I just can't get over the hurt he has cause me. Am I fighting a lost cause?

2006-09-12 02:08:39 · 13 answers · asked by Legs 4

I'm the one thats leaving my fiance today.He claims I drag him down,cause I don't work.But I haven't been able to because I take care of his family.He agreed that I could do this I have 1yr and six months left and hes thru with the law,my loves son.I geuss I'm just a little taken back by this mess.I caught him lying about money he spent when he got mad at me and left overnite.He got mad because I confronted him about it right after he said in threee years he had never lied once to me,well yes he did.He also told me he had been cheating on me,maybe when he leaves I don't know,But i half *** don't believe it,but I do have a feeling he has done something i would'nt likeanyway that came out too in the fuss.He thinks I'm jealousNOT.I just don't like his best friends wife that always wants sex,threesome it pisses me off more than i get jealous I'm not into that.The only other friend of his is a married woman that flirts,his words "TOUCHY FEELLY relationship,and more. I feel lost.but brave:)

2006-09-12 02:07:59 · 4 answers · asked by sandy v 3

We have an honest open secure relationship and have even talked about a threesome with another woman but that would be something both of us participate in. He told me if i wanted a sex buddy, just one guy I knew and all it was was non emotional sex. No kissing involved, he would be ok with it. This freaks me out. How should I take all of that?

2006-09-12 01:50:56 · 47 answers · asked by shimmers76 1

Its sad we've been real close for three years now.It just isn't working for me as well as him,I guess.I'm not patten myself on the back,but,I give of my heart much more than he does or did,he has some health issues,but thats not why I'm leaving,He wants me to work and me too,but his son pays me to not work so I can be available to drive him to and from work,second dwi so he has no lisence,my love and I BOTH promised his mother that we would help and they don't want me to work.Before this came up with his son(dwi) I didn't work because my love got hurt bad nearly died.He was off of work for almost a year.I took care of him,never left his side,literally wiped his *** and gladly,because I nearly lost him.Brain injury,broken jaw,stroke,numbness everywhere.Before that,I was off from my job due to a knee injury.When I got my release to go back to work,less than a week later,I had a gall bldr attack and was in hospital for 10 days.We have been thru alot together and today i leave.ouch,not now

2006-09-12 01:48:20 · 11 answers · asked by sandy v 3

2006-09-12 01:39:24 · 23 answers · asked by R I Y A 1

Boyfriend is moving out in two weeks says he doesnt want to raise a child and needs space after 3 years.

2006-09-12 01:39:15 · 16 answers · asked by postal_marg 3

2006-09-12 01:36:59 · 29 answers · asked by R I Y A 1

2006-09-12 01:33:03 · 26 answers · asked by R I Y A 1

2006-09-12 01:18:59 · 3 answers · asked by jo-jo-maddie 1

My wife has never had an orgasim with me during sex. She has been using toys to help her in private. She doesn't like oral sex and she literally pushed me away when I tried to be involved with her during her self stimulation. I am very frustrated because I am feeling neglected. And she won't communicate with me honestly. Am I being selfish? Women.....help me out here.

2006-09-12 01:16:11 · 10 answers · asked by maf20057 1

Please note if you are a man or a woman.

2006-09-12 01:08:42 · 17 answers · asked by linux_newbe 2

They are very different categories and very different sets of people. So you have newlyweds mixed in with bitter & cynical divorcees.
I can understand "Singles & Dating" being lumped together but who thinks there should be two seperate "marriage" and "divorce" categories??

2006-09-12 01:08:21 · 11 answers · asked by ding diddy 2

Have any of you alone or together with other women raped a man?

2006-09-12 01:04:55 · 27 answers · asked by kallan k 1

2006-09-12 01:01:50 · 23 answers · asked by suchita 1

This morning there was not a lot of milk left. When I was making my cereal my spouse started calling me selfish and piggish for using 2 cups of milk for my coffee and cereal. There was more than enough left for them to have their breakfast as well.

This is basically the same amount of milk I consume every morning, so it wasn't like I was drinking more than usual.

I am diabetic so I have to measure out my portions so I can properly medicate myself... so I am sure of the measurements.

After trying to point out there would be more than enough for both of us repeatedly I got irritated because they wouldn't just let it go or at least make their own breakfast to see if there would be enough milk or not. Instead they kept accusing me of being selfish. Then they accused me of wasting milk because I rinsed out the measuring cup after emptying the contents into my cereal bowl and coffee.

This led to a fight right before I left for work.

Am I in the wrong for getting angry over this?

2006-09-12 00:57:22 · 23 answers · asked by SomeGuy 1

I'm just wondering - I never want to be married myself - I don't believe in public relationships. No disrespect to anyone - I just want to hear people's opinions on this matter. Thanks in advance, Suneel.

2006-09-12 00:57:15 · 15 answers · asked by solo 5

i have recently discoverd that my husband has been unfaithful, and would like to know what benefits i would get if and when i am a single parent? i am not currently employed and have a one year old son, does anybody know? i wont have any appliances like a fridge or bed or sofa or anything so i want to know if i can get help with rent and buying essensial items for my home.

2006-09-12 00:51:40 · 11 answers · asked by carrie 1

i am a single parent, and i refuse to get married jus so my baby can call someone daddy!

2006-09-12 00:50:29 · 9 answers · asked by what???? 2

I'm going through a messy divorce after being in a controlling relationship and I've booked for me and my two children to go on holiday to Florida, however, my husband has threatened to cancel the passports so that the children can't go!

Why would he want to ruin the children's chance of going to DIsney World, and is there anything I can do to stop him from doing it?

2006-09-12 00:50:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-12 00:39:08 · 3 answers · asked by Ray B 2

2006-09-12 00:33:28 · 19 answers · asked by matrimony x 1

2006-09-12 00:29:14 · 21 answers · asked by Robert01Hutton 1

a man tell other people that he loves you and you are important to him, but he never tell it to you personally, plus the fact that he really hurt you emotionally because he never shows that you are really important to him. he also knows that you really love him and you are always doing your best for him to see that he was important to you, and although he knows that you really loved him
he did bad things that hurt you and just tell you in the end that he is just testing you if you really love him so dearly. and because of that it makes you very weak and always crying and when he knows that he told to his friend that he was already tired because i was always crying and very weak.

2006-09-12 00:20:34 · 3 answers · asked by gwenneth 1