why do men and women view sex differently?

Question

There are gender differences but why men and women view sex differently?

Answer 1

Which is better is like comparing apples and bananas. Both might make a good snack, but they definitely don't taste the same.

Men are fairly simple creatures; it's in our biology. Men are geared to reproduce quickly and often. That is why sex can be so short for us; and why a picture of a hot woman is enough to get a man aroused. Men are capable of multiple relationships with multiple women. They can stay in a serious relationship, but only if they are willing to make the commitment. The biggest problem with men is that they often think with their lower head, rather than the one that sits on top of their neck.

Women are more complicated. They need to carry a baby to term and raise it. A picture of a hot man can get some women excited, but not for long--they need a relationship. They want to know a man, and they want to be able to trust him to possibly raise a child. Women are geared to hunt for a mate that they can raise a child with; it's in their biology. Women want a stable relationship with one man. A woman often seems to get less out of sex because their biology requires either multiple sessions or they require a longer session to insure that the male has a better chance of putting his sperm where it can create a child. This explains the women’s greater need for foreplay. They need to build up to a climax.

Humans are one of the few creatures that are always in “season.” A human can breed all year round. This makes it better for the male to spread his genes, and lets the woman use the allure for sex to hold on to their mate. When sex becomes less frequent the male’s attention may wander. Generating sperm is easy to do, and men do it in the thousands for most of their lifespan. Women have a set number of eggs and a period of youth and adult stages when they can get pregnant. Carrying a baby to term is a difficult, and often dangerous task, one that can only be attempted by someone who is very fit. This is why women have menopause and why after a time sex starts to lose its attraction.

Some women are attracted to the dangerous man. While at first this doesn't seem like a good idea, the dangerous man is more likely to win in any competition. If a woman is with such a man then she can be assured that another man won't try to take her away from him. Again it's all in the biology. Look at the lion pride. The strongest male has a harem of females. He gets them pregnant and they raise their cubs. The male has to defend himself against other rival males. He spends most of the night making loud growls to show the others that he is the dominant male, and he will fight off any competing males. When a new male takes over, the first thing he does is to kill all the old male's cubs. This puts the females into heat, and he can breed with them.

Unfortunately, since women are complex creatures they think that men are. This can lead to a lot of misunderstandings. Men are simple creatures; they look for the simple and straightforward solution of problems. Since men are less complicated then women we tend to have problems understanding them. Complexity doesn’t mean smarter than simple, it means that a different approach is being used.

Men like sports because it is a trial by combat. They may claim other reasons, but the most basic one is the combat. A male biology gears the man to be able to defeat his rivals and hold on to his mate(s). This is why men are better fighters.

Humans may be reasoning and intelligent beings, but they still have the same instincts that they started with. We are a lot closer to animals than we think. The difference between humans and the animals is that mankind can rise above their instincts. We can use tools, and change the environment to suit us. Once that happened though mankind became immune to evolution. We can attempt to improve the breed, weed out problem genes, and turn others on or off, but we cannot escape our instincts.

Our intelligence lets us rise above our instincts. A woman can be a soldier, but she may prefer a more caring approach. A man can be a homemaker, but he may prefer to go out into the wild and hunt (he often does this by getting a job). Women and men can do each other’s jobs, but their biology has defined roles for them and their instincts have to be overcome.

Men are better because they can see the simple solution to a problem and they will solve it without wasting too much time thinking about it. Men are better hunters and fighters.

Women are better because they can find a solution to a complex problem. They don’t mind taking the time required to think something out. They are more caring and nurturing. They are also able to work better together (except when hunting for a mate).

Comparing men and women is like comparing the heads and tails of a coin. They are two opposite sides of the same coin. They represent two different approaches to survival and civilization.

The woman is looking for a long-term relationship, and needs longer penetration to get aroused. Sex isn't the top thing on their mind either so they can go without sex, and have different views of sex. Women also have a limited number of eggs in their womb. Once those eggs are gone then evolution is finished with them so their sexual appetite fades. It isn’t in the best interest of their genes to continue to have a desire for sex. They spend that time being mothers and grandmothers whose main priority is raising the children.

Men always have sex on their mind they need it more than a woman does, so they can breed quickly and often; that is the male genetic plan for survival. This is why men need more sex than women do. Men are potent until almost the end of their lives. They can produce an endless stream of sperm so evolution doesn't finish with them; therefore it is a survival instinct to keep breeding until stopped by death (most men get horny after a near death experience, their body wants them to reproduce while they still have a chance). A 90-year-old man might have trouble getting an erection, but they always want one and they can get erect.

Answer 2

Someone said that when a women doesn't attach emotions to sex, she is called a whore. That is true in todays society, but I disagree with it. I am very passionate, care about things but do not get attached to anything. If I am in a relationship and something goes wrong, I do not look back at it. Life goes on and so does sex.

To answer your question. I think it is because of our moral beliefs that a women should not be sleeping around, but its ok for a guy to do so. Because women do not have as many sexual partners as guys do, most women get emotionaly attached and than have sex.

Answer 3

Men are visually stimulated when it comes to sex. Women are mentally stimulated. A man can be ready for sex at the drop of the hat. An average man will ejaculate within 2.8 minutes (true) of entering the vagina. Women take between 15-30 minutes to be aroused enough to be able to orgasm. Lots of foreplay for her is in order....use toys! Toys don't replace guys, they enhance guys!

Answer 4

The answer to this question is like asking what the purpose of life is. the only conclusion I can imagine is because God made us that way. It really doesn't matter, men and women still manage to remain compatible regarding sex, babies are still born, and the sun still rises everyday. Trying to figure this out will drive you nuts, so be it social, environmental, or biological, enjoy...

Answer 5

Women attach emotion to sex, men often see it as "just *******". Thats why when theres a girl who can have sex like a man, attaching no emotion, we women call her a whore.

Answer 6

That sounds like a paper for school you got the net go research.

Answer 7

I'm sure it has something to do with the biological differences in brain structure and hormones. Eggs are "expensive", sperm is "cheap", there's no getting away from that.

Answer 8

Its all about the plumbing.