Cause he is jealous of what you are wearing and threatens to throw it away when you take it off. Then in a pm acts like nothing happened.
2006-09-12 05:26:08 · 20 answers · asked by 2strongfor2long 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I only wear jeans and a nice shirt not even too tight. We have 3 kids and he says it's my fault I look better now than when he met me.
2006-09-12 10:56:33 · update #1
Your husband has jealous and control issues. This is the first sign of abuse. You need to get help for your family fast. Speak to your husband about this issue. If he doesn't get help you will start to see this issue escalate into verbal or physical abuse. He is already emotionally abusing you.
You have a relationship warning sign right under your nose
If he tells you who you may be friends with, how you should dress, or tries to control other elements of your life or relationship.http://www.heart-2-heart.ca/women/page17.html
2006-09-12 05:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you give him reason to be that way? Is what your wearing, reveling? Or, Is he just too jealous? If ,you reassure him. How much you care for him. And, what your wearing is appropriate. Then, I think, you are in a bad relationship. And, it will get worst. Talk to him. How you feel.. If things don't change. It's time to go. Don't live the rest of your life with a controlling person.. It usually gets worst. Good luck. Take care..
2006-09-12 12:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Daris G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I decided at a young age, I would not marry someone who acted like I was his teenage daughter. I chose a man that would never behave this way. And if he started acting this way, I would get him a brain scan first to make sure it snot the result of brain tumor, then if I get a negative result, leave his sorry a##. Women are adults and should be treated as such not "ifs' or "buts" about it.
2006-09-12 12:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by TrueSoul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear.....please listen to me.....ultimatley I think you should leave him. I had a guy like that and it got real real ugly. I was with him for like the first year and a half and I just kept reassuring him that I was NOT a flirt and that I loved him. But it was never enough....he tripped out too much. Acting like nothing happened hours later. He had some serious problems. Mental problems...
Jeleousy is not love.
2006-09-12 13:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by annette s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on where you work. If it is a strip club then he has a valid reason for his concerns. Otherwise, he may have some insecurity issues. If you are on here asking if you should leave; you probably conveyed that to him at some point and this has only added to his insecurity. Wake him up early and have sex with him. Let him know he's the only one for you so that when you leave he isn't so jealous.Reassure Reassure Reassure but DON'T QUIT. You are entitled to a life too.
2006-09-12 12:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Question hits home here from a different perspective.....there is no place in a relationship for uncontrolled jealousy......however, is it jealousy.....my wife is a nurse and all too often, unfortunately wears nothing under her whites......it is way too obvious in thin white pants.... I have objected on occasion and she may wear pantyhose for a week and right back to nothing.....jealousy is not the problem here....lack of consideration is definitely a concern.
2006-09-12 14:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by Robert D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should you re-think what you are wearing...
You chose him, you chose to marry him, did you choose a psychopath or did you choose a reasonable guy? If you chose a psychopath then these are the consequences of your actions, if you chose a reasonable guy, maybe you should re-think your wardrobe.
Please don't tell me that he is a psycho but you didn't know it... either he always has been and you chose to ignore it or he has recently developed a genuine mental disordered. In which case he needs to see a doctor.
2006-09-12 12:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if hes acting like this and youre only going to work, thats awful. Whos to say it couldnt escalate to physical abuse? Mental abuse is bad. Get out while you can. You deserve better! Good luck!
2006-09-12 12:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would if i loved him enough make a slight change to my style and see if that made the difference. If it doesn't then toss him out.
2006-09-12 12:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by val h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not stay with someone like that, unless your work clothes are really that revealing. What do you do for a living?
2006-09-12 12:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋