there is a guy at my husband job and he has this 16 year old daughter that come up there to pick him up well one day my husband didnt have a way home and this little girl gave him a ride home i would have said nothing about it but be for then when i went to pick him up one day she was up there and the first thing that came out of his mouth was "she is built up like a grown woman what should i do about that
2006-09-12 13:32:14 · 21 answers · asked by kimbriang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like he got caught thinking out loud.
2006-09-12 13:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, remind him she's also jailbait and he should really not speak about her that way, least someone over hear him and take the wrong impression, which could lead to legal trouble in the future.
Also tell him you're not comfortable with the idea of him receiving anymore lifts home from her, especially just the two of them alone. Point out that it is not that you believe that he would ever do anything inappropriate (despite if you might believe otherwise) but more so that there is always the risk that this girl might decide to cry wolf - to which it is then his word against hers -- and we come full circle to the prospect of legal trouble again.
Men can say some really dumb things sometimes. Just because he blurted out a stupid statement to you does not mean that he has secret desires to do anything with the girl, nor does it mean he's plotting to do so.
But, in this day and age, with lawsuits flying all over the place, it is always better to be safe than sorry.
2006-09-12 13:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by eedoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop this mess at the gate. She knows what she is doing and so does your husband. Tell him the jail bait will not necessary just be her. But it could end up being more than he can imagine if you catch him in her face are her in his again. If he don't have a ride home. "start walking" and you remember this is a red flag. don't take it lightly.
2006-09-12 13:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what the law says about having sex with minors, read the riot act to your husband, start worrying about when your relationship will end, tell him about the consequences of infidelity and in general, prepare to hear the worse
2006-09-12 13:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur man is sick and u dient even know it..i mean that is just sad she is a kid no matter how she is built and he should know better and if he can say that outloud to u then who is to say he wouldnt have sex with her if she let him bc he would do it in a heartbeat i can tell u that...i feel sorry for u ..if i was u i would tell him that he is sick and she is a child and how would he feel if that was u talkin bout some 16 yr old male kid..and how would he like someone doin it to ur daughter and all
2006-09-12 13:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"She doesn’t do not ignore that if someone apologizes for something, then you could’t carry it adversarial to them anymore. It’s also very “no longer cool” to inform anybody advise issues." you're incorrect about that. Telling her to pass die isn't brushed aside with i'm Sorry and some outfits. and he or she is his daughter. She needs to spend time with him. confident, she would nicely be disrespectful in direction of you, yet what have you ever performed for her that change into so powerful?
2016-10-16 00:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by duperne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go for that either I would tell him to stay away from the girl and I would tell him I don't feel comfortable with him hanging around her especially because of her age he needs to stay away from her because you never know what she's capable of hell she might say he raped her or something just tell him he could get blamed for things he don't do
2006-09-12 13:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind your husband that he should NOT be looking at young girls in the first place and then get serious with him about your feelings on his statement.
2006-09-12 13:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by angie_adie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him first of all to grow up. second ask him if he plans on spending the rest of his life in jail. She is a child and he is suppose to be a man he needs to act like one.
2006-09-12 13:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by mistyjlr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this guy have a 17 year-old son, by any chance?
2006-09-12 13:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by Hermit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋