my mom suffered a stroke about a month ago and although she is better now, the doctors will not let her come home. I was wondering on how to deal with it. My mom has been gone for a month and I miss her so much. I've been crying all day and I was wondering what advice you guys could give me. Everyone else has been saying that I've been whining. Please give me some advice. It would be appreciated.
2007-12-22 09:11:58 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Be around your loved ones - family and friends who'll help take your mind off it and support you. That's the best thing to do I think...
2007-12-22 09:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by Shri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry! I know what it's like to not have your mother for Xmas, it's real hard.
You are not whining, don't listen to those people!
When my mother had cancer she was in hospital and I was allowed to do her room up with a little tree and some lights and we even placed all our Xmas presents under the tree. I slept there the night coz I'm the youngest and my other sisters and my brother are married so they had to be with their kids.
I woke up Xmas morning with my mother in hospital and we opened presents together, it was nice.
My mother died shortly after Xmas and now i have to deal with not having her around for Xmas ever again. It's real hard, even after 7 years.
I had a baby 2 years ago and my daughter will never know her beautiful grandmother, this is the hardest to bare!.
Mothers are special there is no one like your Mum!
Hang in there hun, ask your mothers doctor if you can bunk in with her a couple nights or on Xmas eve.
Merry Xmas honey. Have the best Xmas you can in honour of your Mother because she would want you to have a great day!!!
2007-12-22 09:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by Purity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, of course you want your mum home. Who else is at home? Dad? Brothers? Sisters? I imagine they're all feeling the same. I know it's hard, My Dad died just before Christmas 25 years ago now, and I remember we all kind of rallied round to help my Mum, I'd left home and married by then, but we all did what we could. Can you and your family do something similar? Talk together, and see what you can come up with. God bless you at this difficult time and may He bring you His peace.
Hope this helps.
2007-12-22 09:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by SKCave 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray about it, and ask god to give u strenght, joy, and peace for Christmas. Just look at the good side of it. She is better now. U should go and see her in the hospital on Christmas . U don't have to be without her on Christmas. U should always look at the good and not the bad because it could be alot worst.
2007-12-22 09:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by lee lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry for you that your Christmas has been messed up. Try to stop crying, I know it's not easy because you love your Mum.
If you have a family tell them you are going to put aside some time over Christmas to visit your Mum in hospital.
Try to make their Christmas less traumatic.
Best wishes to your Mum.
2007-12-22 09:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you all gather round her at the hospital and bring in a little christmas tree to put by her bedside and some card anf board games?
2007-12-22 09:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by dollfeena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not whining,you miss your mother which is a good thing today,if i was your mum or dad i would be very proud of you ,love is an important issue when its perents,if i was you spend as much time as you can over the holidays with your mum,chin up,and stand tall!!!
2007-12-23 07:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mums abroad for 3 weeks going to sisters
2007-12-24 04:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesterday was my birthday, and my mom wasn't there for that. Be strong, and be confident.
2007-12-22 09:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by SoundofSettling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋