is the guy like this have thier own point, telling that he loved you but never shos it?

Question

a man tell other people that he loves you and you are important to him, but he never tell it to you personally, plus the fact that he really hurt you emotionally because he never shows that you are really important to him. he also knows that you really love him and you are always doing your best for him to see that he was important to you, and although he knows that you really loved him
he did bad things that hurt you and just tell you in the end that he is just testing you if you really love him so dearly. and because of that it makes you very weak and always crying and when he knows that he told to his friend that he was already tired because i was always crying and very weak.

Answer 1

Everyone has their own ways of showing people how much they love the other! But it sounds to me like he is just not telling you or showing you that he loves you at all! If he truly loved you he would not be doing all of this emotional crap to you to make you cry!!! He can see & feel how much you love him, but instead of returning that love to you he is out bragging to his friends! If he can tell them that he loves you then it doesn't make any sence to me why he won't express & tell you how much he loves you!! I think that he was just trying to impress his friends, and now that he has impressed them by telling them how much he cares for you, he is now able to tell them that he is tired of you because you are a cry baby and that you are very weak! It sounds to me like he is the very weak one here because he is not strong enough to want to tell. show, or give you the true love that you honestly deserve! If you are not married to him,(or even if you are)! You should just get up and go your seperate way's! Let Him Become The Cry Baby!!!!! If he truly loves you like he has been telling his friends, then he will come to you and tell you. But if he doesn't then that will tell you that he never loved you to begin with!!!!!!!!
Good Luck
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God Bless!!!!!!

Answer 2

This sounds like emotional and/or physical abuse. RUN AWAY FROM THIS JERK AND GET HELP NOW! Ask a friend of family member for help. Chances are they already know its going on and will leap at the chance to help, but DON'T no matter what go back to him. If you don't get some kind of help (ie counseling) you will end up in another relationship like this one.

Good luck, God bless

Answer 3

gwenneth,
guy who can tell their loved one "i love u" are not macho , infact they are weak & lacking in showing emotion. instead to hide that weakness, he turn around & blame u as weak. he playing the emotional game with u to his advantage. a good relationship is 1 that gives to each other not take or use.
if u aren't married i rather u go your separate way, he will be taken aback coz he may be planning to dump u. do it to him 1st.

hope this is helpful, peace, man