i hate my mom?

Question

my mom doesnt let me have freedom i dont know what happend to her should i fight with her or just leave her alone

Answer 1

Aren't you ungrateful. You're talking about the person who gave you LIFE.

Answer 2

Well first off you do not hate your mom. She is your mother,just remember she does EVERYTHING for you and her family,you should give her the upmost respect she deserves. I would just go up to my mom and tell her that you guys need to talk. Tell her that you would like to have some freedom and you need some space. DOnt fight with your mother she ALWAYS wins ,i mean shes your mom there is no getting around her. lol..well hope i help a lil bit. But if you want or need freedom,if youve done stuff to make her not trust you she wont for a long time and that trust never really builds back. Good luck hope i helped

Answer 3

I suspect you have done something that has caused your mother to limit your freedom. Parents rarely restrict a child's freedom unless they have a GOOD reason. Try to remember she is the adult, your parent and has seen, heard or done most everything, she also sets the rules, you are a minor and it is her responsibility to make sure you are safe. Should you choose to fight her on this issue, you can look forward to being without your freedom for a long time. Time to mature a little and make the best of this situation.....this will get you a lot farther than fighting or rebelling.

Answer 4

LOL Im not gonna tell u that ur an ungreatful brat! i hate my mom at times 2! I never get freedom either! I cant go any wear or do anything that has to do with a boy! But ya have to love ur mom! I hope this helps! I hope u have a merry Christmas and a happy new year!

Answer 5

Of course you hate your Mom. Let me guess..you're a teenager? That's pretty normal, regretfully.

If you're under 18, you don't get freedom. You get privileges. Privileges are earned, not handed out. You earn privileges by being trustworthy, honest, and doing what you're supposed to do...like homework..and being where you said you were going. Oh, and helping around the house never hurts.

The whole key is to demonstrate that you're not a ditzy kid, and you're really working on being responsible and deserving of trust. No, it won't happen because you do it all right once or twice...you have to show this is really who you are consistently.

In the interim, have a civil chat with your mother and find out what you can do to earn some privileges.

Good luck, hon. Teenage years can be rough, but remember..this too in time shall pass.

Answer 6

Me too, 15 years ago when I used to live with them, go to school, nd just have friends, I was the youngest I felt that my parents liked my brothers and not me. well you know what honey that's ok we all feel this way. now that I'm 29, I can't wait to have both my parents in my appartmenet to spoil them and have them see me where I am so they can feel how proud of me they are. if your mother says no to something , that's because she really know the consequences. you'll get over it don't worry
oh by the way, what you're feeling now is not hate, it's just anger, again me too when I was 14 I didn't know how to make the difference.
OH I forget to mention, just in case she allows to do something and it goes wromg, she ll have to pay most of the time. actually she'll have to pay for any mistake you do even if she doesn't allow you to do it, or doesn't know about it
Now who will hate the other............
well she wont hate she'll be very angry, so don't make her angy cuz your freedom will be VERY VERY LIMITED

Answer 7

How old are you? Have respect for your Mom and don't be so ungrateful! Moms only try to do what's best for their kids. It's a crazy world out there, kid, and you'll be thankful when you're an adult that she was so protective of you. You hear horror stories on the news all the time!
Be thankful that you still have her in your life, a lot of kids don't!

Answer 8

She knows what she's doing. Just think. There are so many moms who abuse your kids, and those kids have a reason to dislike their moms. You you HATE your mom just ebcause she doesn't let you have freedom. Think about that

Answer 9

Your mother is just trying to protect you. You may not see it now but when you are an adult you'll realize it and be ashamed of your behavior. Most teenagers go through this phase. If keeping you off the streets, doing drugs or getting pregnant means you get mad at her then stay mad and safe.

Answer 10

She is responsible for ANYTHING that she allows you to do or allows to happen to you until you're 18.
When you turn 18 and get your own place and pay your own way, you can do as you like hon.

Answer 11

U do not hate ur mom. Ur just mad right now. Don't hate anyone. U need 2 grow up.