I've gone through many questions and I'm amazed at alot of the questions of jealousy over minor things. I don't get mad if my hubby wants to go to the strip club once every 6 months with his buddies.
I don't get upset if he wants to do things by himself or run errands by himself.
If he looks at another woman I don't get mad.
I hope I'm not the only one that isn't the jealous type cause no wonder why men think women are crazy, some of the things people are getting upset over amaze me. PLEASE donot take offense to that but to me its amazing
2006-09-12 13:30:58 · 28 answers · asked by wilowdreams 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm with u sister. I trust my husband and I don't need to monitor his every move 24/7. He and I used to go to strip clubs once in a while, we watch porn together or I let him be. If he glances at another woman walking down the side walk, I don't go ape **** on him and most importantly, I allow him the space to do his own thing as he allows me the same space to do my own thing.
I don't pretend to understand "all" men but I KNOW my husband and I understand where he's coming from.
2006-09-12 13:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a rare person. I think most people get jealous - it's just human nature. I think more people "express" their jealousy at different times, primarily because they may be feeling insecure and uncertain of their relationship with their spouse. Some may say that jealousy is a sign that you are in love; if you aren't jealous then you may not really care deep down inside. People tend to get jealous when they have something great, know how great it is, and feel insecure and afraid that they may lose it.
2006-09-12 20:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by achristian520 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you. If he doesn't give you a reason to be jealous, trust him. Looking is one thing, touching another. My man goes away to a car race once a year (a long weekend). I pack his suitcase & cooler. He wants me to go, but I don't like it. We go to the beach or festivals & I see him looking. I look too. But we're leaving together. Also, we both have friends in the neighborhood, so we will talk to other people at a bar. We leave together. That's what matters.
2006-09-13 12:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG...I thought I was the only one. I always say that I am the least jealous person on the earth.
Funny thing is... It usually causes the women I'm with to get upset with me because I don't get jealous... I never got it.
It's good to hear that there is someone else out there like me though.
Keep it up.
2006-09-12 20:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should allow your husband to go to strip clubs. Everything else I can agree with you on. I feel that if your enough for him though then he wouldn't want to go to strip clubs. He should not want to do that as well out of respect for you. I don't get jealous about any of those things. BUT if my husband ever went to a strip club I wouldn't be jealous I would be hurt.
2006-09-12 20:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by angie_adie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I applaud you for having security in yourself and in your marriage. I hope your husband knows how Blessed he is to have someone like you in his world. True, women often get upset over the least little thing, but sometimes they are provoked. Continue to keep your marriage free from stressful nagging and jealousy and he will continue to be happy and faithful.
2006-09-12 20:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Lady 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get jealous over those things either, why bother, it's a waste of time. I'd be jealous if a woman was coming on to him and he was returning the favor, but then I'd hurt him too so.
2006-09-12 20:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by ~SSIRREN~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are rare, but wonderful. You have a very lucky husband. In my opinion, jealousy cannot help. It only hurts things. Good for you. I hope you stay that way and that your husband appreaciates what he's got.
Cheers :)
2006-09-12 20:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Magina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are the only one if my husband would ask me to go do errands and then all of a sudden he dont want me to go i am goin to be pissed i dont mind if he goes to the stripp club just as long as i know were he is at and as far as hanging with friend he can as long as i know wher he is at
2006-09-12 20:36:17 · answer #9 · answered by kimbriang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, these people are weird... That just reassures me that I have a great marriage with a wonderful woman.
2006-09-12 20:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋