I found out 3 mos ago. it was with my cousin. I still love him, but don't trust him. Today I notice that he is using his anonymous email acct. so I followed up by changing his password on his phone bill to see his call logs. Nothing we there, should I tell him that I went snooping or wait until he approach me; was I wrong; what should I do?
2006-09-12 11:35:10 · 7 answers · asked by sassy lady 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He can't complain you don't trust him, when he recently proved he was not trustworthy. Don't apologize. AND keep looking. He's going to have to accept that you will have doubts for a long time.
2006-09-12 12:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him you were snooping. He will only be angry. I don't know how you will change password back to the original, however, since some sites don't let you change it back to the one before. . Of course he was wrong, so you can't trust him. What did he do when you found out?
2006-09-12 18:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by watergirl54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I could understand why u snooped in the first place as he has given u reason to. I would suggest NOT telling him because if u are
wanting to catch him in the act, it's best that he doesn't know about it so he doesn't attempt to cover his tracks.
Besides, he would probably be very upset with u for doing it since u said nothing was there.
2006-09-12 18:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you wasn't wrong. And he shouldn't have a problem with it. That's like a pedophile getting release from jail and you check the websites they been on. If they don't want you to do it they shouldn't commit the crime. And to me adultery is a crime. ESPECIALLY if it's with your own family.
2006-09-12 18:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Ashleyy♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he was wrong for cheating on you though. Just don't tell him and try not to do it again. you have to learn to trust him again to make this work. if he blows it again though throw him out.
2006-09-12 18:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he comes to you with it which i doubt he will just tell him yeah i was snooping. he'll understand and will hopefully do his best to regain your trust. good luck
2006-09-12 18:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um you need to tell him before someone else tells him and no you wasn't wrong to do it although he might feel like you was spying on him good luck
2006-09-12 18:43:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋