Or wives married to men with low sex drives? It's hardly ever talked about!!!
2006-09-12 14:26:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How does it affect your lives together.....would you leave your mate because of not having your needs met?
2006-09-12 14:26:44 · update #1
My husband has a low hormone level. We are still able to have sex and all, but he isn't as 'horny' as someone else his age. He is 26. I must admit i get sad about it a fair bit. He will say 'we will do bla bla later' and i get all excited about it and then...he is just too tired.
Sometimes i wish my husband was all over me like a horny guy lol but i will never leave him. I love him. And its not all about sex....thats just ONE way of showing love :)
I guess it makes him feel like less of a man...but i dont think that at all...to me...he is ALL MAN.
Besides, there are herbal drugs out there that help. My hubby is gunna give some a go for me :)
I understand its not his fault, and i love him more than i can say. He is my man and he chose to be with me.
Everyone has a fault...we are only human.
2006-09-12 18:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a low sex drive. Why, I'm not sure. I think life has just taken that out of me. I love my wife deeply but the only thing I really want is to just hold her and be with her. The sex part just doesn't come to my mind a lot. I don't know the point of your question but there you go.
2006-09-12 15:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by RedC. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sex drive was someone slow for about 2 years, because I am on meds for depression, headaches, high blood pressure and diabetes (I'm a mess). But recently (past 1/2 year) my sexual appetite is back to normal. Also I am 53 years old so the sex drive does dwindle with age too. My wife understood and stuck with me through thick and thin (pardon the pun).
2006-09-12 14:48:57 · answer #3 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of men out here with low sex drives but I don't think you'll get many to admit it. We have so much ego tied up in our sexuality. There is no shame in it however. Age, stress, health issues can all contribute to this phenomena.
2006-09-12 14:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sex drive is very low towards my better half bc She has gained so much weight that I sometimes have trouble hitting the right crack. Seriously, she ins no longer sexually attractive to me. I have maintained my pre married figure and live a healthy life style while she eats ice cream-among other fating items- like it is going out of style.
2006-09-12 14:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex had no sex drive after we were married a year.If fact he had erectile dysfunsction.I felt lonely and unloved aand very disappointed. He wouldn't see a dr. that is until he started dating when we were separated.Then he got Viagra.Back then I was thin and very pretty .[I can see in old pictures.]He just didn't get it why I was frustrated. I never cheated.It down right sucks. Now it is hard to believe that any man could be interested in me.
2006-09-12 14:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no three or four times aday wouldnt be enough and I am 40 plus.
Look he is just rude there are many other ways of pleasing a woman other with your member. Even if he doesnt feel like it , doesnt mean he cant attend to your needs.
Have a talk tell him your needs if he wont help then tell you will take a lover
2006-09-12 14:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband has had a low sex drive and e.d. problems - we think due to his meds for high blood pressure for a couple of years now and i am fine with it because marriage is not only about sex..It does bother my husband alot and has even suggested a divorce because he felt that it wasn't fair to me...there are lots of others way to be intimate and that is enough for me and should be for any woman who truly loves her man
2006-09-12 17:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by katydid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there even such thing as a low sex drive in a man?
2006-09-12 14:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by jessicaann29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a very low libido. If my partner couldn't be understanding enough to deal with it, and wanted to leave me because of it, i would think they didn't love me enough in the first place, and would be glad to be rid of them.
2006-09-12 14:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by Edward collinderhands 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋