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my father sometimes calls my by the name wanger which i believe means wanker, is tht normal?? do i take it as a friendly joking comment or offensive?? :O

like what u doin wanger.. etc.

2007-12-22 13:22:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my little sister is 10 is she to young for a boyfriend? kids want to grow up so farst now days :(

2007-12-22 12:01:00 · 18 answers · asked by katie b 1

my sister is FAT!!!! she is trying to watch her weight and it is not working!!
she gains more then she loses!!!
she is my older sister. how can i tell her she is fat and th she is never gonna lose any weight but politly!!

2007-12-22 11:56:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm feeling quite rebellious. I've normally always been a responsible "good girl" and I make straigt A's so I'm not a delinquent, giving her a reason to do this stuff
. I'm 17 and she still treats me like i'm 9. I mean, I can even get into an R- rated movie-- legally.
And she even went out of her way to put a freaking "content blocker" on our computer set for kids ages 3-12!
I use proxies to go to whatever site I want, but still, it's the concept behind the matter.
How can I make her see I'm not a little girl anymore?

2007-12-22 11:55:29 · 9 answers · asked by Dr. C∂ƒƒee £ips :} 4

ok my mom is a hypocrite. and she thinks that she is always right and each time she doesnt get it her way she starts to yell and get all pissed off and i am like WTF. then i try to speak up she ends up coming back with "do you treat me like your mom"
Also my parents get in arguments a lot and it is always my mom who starts the argument with my dad because my dad does not want to give his opinion because if he gives the wrong one my mom will go BALLISTIC on him.

when ever i see that happen in my head iam like "SHUT THE F*** up both of you guys are so stupid "

what should i do because its getting the the point where i am about to slap both of them in the face and yell the crap out of them.

2007-12-22 11:19:24 · 14 answers · asked by BNR34RB26 1

2007-12-22 11:09:04 · 16 answers · asked by Sweet Judy 7

Ok, I fell in love with a 25 year old guy. We have been together now for over a year. My parents are divorced. He met my dads side of the family and they all love him. Now its time for me to tell my mother. We are really in love. He has been nothing but great to me. I have never been so into school and my grades have never been this great. Everything has been better in my life. I get along with my parents better and im just happy. Any advice on telling my mom? Im very scared to tell her. Btw im under 18. Let me know what you think. Thanks



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The reason i have not told my mom yet is because i live with her. My father found out on his own but was fine with it after he met him. He also moved across the country to be with me. I have been lucky enough to get away with it for this long. There has been some close calls but she still does not know. I am going to tell her today. Just need some advice on what to say

2007-12-22 10:58:27 · 11 answers · asked by Mary A 1

my mom doesnt let me have freedom i dont know what happend to her should i fight with her or just leave her alone

2007-12-22 10:46:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

im so p******d off, i am not clumsy but things like this always seem to happen to me, its just typical im staying @ my parents house and my mum is very house proud, i went upstaris to toilet in dark cos i didnt want to wake my dad,, must have slightly brushed against the wall and a small paitnignt and of course it f****** fell straiiiiight to the floor!
i thought sh***t, frame was cracked so i tried to repair ot with glass + picture but the f****** glass cracked, this is so not fair, well that was it i though im f*****d, ill have to own up thing is im in my 20's but in my teenage yrs it was a nightmare they used 2 blame me for everything, things i didnt do, they alwasy always blamed me for it. so now i know my dad will have the hump if i say, i feel like i should say but i dont want them to have the hump especially @ xmas, this is so unfair i was being careful they will say i must have been bashing aginast the walls they will not belive, should i say ? they treat me like kid

2007-12-22 10:40:18 · 17 answers · asked by fairycake 1

Im 19 and i had to move back home for Christmas break (i live in the dorms at school) and my dad insists that "its the principle" that i still have an 11:00 curfew. He is the most stuborn person; how can i get him to trust me and let me stay out later? Im desperate to live my own life and have him stop controlling it.

2007-12-22 10:30:04 · 7 answers · asked by alpal000 2

my daughter keeps saying the same phrase over and over again " oh my goodness" I told her I would like her to stop and she said "if you don't want me to say it then you need to give me something else that is cooler to say instead" So I come to you asking to PLEASE HELP! I need a "cooler" replacement phrase

2007-12-22 10:15:34 · 9 answers · asked by dobber1989 1

I am 28. Just got married. My oldest sister is 37 and we've always been close. She did not want to be in my wedding because she claims she "couldn't afford it", although I would've paid for her things and not expect that she spend anything. IMHO I believe it is because she spends her life not wanting to commit to anything and avoiding any sort of "obligated" responsibility. Fast forward to the wedding - she stayed for the ceremony, and then left right at the beginning of the reception because her 5 year old son was "acting up". Since she's had her son, she has avoided functions/gatherings because he is "cranky". One year she didn't even show up to Thanksgiving dinner (in the same city) because her son was "acting cranky". Her son DOES seem to act much younger behaviorally than his age, but she refuses to seek any professional opinion & just plans her life around whether or not he's going to throw a tantrum. This is nothing new to my family. But since the wedding I've had sour feelings.

2007-12-22 10:13:39 · 11 answers · asked by High Fructose Corn Syrup 2

It doesn't really bother me. Should it? And is there anyone else out there who's parents do this?If so, how did you take it? I'm 18 by the way.

2007-12-22 10:09:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother attacked a cabbie at knife point. They fought over the knife and the cabbie was injured on the hands requiring surgery. He ran from the police and hid until his wife took him to the hospital where he lied and said he blacked out and fell over a curb. His wife called my mom and told her what really happened. Neither of the two would do anything so I called the police and turned him in. He has gotten really bad on crack and steals even from the family and has been in treatment it seems forever. Now with this step he has moved up and I was worried about my mom and my own family. Did I do the right thing?

2007-12-22 10:00:56 · 9 answers · asked by Scooter McAsscrackin 3

I got a new dog and she bites alot of people. She seems to be okay when my other dog isnt around so we think she needs to be on her own. I cant give her away though. I'm 16 but will be 17 on christmas day. so my sister made the statement well you can move out any time now so i want to take the dog and look for a place now to make her happy. so is it legal to move out at the age of 17 in the state of pennsylvania?

2007-12-22 09:47:23 · 5 answers · asked by Ash 2

my mom suffered a stroke about a month ago and although she is better now, the doctors will not let her come home. I was wondering on how to deal with it. My mom has been gone for a month and I miss her so much. I've been crying all day and I was wondering what advice you guys could give me. Everyone else has been saying that I've been whining. Please give me some advice. It would be appreciated.

2007-12-22 09:11:58 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-12-22 08:56:17 · 10 answers · asked by louise d 6

Or do they always win

2007-12-22 08:54:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

It has been 11 years since my mother and I had tough times. She showed me absolutely no stability with her lifestyle and the way she treated me (silent treatment, telling me things like I would amount to nothing, kicking me out of the house well over 15 times for arguing back with her and I was not that bad of a teenager). We 'made up' quite some time ago and had what seemed to be a healthier relationship but I find myself getting so angry with her for the littlest things, ignoring her for weeks at a time because of something small she said or did. To be honest (and I know this is so mean) I can't really stand her. The thought of being around her for a long period of time repulses me. I have no idea why after so many years of us 'getting along' after the bad times I feel this way. How do I let it go and why do I feel this way?

2007-12-22 08:50:30 · 22 answers · asked by missy 1

if you have what were your reasons.

2007-12-22 08:42:39 · 9 answers · asked by louise d 6

in my family i argue alot. especially with my parents. i am the oldest of 4 (i'm 14)and i am fed up of getting blamed for everything. i'm even thinking of running away. i normal after a arguement i go in my bath room lock it and cry. i'm fed up and it is getting nearer to christmas, so my parents are getting stressed. i try to help but it just ends in a arguement. i'm fed up of feeling like i don't belong. only my grandma knows how i feel. she just tells me it will blow over. i really need help i don't know if i should just leave. it will help my family because then it won't have any more arguements!

2007-12-22 08:41:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

can she or not?

2007-12-22 08:35:03 · 23 answers · asked by Isiah B 1

thay are very jelous that we do so much with my family. My husband loves to be around my family..he has so much fun..but when we go around his family , the only thing thay talk about is what is wrong with them...I dread going ...thay always bring up my husband x-wife..its just the little remarks ..thay just totaly get on my nerves..and I would never let my family do that to my husband...never ever..so what can I do to make this a good x-mas dinner...please help

2007-12-22 08:17:36 · 24 answers · asked by Pat 2

2 adults 2 kids, no going outside cause of the weather. Any great ideas for family entertainment? Thanks!

2007-12-22 07:40:20 · 10 answers · asked by Weeber 2

ij ust send already about my own dad didnt even believe in me that its was okay to take my x mas gift from my neighbor house that they already told me it s okay to take my gift back home. but my dad just made me go back to my neighbor house return my gift so that they can come back and bring the gift to me in person. but my own dad think i stole my own x mas present that was giving to me , the gift box had my name on it .

2007-12-22 07:37:36 · 3 answers · asked by statecalifornia2009 7

well the point is that i have a neighbor whom are my friends and even i work for them doing a housesitting job over 2 yr. yestersday they asked me to come over to their house to pick up one of the keys that usually get from them . when theyre out town on their buinesse trips. so they baseuallly trusted me with everything else,. well anyhow they told me that when i housesitting for them that they brought me another x mas gift and i can go there to pick it and take home with me . so they were fined with it to take my present whenever i have the chance to. . so i just went to pick up my gift from my friend house . then my dad asked me what was in my hand i told him its my x mas gift that dennis and sarah gave to me. then after that my dad made me to go back to the house and return my present back to my friends house . cause he think its not mind gift , i explain my dad the whole stories that they asked me to take it . but no my dad didnt even believe the gift was belong to me.

2007-12-22 07:29:51 · 4 answers · asked by statecalifornia2009 7

i am so confused that i do not know what to do - it has come to my attention that the man who i thought was my uncle , who is my mothers half brother , is actually my dad.

He is staying with us at the moment from abroad for the xmas period and you can cut the atmosphere with a knife- we all feel so awkward.

you see i was conceived in the 1960s in another part of the world but my birth mother had to come to the uk to have an abortion but she did not - my father/uncle paid for her to come - so i was fostered for until i was 4 yrs of age thats when i first met her .

i have done alot with my life so far but because of their paranoia they had decided to compromise my life in various ways - a bit like having to pay for their sins !!

i am so confused - i do not know who to trust - i cannot look at my uncle in the face anymore - what to address as -or just continue to play the game.

He has a son who i have met several times .

all this decieit is killing me emotionally.

2007-12-22 07:20:45 · 3 answers · asked by Le Vonte W 1

I made my bed and cleaned my room right before going downstairs to play on the computer. Then my sister unmade my bed to make it look like there was someone sleeping in it. So I came upstairs and my bed was all wrecked. I am so mad at her! And she thought it was hilarious! What should I do?

2007-12-22 07:06:31 · 7 answers · asked by Me 1

my friend is turning 19 and is in college, she has known her fiance 4 a while and have been dating a year. they pay their own bills, and have been through alot together, her dad going through rehab, her parents divorcing, her dad getting really sick and almost dying, both losing and getting another job, his parents arguing, her mom threating to break them up so she will marry a dr. and have alot of money. they are both in school and are waiting til that is over to get married, i belive that they will work out, well i know i just wanted others opinions, they argue but not like fight, the compromise and just kind let things go with the flow, ive never seen any "teen" couple act like that

2007-12-22 06:55:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in college right now (19), i live on campus. my parents are extremely restrictive, i cant make a decision without their consent. they allowed me to go away for college only because i got a full scholarship that covered all costs. but recently my academics have suffered because they force me to take premed classes that i have no aptitude for and so Ive lost my scholarship and parents said that they will pay for me to stay on campus only if i do well. i didnt have close friends in high school because i couldnt hang out with them much. i now have numerous close friends who ive lived with for 1.5 years, including a great gf, who i have to hide from my parents; id be disowned if they found out. i have very little savings and no job. leaving the school im at would be terrible. id be utterly alone. i did really poorly this semester with my second chance and they will make me come home and i absolutely cannot do that. i know it would kill them if i left, as their only son. should i go?

2007-12-22 06:43:17 · 10 answers · asked by johndoe387 1

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