My husband has collected porn magazines, videos, and now pictures from the internet for years. I feel like I'm being compared to his collections and am not interested. It's a turn "off". So why do men need to collect it anyway?
2006-09-12 12:09:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i don't have a good answer for you...i personally think it is childish and selfish... men have been able to make excuses for years about their "genetic make up"..to populate the earth and other crap like that...i think it is just a cop out. society has made it socially acceptable, and given excuses for men to use. i am sorry for the way it makes you feel... i am sorry to say, that i think that this problem will never go away...
** iwant to applaud the gentleman that answered...he gave an honest answer that rings true, and did it without being rude. thanks 8-)
2006-09-12 12:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, I basically spoke back a question the place I stated it replaced into ok for adult men to look at porn each so often yet as long because it wasn't hurting every person. This sounds like a case the place it rather is hurting somebody so he ought to back down. i'm actual no longer in for gathering the stuff and that i've got an argument if it replaced into decrease than 18 stuff in case you comprehend what I propose. i think of he ought to provide up with the aid of fact i'm guessing those documents are no longer the place every person else can get to them (as you have seen them) and so the boys ought to locate them. He does not have a stable answer yet to maintain them faraway from every person so as this is a vote of NO. do no longer think of that if he's watching photos of girls distinctive than you which you're no longer what he needs. in case you and he are nevertheless intimate and you're the two playing one yet another then he does want you. He does not anticipate you to be them and admittedly, if he sees one hundred women that he can no longer touch then you certainly're the variety and spice are not you? Porn is an habit yet seen with the help of internet surfers (the only those which will answer right here) a harmless habit so don't be suprised in case you get various "it rather is high quality" there is not any sparkling cut back answer right here. He is conscious it rather is accessible so he will continuously pursue it. comprehend his suggestions produces endorphins (excitement) from it. i think of your answer is a happy medium someplace. He needs to enable up and you should loosen up. be happy to e mail me in case you have extra questions.
2016-11-07 05:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do it because my wife does not enjoy having sex. She gets mad at me and says that is the same as cheating, but in my mind it is not if two people cannot come to an agreement.
I do not have a collection of porn.
If the porno does not consider anyone under the age of 18, then I say let him look at it, and maybe she should try to look at some as well.
2006-09-12 12:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by homermisc2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a masterbatory aid. seriously, we have to come often, and porn helps up achieve that end. We get all pissed and irratable when we don't. We need more sex than you will be willing to provide, and sometimes we just want an easy way to pop one off. He's not comparing you to them, he just uses the pics to get off. We don't need to collect it as much as we need to just use it.
2006-09-12 12:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless he is telling you that he comparing you to his porn (which he's not) -- go with it. Are you going to drop everything screw him everytime he needs to get one off? Believe me, porn can be a woman's best friend- if she embraces it. Let him have his fun, because it does not mean a thing to him.
2006-09-12 12:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by suebdoo518 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate that too! i feel you. but the reason why they do is, it's in their hormones. they have these fantasy thing going on in them. they're bound to look at porn. if he loves you, i doubt he's comparing them to you. guys will look at other girls no matter how much they love you or how hot you look. just look it this way...they're just pic. on paper or the computer. as long he doesn't go out there to cheat on you, it's ok. we'll never understand men, and they'll never understand us.
2006-09-12 12:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by sexy azn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see after they get married they know they cannot have sex with other women so this is the way they find release of that tension.i think its healthy. atleast he is not cheating on me. and the girls he sees i know he can never have so i just let his imagination run. sometimes i join him. it excites him and he makes love to me and not any one else.
dont worry too much abt it
all men do it
2006-09-12 12:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your husband wants to see a nude women more frequently than once a month.
Just kidding!!
2006-09-12 12:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by Bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's legal infidelity.
2006-09-12 13:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are rude
2006-09-12 12:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋