I have a friend who does that, and I say it's normal....But alot of other people, mostly women, say that it isn't. I've seen married guys have porn, and people are usually ok with that. It's not like he says he is going to do anything to them....He does sometimes joke around, along with his wife, that he has a another girl. I know for a fact that he wouldn't do something like that.....It's a long story if how I know.....No, I never tried anything. ;) Pure unadulterated curiosty. ;0
2006-09-12 04:20:57 · 30 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it is very normal, all married men or just men in general will do this. As they get older they seem to slow it down a bit.
2006-09-12 04:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by trish p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's fairly normal. You mentioned he's young. How young? Early 20's? How long have the two been married? I've been married 8 years, and I still point out "hot girls" to my wife, but just to tease. She does the same with "hot men," to me so it's fair. When there is a problem is if it's excessive or constant. Otherwise, it's just fun, unless there are actions involved as well.
Look, but don't touch!
2006-09-12 04:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by hammer6505 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think old men do this too. It even becomes more acceptable as they get older and I mean like nursing home old. I don't have a problem with my husband noticing a beautiful woman, but it would be disrespectful to me for him to go on slobbering about her. It's a lot more acceptable if I'm the person who brings up the conversation and give him room. I'm not threatened by that and I'm not going to get jealous. Jealousy is for little high school girls and women who married cheating husbands.
2006-09-12 04:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, just because you get married does not mean we are dead. It is perfectly normal to notice a hot women (or if you are a married women, notice a hot guy). The problem comes if you take it to the next level and actually do something with that person. Looking is OK.
2006-09-12 04:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by b_iceman2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! It is also normal for old married men to talk about young hot girls... Men are men! Most married males do this no matter what age. That's just another thing that makes them men!
2006-09-12 04:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL men will continue to talk about hot girls. Its just what they do. I have plenty of friends, married, single, etc. and all the men still talk about hot girls. Some couples are a little more open and can joke freely about such things while others are a little more reserved and don't find those kinds of jokes funny.
2006-09-12 04:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by Meg...Out of Hybernation 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for all married men regardless of age to talk about hot women. My b/f and I talk about them all the time. I don't even care to look at men anymore, I have one I'm more than satisfied with, the only thing to spice up our relationship would be another woman!!!
2006-09-12 04:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will always talk about other women whether they are married or not and whether they are young or old, tall or short, thin or fat ... I do and I also joke about having another woman (although my wife doesn't find it funny because I did once have an affair which nearly ruined everything)
2006-09-12 04:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only normal for young,but middle aged and old married men as well. We all know women look and talk too ,just fewer guys seem bothered by it . People look, talk, think etc.etc. That's just being human.
2006-09-12 05:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I do think it's normal for men to continue to NOTICE girls whether they are married or not... talking about it is not necessarly a "normal/abnormal" thing, more of a choice and a personality thing.
2006-09-12 04:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by Linda K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋