This is actually a follow-up to my revealing clothing question. So this lady at work comes into my office wearing a push up bra and tight top with vast amounts of cleavage showing. She leans over my desk asking for me to explain something. I do my best not to look, but take the occassional sneak peek. She comes back in later wearing a sweater. I was a little embarassed even though nothing was said. Note - This is a woman in her late forties.
2006-09-12 11:17:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's all about the attention. I'm in no position to know whether she has a thing for u or not but I can tell u that she's craving some form of attention, even though that attention may be a negative one or not. Since she's in her late 40's, she also wants to see if she's still "got it" as far as her ability to attract men. It's a pretty tacky way to do so, in my opinion.
2006-09-12 11:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a women with cleavage I must say (1) I love my cleavage and I feel good when it is bare. (2) I don't mind men looking at it I do all the time, and (3) When in an occasion that I realize it makes someone uncomfortable I humbly cover myself out of respect. What most men don't realize is big busted women don't think about there cleavage all the time nor do they use it all the time to try to make advances, so when, like I said, it comes to our attention that we are being over bearing-we do our best to be respectful.
2006-09-12 11:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by earthmothermoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your post, sounds like this woman likes to test the dress code at the office. Cleavage can be used by women for a number of reasons, anywhere from fun to getting that promotion. If this "revealing" situation bothers you, perhaps a simple reminder to her about the proper dress code for the office enviornment is in order. In order to avoid any possibility of sexual harrasment situation, the personnel manager should be present or just have the personnel manager speak to her.
2006-09-12 11:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by acedelux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't understand women who dress like than and then get offended when men look, it is literally beyond my ability to comprehend! If they flaunt it men ARE going to look, WAKE THOSE OF YOU (WOMEN) WHO DO THIS! Just 2 days ago my hubby and I were out shopping and a young woman in Wal-Mart was wearing a short, tight, barely there, SEE THROUGH outfit, my hubby, like any red blooded heterosexual male, LOOKED and she reached out to slap him, I grabbed her arm and told her she'd hit him over her own dead body since he only looked at what SHE herself was openly advertising!
2006-09-12 11:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by Daydream Believer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a ho.....if she was that offended she would have wore the sweater in the first place!!!!
why else would someone wear something like that other than to attract attention....
2006-09-12 11:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by zzzzz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She showed you what she has up stairs and put a sweater on because she got her point across to you...
2006-09-12 11:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she likes you and want to wreck you marriage, relationship, yuk in her late forties hey, thats when everything sags
2006-09-12 11:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by sweetlikehoney_73 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a showoff. It's kind of hard not to look when it is in your face. She's looking for attention.
2006-09-12 11:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by watergirl54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
needs attention to fell better about herself. that also goes around in my office.
2006-09-12 11:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a show off and unprofessional. Don't fall for it.
2006-09-12 11:22:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋