i am so confused that i do not know what to do - it has come to my attention that the man who i thought was my uncle , who is my mothers half brother , is actually my dad.
He is staying with us at the moment from abroad for the xmas period and you can cut the atmosphere with a knife- we all feel so awkward.
you see i was conceived in the 1960s in another part of the world but my birth mother had to come to the uk to have an abortion but she did not - my father/uncle paid for her to come - so i was fostered for until i was 4 yrs of age thats when i first met her .
i have done alot with my life so far but because of their paranoia they had decided to compromise my life in various ways - a bit like having to pay for their sins !!
i am so confused - i do not know who to trust - i cannot look at my uncle in the face anymore - what to address as -or just continue to play the game.
He has a son who i have met several times .
all this decieit is killing me emotionally.
2007-12-22 07:20:45 · 3 answers · asked by Le Vonte W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you were born in the 60's you are old enough to be living in your own house away from them and not having to be around people who make you uncomfortable. Be glad it happened or you wouldnt have been born. Look at it from that angle.
2007-12-22 07:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move towards acceptance.
You did the best you could with what you were given.
It sounds like the lot of them have no idea what it is to take responsibility.
Cut yourself some slack and limit your time with these people, and don't let them guilt you into or out of anything.
Move on with your own life and enjoy your achievements.
2007-12-22 07:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno what to say, except that you should move on with your life without compromising... although that's probably easier said than done... hope things work out...
2007-12-22 07:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by Afro Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋