Family - December 2007

what gifts should i bring his mother, father, and sister.

2007-12-23 03:46:31 · 4 answers · asked by lalalulu 1

I finally for the first time met my boyfriend's ex. She left him and their 3 boys for some guy she met on the internet. Hasn't seen them or talked to them not once in a year and a half. Well yesterday we agreed for her and her mom and dad to come pick up the boys and take them to get their christmas gifts. She told my BF that if I was there she wasn't coming and to tell the boys she'd see them some other time. She did end up coming and instead of being an adult, she's 32 and i'm 33, she waited across the street at the gas station til we got back into the car. Now consider this, now I'm the stay at home mom to these boys. She also has another daughter that lives with her dad that they haven't seen in over 2 years. She told my BF that she didn't want to be there or want her family to meet the ***** thats been playing mom. Then by the time we got home from picking them up after the 2 whole hours she spend with them in 1 1/2 years. She's crying and has the oldest boy crying.

2007-12-23 03:46:20 · 7 answers · asked by pcchocoholic 3

My sister is really mean. She is 1 year younger than me. She thinks she's so cool becuase her birthday is on valintinesday. can you help me get her in trouble without her blaming it on me???? plez help me.

2007-12-23 03:40:51 · 38 answers · asked by Fall Out Boy B 1

How do both sexes think: be single & free to deceide? Or get commited to a relation ship even if its for a couple months! < Before shying away from one another> ???

2007-12-23 03:33:21 · 2 answers · asked by David H 3

My husband is almost 26, and we are currently living with his parents. Every time we go out somewhere important (to a family function or a wedding or whatever), his mother insists on doing his hair for him. I think this is absolutely insane, he is WAY too old for this to be going on, and I think it shows that she still thinks of him as a little baby and not a grown man. She also makes our bed if I am at work. I consider both of these things to be overstepping her bounds, she needs to back off and let us do things on our own. I don't know if I have the right to speak up about it. DH will not stand up to her about it because she gets a MAJOR attitude about stuff. He just lets her do it and keeps quiet to keep the peace, but I think something should be said. Should I speak up about it the next time it happens, or should I just let it go?

2007-12-23 03:22:33 · 6 answers · asked by Frustrated Wife 1

Ever since I have been married to my hubby, his mum, sister & brothers wife(maria) have always made me feel like small. I am a phd student and occasionally model for t.v, I am very happy with my career so dnt appreciate the way they make me feel. There's always comments like "you put on weight", my hubby's sis always make the indirect comments "so & so doesn't need eyeliner because she has beautiful eyes", my sis in law is always praising maria, such as how hard working she is etc. Maria has a baby boy and decided that she would rather be a housewife, she always pressurizes me to have kids, its clear that she struggles being a mum so it irritates me that she make these suggestion. I try so hard to stay away from my sis in law & maria but yesterday my sis in law came to see me, she was so nice, she even did my nails for me. Maria came a few hours later and asked if I could lend her a skirt, this was my response "I'm a size 8, it won't fit", Maria is alot larger than me btw.

2007-12-23 03:16:20 · 4 answers · asked by kitty 1

this is another question that goes along with earlier one. my sisters husband was on the computer late last night (1am) and i gone down to watch a little tv, i was sitting on the couch with my back toward the den. he came out of the den and said to me that he was going to bed, i didn't say anything to him. he came up behind me and kissed my neck and reached down and touched my chest. from the back i look like my sister because we both have blonde hair. but i have a much much much smaller chest then my sister. when he touched me he let go real fast. earlier i asked if it could be intentional or an honest mistake. now i am asking should i tell brenda (my sister). they have been married for 12 years with 1 child and he is 35, i am 17. do i tell my sister what he did? do i let it go? i don't want to cause problems between my sister and her husband. i am having trouble dealing with my own relationship problems. i don't need this one if he meant to touch me.

2007-12-23 01:48:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know why i am with his mum and dad but i was today.They came to see are daughter in the church nativity and brought my sister in laws kids.They came to are house and i so nervous.I don't get on with his sister much as she has been nasty in the past and not nice when i lost two pregnancys early this year(i'm 17 weeks now!!).How do i over come this for christmas day dinner.This is not a new thing i have been with my hubby nearly 8 yrs now.Thanks x

2007-12-23 01:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by noot 3

My daughter is 15 and started living with me a few months ago. She was living with her father in another state from age 10 to 15.

Now that she is off for two weeks, she is complaining that she is going to be bored. I feel the pressure to take her on day trips,etc when I would just like to stay home. Its like I have to entertain her because she does not have too many friends here.

Yesterday, we went on day trip and then to the mall. She did not like the day trip and then left my camera somewhere by accident at the mall.

I don't know how to handle her long face if we don't go anywhere. I am upset about her losing the camera, but don't know what to do about that also.

How should I keep her busy while not spending too much money and getting what I need to done also?

2007-12-23 01:08:46 · 11 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

I know where he is (Europe. He's an engineer and a writer.) But he wants me to fly out there to see him since it's easier than him getting a visa to come here. I don't think I'm interested for very personal reasons.

Anyone relate to this? Anyone go through with meeting their long lost father?

2007-12-23 00:03:39 · 22 answers · asked by Entropy is for sheep 3

I love my mother inspite of all things. Can anyone truly hate mom? Do you love her?

2007-12-22 23:48:16 · 20 answers · asked by leoprince_28 3

I can not stand my family! What should i do to get me through this? Not like my mom or dad. But like Aunt, Uncles. Grandparents. And the worst part of it is is that they want to talk to ME! I am not so good when i am put on the spot! Need advice! =(

2007-12-22 23:38:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

sister and brother(sandra&michael reddie)placed in care of south walk social services at 14&12 years old. born to madge reddie. sandras last known address (as adults):78 winchombe court, lydney close, st georges way peckham, london SE 15, england michaels: 96 cosall walk, cosall estate, peckham, london SE15 england

2007-12-22 23:29:58 · 6 answers · asked by roses 1

sthis a big difference, like i'm stil 14 and my parents are in their 40-50's is this rare?
how old wereyou when your dad becomed 50?

2007-12-22 22:45:15 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I split 3 years ago after 14 months of marriage because of problems created by her "kids", but have been trying to work it out since. The "kids" are in their late 20's early 30's, and are from her 1st marriage. They are involved in drugs, alcoholism, crime, and welfare rip-offs, illegal un-licensed driving, along with a history of money borrowing that never gets paid back. My wife had 3 of her little grandchildren dumped on her by druggie daughter 30 months ago and they have been in her care since. These adult "kids" have no respect for anyone including their mother, but she turned her back on me finally, when her son had to stay with her on home detention,(after being busted from 2 years on the run from the police), because he was blood an I'm not.

2007-12-22 22:38:11 · 9 answers · asked by One Man 3

This is really hard to face, and I don't want to face it, I want my grandma to get better, I want the doctor to prescribe a pill that will take away all her pain so she won't have to suffer, so I can see her the next day and everything will be alright, she’ll be happy to see me, and she’ll cook food for me, and I will sit and talk with her and laugh, and watch tv, she she’ll tell me her stories, about growing up, or her adult life raising my dad....I want it to be like it was. I am only 23 I NEED my grandma in my life, she is the most important thing in the world to me....I have never lost anyone close to me, ever....the future is uncertain, but what can I do with my grandma now, in the present, while she is still with me?....she's in pain but she still pulls on...I want her to overcome this, I don't believe in prayer because I dont want to be disappointed by God....how can I honestly help my grandmother? What should I be doing? I dont want anything to happen and feel ANY guilt.....

2007-12-22 21:24:07 · 11 answers · asked by Clarence 2

my dad died 1 month ago and ive been feeling it really bad latly just wanted some music that explained what im going through

2007-12-22 20:27:08 · 7 answers · asked by pianoman1270 1

Since my Father passed away this last Summer it was only my Uncle and my Grandfather left of my family on my Dad's side. My question is this, I told my Uncle that he was welcome to spend Christmas with me at my Mothers house since he has no one else to spend it with. My parents were divorced years and years ago but my Uncle always liked my Mom. For some reason though he said he did not want to come over to my Mother's house. I am very worried for him as he does not seem in the best frame of mind. How can i convince him to come to my Mothers for Christmas? Or should i even push it? Should i cut my visit to my Mom's house short to spend time with him? Sorry if this is a long drawn out question it has been a long and tiring day. Thanks for advice.

2007-12-22 19:49:58 · 20 answers · asked by ? 6

If they call you an "orphan" if you loss your parent/s, then what are you called if you loss your child / children???

2007-12-22 19:45:50 · 6 answers · asked by Macpower 1

and grand mother . What are you serving for your Christmas dinner /

2007-12-22 18:46:53 · 1 answers · asked by lala 7

Actually, my family is not overly affectionate or anything, but we meet like only once or twice a year. I don't think there's anything wrong about my mom giving all her sons a hug each.

But my gf said (in her own words) it's "incestuously gross" and inappropriate...

On the other hand, she didn't mind seeing Dad hug me and the boys. But her reason was that: She had always enjoyed seeing men touching each other...
(now you tell me who's the "inappropriate" one)

2007-12-22 17:38:01 · 24 answers · asked by zandrew 1

it's so frustrating!! omg..i'm almost 16, and she goes thourgh all the stuff in my room. she checks my drawers, clothes, my wallet (she goes through my money, receipts, pics of friends, etc) and she looks at all my pictures that i have in my closet. she also looks through my purse, and she reads my notes from my friends, and she checks the pockets of my school pants and jeans. once she found a pill wrapper in my pocket and went crazy, asking me what kind of pill it was, where i got it from, why i needed it, who gave it to me, etc. also whenever i'm on the comp she always sits by me or constantly walks past me to see what i'm doing on here. whenever i'm on the phone, she tries to listen in on my convo's..
is there anything i can do? i confronted her about it once and she just made up the excuse that she was "organizing my stuff" which is a a complete lie..

2007-12-22 15:49:04 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you hear 12, 13, 14 year olds etc. lost their virginity already? Dont you think thats young? Some of my friends lost it and were only 14. They were drunk, I was sober, they left the party and went in a room and you dont want to know the rest. Isnt it sad?

2007-12-22 15:25:43 · 36 answers · asked by Sydney 4

My grandmother told me that it is a mistake. The rest of my family feels that it should be illegal and says that I will ruin my son's life. I know that I am doing what's best for my son, but they put so much doubt in my mind. I don't know what to do about their doubts. Should I even care. I know that I want their support.

2007-12-22 15:19:54 · 18 answers · asked by Melissa T 3

i dunno what to get em
my friends arent getting em anything.....apparently they never have
but i want to give em something
I just dont know what since their the ones who give me my allowance and ergo i dont have a lot of money
and its them so i dont know what
do you have any nice ideas???
i mean i cant give em something cute cause im 16 so that wouldnt work unless i was 5 or something

2007-12-22 15:14:39 · 6 answers · asked by ஐﻬ уαмι ηι cнιяυ ѕαкυяα ﻬஐ 6

Honestly, I didn’t want to post it or question it here, but I really am clueless (not to mention confused and a lot more). Maybe I am just paranoid, but I am seriously afraid.

I am 14 years old, and I have a lot of scars from my foot to my thighs. My dad keeps on looking at them, and touches my thighs. He doesn’t just looks at the scars, my keeps on rubbing his hands at it. I told him to stop, or just runs away from him, and he just says that it is normal, since he is my father. Is it really true ?

Sometimes when he wakes me up to school, he would occasionally just sits by my bed and start stroking my leg again. Matter of fact, he even touched and grabbed my behind. This has happens occasionally, and I did just wake up and yells at him.

I can’t stand it, and I really am clueless. Who should I go to? My mom?

I am a 14 year old, only daughter out of 4 children.

2007-12-22 15:14:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What games and fun things do you remember about christmas..?
what sticks in your memory the most about christmas as you were growing up..apart from being excited about your presents ! x x thanks x

2007-12-22 15:08:16 · 9 answers · asked by frankybaby_1 1

We went through two trials with them but we still have so many unanswered questions. I doubt that either one of them will tell the truth to me but I always think about it. He was my only sibling and I still have a hard time with him being gone. He was brutally murdered. My mom and I just want to know why. Will I ever put these thoughts to rest???

2007-12-22 15:00:48 · 11 answers · asked by Happily Married/Mom 1

So this person has been living with us for a while now, and for what I cannot understand, my Mother will not ask this person to leave. They are verbally abusive to my sibling (they both are expecting a child together next month) and loves to belittle others without a care in the world. My Mother relates to me how much she dislikes this person, etc., but refuses to kick them out. She's as friendly as pie with this person to their face, but only around me vents about how much she cannot stand this person. I only wish my Mother would stand up to this person and be truthful with her feelings and tell them to move out. This person likes to say things under their breath about me or the rest of my family and is the most venomous person I have ever had to deal with. Doesn't help much that I can in no way afford to move out either. I have tried ignoring this person, because if I didn't, I'd probably hit them, nevertheless, this only seems to egg them on more. What else can I do to deal?

2007-12-22 14:31:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need some advice on what to do about my sister. She is a white 17 year old girl and sometimes she takes a walk at night. (actually, right now. It's 10:04 pm) I'm scared she is going to be kidnapped. My mom sometimes is concerned but says "She'll be find with her cell phone..." I don't think my mom sees the danger in this situation. Not to be raciest, but a few supicious old mexican guys have moved in my neighborhood recently (but we have a pretty safe neighborhood) and i have heard that they like young girls. I am just soo worried and i always try to talk my sister to stop but she wont listen. She always promises (like yesterday) but she is braking it RIGHT NOW!!!

2007-12-22 14:07:58 · 8 answers · asked by marshmellows.rulez 3