I am very happy!!!! But if anything, what would you change, or add? Give examples please, I am curious as to why couples cheat.
2006-09-12 10:12:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Extremely happy with mine thanks.
Wouldn't change a thing...not one iota!
many partners cheat because they can't handle commitment (they get together far too young) or are scared of being rejected. An affair is something to throw back in the face of one that dumps you I've noticed. You only have to look at the couples out at the weekend to see them arguing (usually plastered). Also don't forget the lack of inhibitions!
No matter how many times I hear people say it's through boredom, I never believe it. In order to get bored with your partner, something must have died.
2006-09-12 10:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by Lorraine R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think the reason why my x cheated was i worked overnight for a long long time thinking i was helping tying to buy a house and all along he was talking to other women because i wasnt giving him the emotional stuff he needed
plus we never took time for just me and him and then one day i realized there was no more me and him
he was seeking comfort else where
i have to say all those little things count
so if you always have the thought in you mind this might be the last time i see this person wouldnt you treat them like the moon and stars
after my daughter was killed in an accident it made me realize how precious life was and at anytime it could be changed in an instant
i am now very lonely and wished i could of seen the devestation from me working overnight and leaving my husband alone
remember children are a joy but it is also a big responsibility and a stressor on a marriage and people adapt or adjust to stressors different
i am glad you are happy and i hope it always last
good luck
2006-09-12 17:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by Larelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couples???...in most cases it is one or the other, not necesarily both partners. Usually when one partner finds out the other is cheating, it gives them the liscence to do it too, but not all...a person cheats because they lack respect or the love of the other person they need to be faithful...iof someone cheats, they need to move on and get out of the relationship they are in...there have been instances where people cheat because of a really weak moment or situation and they feel guilty about it for eons...but that is rare...people mostly cheat because they are selfish and self centered....nuf said
2006-09-12 17:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated, but my husband is very understanding. He has a strong and close family. In fact, I love his family as much as I love mine. Some things get to you sometimes, not thats its negative, but you can only be with a person so much. Thats why its better if both of them work,... so u dont have a bored housewife. Or a bored hubby,
2006-09-12 17:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am happy and it just gets better. We have 100% honesty. We are unique, individual, strong characters and don't always agree but we give each other the freedom to be different. We have a wonderful intimacy have raised a family together and are secure in our love for one another.
2006-09-12 17:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by SunFun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't be happier. The only thing I could ask for is MORE TIME in the day!! We have so many things we like to do, it's hard to get it all done PLUS take care of the house AND try to get enough sleep.
Or, in a perfect world, I'd wish we didn't have to work so we could spend more time together, and spend more time doing the things we LIKE to do, like volunteering in the community, playing sports, etc.
2006-09-12 17:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am happy and content. Anything I could change? Changing my lotto ticket from last week to the winning numbers would be fine.
2006-09-12 17:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extremely happy, I think because we are both so concerned with each other and trying to make each other happy. There's very little selfish behavior going on. We genuinely love each other.
2006-09-12 17:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very happy but would like a little more variety in the bedroom.
By variety I mean change of routine, a little more spontaneity, stuff like that.
2006-09-12 17:16:15 · answer #9 · answered by Sen. John Blutarsky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Borden..uncertainty
2006-09-12 17:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by ericalbrt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋