Family - December 2007

The other day I went over to my grandma's house and when I got in the door there was a disaster. She was making a cake and she spilled the batter all over. She was laughing her face off when I was talking to her. She dropped the box of eggs on the floor and almost slipped onto the floor. My aunt was staying with her because she wanted to be here for Christmas. She came out to the kitchen and dropped something on it and made it worse. It was really a troubling sight. My grandma yelled at her and she almost cried. That's the end.

2007-12-21 14:58:05 · 7 answers · asked by Bionacca Waters 3

I was with some friends at a birthday party, and we pulled out the extremely old ouija board. The first time we used it, the idiots around us confused the spirit, and it left (we closed it properly). Next time, the spirit talked to us. They said their initials were CAB, their spirit age (including incarnations) was 35, they are female, and a good spirit. We asked if they knew anybody in the room; say "k" if you were talking about my friend Kassy, and "ke" if they meant me. They said "e," but we had two E's, so we asked the first initial of the last name, and they said the initial of my name. We asked if they knew me, and they said yes. I realized it might be my half sister who died 27ish years ago (i'm 14), and we asked for the first initial of her birthmother's name was, and she said R; I did not touch the pointer when they asked for the initial and my friends don't know the birthmother's name, which is Rose. My sister's name was Sarah, though, not somethingC. Couldiberight?

2007-12-21 14:57:15 · 5 answers · asked by Kendra B 2

I need a message or prayer for my son who I don't see Because of daughter in law. She is jealous of the other daughter in laws and even the other grandchildren. It all came to a head about 3 months ago and my husband and I haven't talked to our son since. I have searched the web for a Prayer to send to him to let him know we love him and always will. Anybody know a Special prayer or poem I can send him?
Thanks in advance!
Yvonne

2007-12-21 14:31:39 · 2 answers · asked by casper 3

is not that i am stalking but my baby daddy has my son and i want to see my son so bad... and i went by my baby daddy house and i didn't get a chance to see my son.. am i doing wrong for tring to go see my son..

2007-12-21 14:20:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my son has gone to spend Christmas with his dad, the problem is he did not want to go, I did not want him to go either however the judge says he has to and his dad told him that he had to even though my son sat there are cried his little heart out.... My son called me when he got back to his dad's and was still cring 2 hours later. This is hard for me to sit here and do nothing while i know my son hurts so much..... How do I keep my sanity so that I do what I am supposed to and make sure that I get my son back.. The judge said that if I kept him during his dad's visitation that I the court would change custody. I have never been without my kids on christmas and that was bad enough but to sit there and watch him cry and then to find out that he is still crying 2 hours later just rips my heart out.

2007-12-21 14:09:13 · 8 answers · asked by mickeybettyboop 3

This year for christmas my mother, father, and I were gonna go to see my fathers side of the family. So far nobody has planned anything to do with my mothers mother (my grandmother) who lives next door to me. My grandma has 4 kids. None of them have invited her yet for christmas. Shes a sweet lady not hard to get along with by any means. My father took it upon himself to ask his brother (my uncle) if theres room for one more person, my grandmother. Now my Mom is pissed that my father did that without talking to her about it first. Usually im taking my moms side when they argue and she never tells me to mind my own business but now suddenly when i agree with him she tells me to go away. She said to me i have 3 other siblings. why doesnt she call one of them? why do i have to be responsible for her? She's pissed at my father for calling his brother and asking him without talking to my mother about it first.

2007-12-21 14:08:38 · 16 answers · asked by phriday321 1

In the past i have had roomies and i have lived with friends and i have went thru alot of bs...Im 23 now and i was kind of living on my own but my Dad's wife passed away in Nov-07 and since im really close to my Dad i thought i would leave Texas and go to florida and stay with him so he wont have to be alone ... My Dad is in his 60's and i worry about him ... RIght now i am soooo broke its not even funny ...I plan on getting a job here in florida and stay with my Dad for awhile ... Sometimes i feel worthless because im 23 and im staying with my Dad ....Do you think thats bad ????

2007-12-21 13:55:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom has diabeties....i can't get over the fact that this condition can make you die,go blinde and other stuff.I'm really worried.I dont want to loose her.She's the only one i have.I don't have a dad,my grandparents are too old to take me,i dont want to live with my mom's best friend cause i really not like her daughter cause she distryos everything...i dont know what to do to stop worrying...

No stupid answer's like making fun of my mom...thank you for your help*

2007-12-21 13:29:14 · 6 answers · asked by Nim_Nuts 2

Ok, I am really sad tonight. My husband and kids just moved in June to Boise Idaho, from Portland Oregon, and we can't go home for Christmas. Any of you going to be away from family for the first time on Christmas? What can I do to keep my mind off it?

2007-12-21 13:23:53 · 10 answers · asked by Bradygirl 5

Seriously....I've asked questions regarding BOTH of my sons (who were raised exactly the same way) --- I get put down for one by people and then there are others who say "you did a great job as a parent" (including the school board with my youngest).
Both of my boys are men now.
One (oldest) is a drug addict and running from the law and I haven't talked to him (nor do I KNOW where he is - or if he's even alive- he's 29) and my youngest is a Corpsman --- has done really really well -- they were raised with the exact same amount of love, trust, respect (yeah....I happen to have always respected my children as they respected me)...even my oldest - his teachers, while he was growing up, with all the issues he had, always said my son treated THEM with respect. One thing though, my oldest was ADHD - diagnosed in 4th grade and put on Ritalin (no 1 knew what that was back then)- and I heard afterwards drug add. could be a poss. with Ritalin at a young age. Similar exp w/you???

2007-12-21 12:36:24 · 4 answers · asked by butterfliesRfree 7

2007-12-21 12:20:30 · 23 answers · asked by Elena R 1

for?

2007-12-21 12:11:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can i tell my dad that i have a boyfriend? My dad is in fighting in Iraq and the only means of communication is either through email or on the telephone. The thing is my dad still wants me to be his little girl. Advise?

My boyfriend is one of the most amazing guys I've ever met. He's hilarious and can always brighten my day. We are both band geeks ;] and he plays soccer.

2007-12-21 11:50:48 · 10 answers · asked by fombellgirl 2

Latley i get these feelings on and off like I think the world would be better without me and if i went missing nonbody would even notice and if they did they wouldnt care or do anything. Some days when my boyfriend dosent talk to me i feel like the ugliest girl on this planet and no guys like me and they never will. And i think if I died nobody would care enough to have a funeral and the whole world would be easier and happier with out me. And then my mom always loses her temper and screams at me for leaving a sock in the bathroom, then i feel like she wishes I wasnt born.
Why do i feel this way, I just cant help it, and because of it Im a negative person and sometimes kind of mean, Can you help me w/ out going to a counciler...

2007-12-21 11:15:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are you?

2007-12-21 11:12:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

well...i duno wat 2 do! im having christmas dinner with my mum, her boyfriend and my family but i reali want 2 spend it with my dad! its also his birthday on christmas day and i dont want him 2 b lonely! He's single and lives on his own! he doesnt speak 2 any ov his family and his parents r dead! so he'll b spending it himself! hes always depressed and i think spending the day on his own will send him over the edge! i also dont wanna not go 2 dinner with my mum cuz she loves christmas and it wld break her heart if i wasnt ther! wat shud i do?

2007-12-21 10:39:39 · 16 answers · asked by Bradders 1

I'm 18 and My bf slaps and beats me... everytime he gets mad at me i dont know what i should do i'm afraid to break up with him cause then he will go hurt himself or worse kill himself... no body wants him he has no where to live... i just dont know what to do or i dont know where i should send him even if we break up??? please help and another thing he is the father of my child and i want her to have a daddy i just dont wanna be hit no more... i dont know what to do... and i try to talk to him about but he just says well you shouldnt have made me mad....

2007-12-21 10:17:38 · 29 answers · asked by chronic_42089 1

did you used to have to ask your parents if you had eaten enough at dinner? After I finished, I'd always say "Is that enough?" And my dad would always say "__ more bites" Depending on how much I had eaten. Did anyone else do this?

2007-12-21 09:33:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

this time of year

2007-12-21 09:25:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom is always late for everything. When she sends me to school, I'm always late. One time she was supposed to pick up a my good friend on her way back from work so we could have a sleepover. She said she would be home with my friend at 4:30. She came home at 5:50. I'm so sick of her being late all the time! Is there a way to get her to be on time?

2007-12-21 08:55:47 · 18 answers · asked by Zutaraforever 2

i live with my grandmother and i want to live with my birth parents im 15 and will be 16 in a month my grandmother will not let me live with them i had to move in with her because she took me in her home when i was in defacs but my parents got my brothers back and they now have a home and own there ownn business they couldnt get me back because my grandma got custody of me.

2007-12-21 08:24:17 · 7 answers · asked by Chrissybear. 1

does this happen a lot or is it just seriously wrong.

2007-12-21 08:10:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My twin sister owed me $5. She had no money. Then we each got $30 from our grandpa. The bills were in 3 twenty-dollar bills and one ten-dollar bill. I got 2 twenties and she got one twenty and one ten. She thinks that now I owe her $5. I think I don't. Who is right? Thanks in advance.

2007-12-21 08:08:07 · 5 answers · asked by Me 1

My MIL seems perfectly fine with everyone not being close. It has finally dawned on me that if her own son doesn't care - why should I? In my family, my mom is the glue that usually smooths everything out & keeps us all close. However, my MIL is the complete opposite. She doesn't seem to care if we all talk or not. Their family is very superficial & boring. Everything is on the surface. The siblings never call each other and treat each other worse than strangers. It is as if they are acquaintances that happen to be siblings. The mother always calls us & seems to thrive on my family as entertainment. Snidely saying things to me like Marie Barone does. She will call her son (my hub) often & he never calls her back. Finally when I had my kids, I stopped trying to push them together & fight to keep my own family close. Now because I no longer push for a relationship she believes that I am cold. She never says anything - god forbid she show an emotion. Am I ok for sitting back?

2007-12-21 08:02:23 · 5 answers · asked by Sherry26 2

i really want to get our house blessed coz i keep hearin noise and things keep movin in ma room

but if i get the house blessed with that upset ma bro hwhos ashes are in the house ???

and how would i go about gettin the house blessed

thanks for ur help nadine XxXxXxXxXxXx

2007-12-21 08:01:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am estranged with everyone on my father's side (including him) except for his parents. My grandma died yesterday, and today the obituary ran in the paper, and instead of using Julianne Greyrose (my name was changed from his last name to my stepdads last name when I was 8 because my father was not in my life or paying child support) to Julianne Naughton (his last name). I called my deceptive aunt who I knew did they and ask for them to change it and it started a huge fight. She told me my mom and maternal grandma put me up to this as well as my stepdad, and they had nothing to do with it.

Not only is my dad's sister Sharee mad at me, so is he, and his girlfriend Heather. When I was on the phone with Heather asking her about it, my dad was in the background saying I was disrespectful just because I wanted my name to be Greyrose like it has been since I was eight.

Was I wrong to do this?

2007-12-21 07:57:49 · 5 answers · asked by Jake 3

My boyfriend has a 4 year old daughter and it drives me crazy that he has already been through so much with someone else. I kno I shouldnt but I found some pictures of him and his ex, nothing bad, but I get so jealous. How do I get over this or can I? The mother is back and forth between being a mom and then not seeing her daughter for a week or more, and when his daughter was a year she took off completely for several months (drugs). I feel for his daughter since I was in a similar position as a child. But at the end of the day I know I am not her mother and that she already has a mother. In her baby book there is a picture of my boyfriend with his arms around his ex's stomach while she was pregnant. I get so jealous that he shared so much with someone else. What do I do?

2007-12-21 07:36:02 · 10 answers · asked by CuriousAl 1

2007-12-21 07:15:50 · 5 answers · asked by auntkj 4

My MIL bad mouths me. I am always nice to them. I am good to their son. I am a good mother to their grandchildren. I feel like on our visits she looks for bad things in me and talks about them to everyone when she goes home. She always tries to make the case that I am mean and controlling of my husband, which my husband and I laugh about because it's so untrue. Since I had twins I have been about 10 lbs overweight and she says I am fat. She talks badly about my SILs too so it's not just me. She treats me like an outsider. At my BIL's wedding she told me I would not be ushered down the aisle because I was not part of the family (a small matter but I thought that was pretty rude). My parents treat my husband like a son. They have welcomed him with open arms and they do not speak badly about him. I just wish it were the same for me. It makes our visits hard. I usually end up feeling pretty badly after our visits. I wish I could visit his family and be happy.

2007-12-21 07:04:26 · 13 answers · asked by twinmom 4

Okay, we've been together a yr and a half tommorow. Its not like a treat her badly or anything,..I treat her like a goddess. I get her everything I can get and give her everything i have. I love her to death and always am there for her... We havn';t had sex(15) and her dad knows that....however....he still hates me.... I think its my neighborhood but I dont live in a bad neighborhood. Just not as nice.as hers....
How do I get the dad to like me?

2007-12-21 06:31:49 · 11 answers · asked by RCPD Expl. Captain Beckner 5