2006-09-12 01:36:59 · 29 answers · asked by R I Y A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is so clear that you are suffering. Your husband is having an affair with another woman and in fact does not want to be unfaithful to her by being with you at all. Your question is about the best approach to win him back and whether he could ever love you again.
Ironically, the best approach might be to become strong enough that you no longer need him. Let me explain. Although being strong is not, in itself, a means to winning back unfaithful husbands, it is often the case that as long as he feels that any decision about where he wants to be is up to only him, he will feel free to chose whatever option he wants. If he feels that a door is closing to him, he just might realize that he doesn't want that door to close. As long as you are making it clear that you want him back and his mistress is making it clear that she wants him as well, he can just take his time and be where he wants. And maybe if he gets this one "out of his system" as your friends say, he will come back. And then maybe he gets another one "in his system" and he leaves again, knowing that you still want him back. Et cetera.
2006-09-12 01:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as it is infatuation its ok.But see to it that it does not go beyond infatuation.You can also hint or suggest to your husband in a manner which will make him understand that you can also be infatuated by another man.But before that please verify.Dont make a big issue and drive your husband to that Another woman.You have not mentioned whether you are sure about his infatuation.Have an open mind and verify.Good luck.
2006-09-12 01:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this infatuation taking control of your marriage? Or is it just a sexual infatuation and it makes him want to make love to you? I can understand if it is bothering you, believe me, I've been there. However, if it is just a simple turn-on for him, let him be. If it is something that is tearing you two apart then maybe you should explain that to him and try to get him away from that. Maybe there's something she does that he wishes you would do?
2006-09-12 01:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by angels_smile75 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fairly some human beings have an interest in persons whilst there are married. the version is not any rely in case you pick to guard it. you assert this guy is proper. I doubt he's. in case you have been in a courting with him, i'm particular you will possibly locate something demanding. What your doing is fantasizing a pair of guy you won't be in a position to have. Its the won't be in a position to have that makes all of it that greater attractive. All marriages have a moments the place you do not fancy the different a million/2 as plenty. in case you pick to maintain your marriage, in case you sense its nicely worth saving, then positioned your ideas of this guy to the back of your head and concentrate on your husband. you could pick a transformation in habitual. Time on my own mutually. Make customary dates with each and each. Do countless issues mutually, going out for a meal and drink, the photographs, cycling walking etc.
2016-10-14 22:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by janovich 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
though ur question is not quite clear but that is a possibility the the reason behind his behaviour may well be the love for someone else or his infatuation. You have only been talking about his mistakes...how and what is your behaviour towards him isn't quite clear...you may have to do some retrosepction of your behaviour towards him.
2006-09-12 15:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by sweeeeeeeeet sood 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is actually a statement. But it is hard to not be a male and in a relationship that is wonderful and everything we need and still, be astounded by the wit and beauty of another woman. It's a struggle, and we are also dissapointed in ourselves as well. However, I saw a movie where a woman tells her man....
"I don't care where you get your appetite, as long as you come home to eat."
That makes alot of sense to me, but I'm a dude.
2006-09-12 01:42:00 · answer #6 · answered by American 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What is you Question. He can be infatuated by many woman as long as it stays there. He has not done anything wrong- has he.
2006-09-12 01:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope it is a film star or something because if it is someone who you know or he knows this needs sorting and honesty will have to play a huge part,,infatuation is not love or even want,,it stems from something deeper so you and he will have to get it out in the open,if he sees her to chat,that has to stop,any contact should be stopped until he can identify why he feels this way,,it is likely it has nothing to do with her but more about himself.
2006-09-12 01:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably he requires more attention than you are thinking. Don't give much importances to that relation and try to give importances to his routine without letting him you know his relation with other women. It's a passing phase. No women can continue this type of relation for long
2006-09-12 02:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by lkslalit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, having a crush on someone other than your significant other is no big deal (it is normal) as long as it stays at just a crush. I wouldn't worry unless things begin to get physical between them, then I'd kick some *ss!
2006-09-12 01:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by T.G. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋