Practice makes perfect?

Question

Does anyone have a friend of the opposite sex, that they practice their technques on?

I had one, but he has a girlfriend now. She doesn't understand that it's educational!

Answer 1

I do as what are friends for, I have women friends who give me pointers and vise versa

Answer 2

It's called friends with benefits. It's ok when both of you are unattached and both understand that the sex is just sex. But once one of you gets involved with someone else, then the benefits should go bye-bye. You should be ok with that, since you don't want to be having sex with someone who's having sex with other people, because you don't want to get something nasty. He should be ok with that, since he's making a commitment to his girlfriend. She now has absolute monopoly over his sex life, and that's the way it's supposed to be.

And I hate to say it guys, but adult male virgins are just pathetic in bed, and female virgins don't enjoy sex because they're too nervous and selfconscious. So, as long as you're being safe and not interfering with someone else's relationship, I don't see a problem with the occassional fringe benefit. It really can be educational and more fun than a video or magazine :-)

Answer 3

I don't sleep with my male friends......period. I never have. It's this very situation to why I don't. I must admit that I would never understand either. I don't think she is wrong in how she feels about you. Afterall you were sleeping with him. So that means you were more than just a friend. I have nothing against people who have bed buddies. But when you do that......these exact complications always come with it. My advise would be for you to accept it and find someone else. Ask yourself this.....Would you be understanding and accepting if the situation were turned around? Put yourself in her shoes. lol

Answer 4

If his current girlfriend has a problem with it and he wants to be "true" to her, it's wrong. Other than that, it's just sex and if you're both giving it up that easily, then you're nothing more than sex objects...so yes, in a way, it is just educational.

It's your body and you have a right to give it to or receive it from anyone you want as long as it's safe, concentual and you're both of legal age.

Answer 5

You can get perfect with the one you love, and the one you love gets perfect with you, and you can both have a whole lotta fun while you're at it.

Why do you want to perfect your techniques if you're probably just going to waste them on people who could care less about you?

I wouldn't care to be with someone with "perfect techniques" if that person placed experience above much more important things such as a deeper connection. In other words, I'd rather be with someone who wants to share her whole life with me than with a slvt who wants to share all her STDs with me. But that's just me. To each his own.

Answer 6

"practice" i.e. sex is only okay with your spouse. There is no such thing as educational sex. Get your head out of the clouds! I doubt the guy was "learning" anything!!!

Answer 7

Gee, I had a g/f and we were so sexually compatable and fit so well that we placticed and practiced and practiced. We often did the impossible. She passed and there has never been anyone built just like her.

Answer 8

I had a wife to practice with and all was great until she started to practice with some one else.

Answer 9

Practice makes for chafing and dehydration, if you're not careful. Kegel exercises, pilates and lack of gag reflex makes perfect.

Cheers!

Answer 10

What would you feel if your boyfriend had other sex partners while he's dating you? I have no problem with practicing, but you do it with your partner and no one else. You build closeness while exploring sex together. What are you thinking?!!