not engaged (yet) but the possibility is there,we know. we've been together 6months as of October 25th.already we have over come so many things together and have worked everything out for the best,its like we are meant to be, seriously. i love him so much..i want to bring up that i want him in my life forever and i want his kids, but i dont want to scare him off in any way. should i bring it up closer to our 6months or just let it happen as it happens?
2006-09-12 10:06:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just let it happen. You are in a fresh relationship of only 6 months. If you two are really in love what is the rush. Give it time and enjoy what you have.
2006-09-12 10:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BACK OFF
you are NOT practically newlyweds, you aren't even engaged. You need to relax, and let the relationship flow. If you start pushing for a ring now, you WILL push him away, and you may make him very resentful. And if you give him an ultimatum - you are tossing out a 50/50 chance that he WILL leave you. And if he doens't, how will you feel to know he proposed to you only because you threatened him.
YOU HAVE ONLY BEEN TOGETHER FOR 6 MONTHS! SLOW DOWN!! Just let it HAPPEN naturally.
2006-09-12 17:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him propose to you. Not that there is anything wrong with you giving him hints but I read that marraiges that fail, the men complained about the women practically proposing to them. Its just a better judgement to have the man do that type of work, After all,... that is thier duty.
2006-09-12 17:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk generally about your future together. You can get hints from what he says. You should always be honest in a relationship and tell him what you are thinking. You need to know from him not people on YA if you are on the same page.
2006-09-12 17:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know that your relationship is strong enough to talk about it then, go for it, but if you have any thoughts that it may scare him off then i would wait until it happens. Stop and reflect on your relationship before you do anything else
2006-09-12 17:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by sparky_42375 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too soon. Wait another 9 months.
2006-09-13 11:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push anything, things happen when they should. Go with the flow.
2006-09-12 17:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think six months is way to early to know if you love this guy or not. it takes more than love to get married AND STAY married.
but if you don't listen to me, then please, tye your tubes, cause you'll be brinking kidlets in the world and your marriage mya not last and then your kids may suffer.
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2006-09-12 17:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by chapped lips 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why push it? Just let things come as they come.
2006-09-12 17:10:24 · answer #9 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and live one day at a time.
2006-09-12 17:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋