Me and My husband have been married for 3 years. We have our fight and we don't like some things about each other but we work at are marriage. It seem like everyone is complaning. So is any one happy?
2006-09-12 02:12:42 · 38 answers · asked by Lori K 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marrage is a hard road to hoe, are you happy more than you are sad is the question. I have been married 43 years and there has many hills and valleys. Two people can't live together and not have some problems, you won't like one another all the time, this won't happen. You have to learn to give more and exspect less, try to out serve your pardner. If you did this , then would'nt it be nice! But, it don't always work this way , one of the pardners usually will be the selfish one and self centered. You always have a choice , so let no one mistreat you and demand respect. We are all Gods property and we need to take care of it. No marrage is happy all the time, and those that say it is , LIE
2006-09-12 02:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am married for 18 years. I married when me and my husband where very young. I still love him, in a different way that at the beginning. You must know that there is no marriage without ups and downs and it is good to be so.Otherwise it would be very boring. The important think is to feel that he will always be on your side, in front of anyone but he will be the first one to tell you when you are wrong, to be sure that you will always tell each other the truth, no mater if it is a pleasant one or not. You must never tell the stupid words ,,I told you so". You must feel like you can tell each other everything and not be afraid that the other one will judge you.
2006-09-12 02:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mena 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We have been together for 10 years and married 9 and i couldn't of asked for a better man. Yes we have our fights but we both get over them in a couple of hours and we never go to bed mad, no matter how mad we could of been with each other, we never ever go to bed mad. We have 3 children and one on the way. Can you imagine how boring a marriage with no fights or dislikes would be. I am very happy and wouldn't change him for anything or anyone else:)
2006-09-12 06:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by ange!s26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very much so! I've been with my husband for 4 years, married for almost 3. I got married at 19 and everyone critizied me on a day to day basis. But it's the best decision I have ever made, and wouldn't change a thing! Everyone argues over the silliest little things...and if you don't, it's not real. Good Luck & Best Wishes for you!
2006-09-12 03:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by DLicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are happy as ever! Been married 7 years and counting. We fight about mostly, little stuff about how to deal with the kids. Other then that things are real good! I love my husband more and more as the years go on!
2006-09-12 02:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course you are not the only ones happy ~ I love my husband. we have our good days and bad days, but the good FAR out number the bad. October will be 6 years. Our daughter is 2 1/2 and is the love of our lives. She makes everything seem better. But, it is hard having a child and still taking care of your own needs. The baby comes first, then you work on your problems and life. But, at the end of the day, a nice little snuggle from the one you love is a wonderful feeling.
2006-09-12 02:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by JUNONNKI 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After 10 years of being together but only 5 years of marriage i can tell you this...... it is hard.... we got preg when I was 14, got married when i was 19 and we were happy till we got married and we moved away from my family to his new military base... I was miserable and sunk into a deep depression and after a year we split up... but he went to Iraq for a year, came back home and we agreed to be friends for the sake of our son... we ended up back together.... We had to learn to communicate every feeling we have, I had to learn to not turn to the couch when I was upset or feeling down. It takes alot of hard work, and on most days it's not fun. But I can tell you that since we got back together, we have been the happiest we've ever been. We make sure to slow down and just enjoy each other, and now that we are happy and have a strong marriage, as soon as he gets back from Iraq we are going to try to have another child.
The best advise anyone can give you is to work on it.... even go get help if you have to... but please don't bring any children into you're marriage until you both understand that marriage is a commitment. Sometime's divorce can't be helped, but, people never try to fix their problems in their marriage... it's easier to be mad and stubborn... most of us never want to admit when we are wrong but are always pushing for our spouse to admit when they were.... you can't have a marriage based on the other person taking the blame for everything that has gone wrong. It's a team effort and you have to work on it everyday for the rest of you're lives.
2006-09-12 02:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by jessidawn_69 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm very happy. I have been married for a year and a half. We've had a few bumps in the road, but overall things are really good. She is 6 months pregnant and I think our baby has really made us realize how much love we have for each other. Things are great!
2006-09-12 02:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by michaelyoung_airforce 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am happy. And lucky.
Now, I am pretty sure we get on each other's nerves from time to time, but fortunately we don't argue or fight. Why? What is htere to really fight about anyway? If you loved that person enough to marry them then you should love them enough to compromise from time to time and they should do the same with you.
And again, if you liked them enough to marry them the you ought to like that person enough to want to spend time with them now. And make them happy. It goes both ways and each person should have as a plan to try to make the other person happy or smile at least once a day.
It's not that hard - or at least it should not be. I honestly don't get (understand) couples who are bent at each other all the time.
Oh yeah, 3 great years. And by the way, I golf and go out with my friends and she sometimes goes out with her friends - it's healthy and normal.
2006-09-12 02:21:36 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage takes work. You have to compromise with each other. You have to except their faults unless of course it is abuse or anything like that. We all need to learn how to say we are sorry when we are at fault for arguing. Some marriages are happier then others. I love my husband and truly do. I cannot say that marriage life has all been blissful like I said it takes work some days are good and some days are bad.
2006-09-12 02:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋