Honestly, I didn’t want to post it or question it here, but I really am clueless (not to mention confused and a lot more). Maybe I am just paranoid, but I am seriously afraid.
I am 14 years old, and I have a lot of scars from my foot to my thighs. My dad keeps on looking at them, and touches my thighs. He doesn’t just looks at the scars, my keeps on rubbing his hands at it. I told him to stop, or just runs away from him, and he just says that it is normal, since he is my father. Is it really true ?
Sometimes when he wakes me up to school, he would occasionally just sits by my bed and start stroking my leg again. Matter of fact, he even touched and grabbed my behind. This has happens occasionally, and I did just wake up and yells at him.
I can’t stand it, and I really am clueless. Who should I go to? My mom?
I am a 14 year old, only daughter out of 4 children.
2007-12-22 15:14:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
At 14 your dad should not be touching or rubbing you. You should discuss this with your mom.Or a trusted family member teacher at school. Any adult that you trust..
2007-12-22 15:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by cin_ann_43 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please talk to the school counsler or teacher or call the police while you are at school. This is NOT normal behavior for a father. STOP it before it goes any further for your own sake. I'm sure you are scared but the fact that you came on here to get an answer means you know it is wrong and you are crying out for help. Good Luck
2007-12-22 15:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by shelle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely NOT NORMAL for your father to stroke your leg or grab your behind! You need to go to your mother now and tell her about his actions before you get molested by him! If your mother doesn't do something immediately to protect you (that's her first responsibility as a parent) then tell a teacher or counselor at school. Don't wait! YOU ARE IN DANGER!
2007-12-22 15:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by Rose girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately, innapropriate behavior for a father. No excuses for it.. If you have a good relationship with your mother tell her. If not go to a school counselor or ADULT figure you trust. Perhaps, an outside family member that can intervene and assist you. Lock your bedroom door, stay in open areas when he is present don't permit yourself to be alone with him..Get help asap...
2007-12-22 15:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mother NOW! Tell your mother how uncomfortable this makes you feel. Touching and grabbing your behind is NOT normal or acceptable, especially from your father. If your mother doesn't listen and your father becomes more aggressive--confide to your school counselor, teacher, or Department of Family and Children Services. Please have the courage to stop your abuse.
2007-12-22 15:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by MEDUSA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to report this immediately. Things will not get better. Only worse. Can you talk to your mom, school counselor, or another trusting adult? That is not normal. If you tell him to stop he should stop. I don't care if he is your dad. It is your body and you control what is touched by anyone.
2007-12-22 15:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by KELLY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously: It's only going to get worse!!
Tell your mom, the counselor, a friend's parents, someone who is in the position to do something about it and someone you feel comfortable talking to you.
This is not normal, and you need to do something before it gets reeeeeeeeeeally bad...
2007-12-22 15:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by ~♥ Easily Amused Dijinn ♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think you should go to ure mom or at least the counselor because that really isnt normal for a dad the way ure describing it... i would tell an adult immediately before it get outta control
2007-12-22 15:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by br_bu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to my counselor at school. Sometimes it's easier to talk to someone outside the family about these things. But, please, talk to someone -an adult- about this and get help. Don't try to ignore it or think it will just stop, because it won't.
2007-12-22 15:30:41 · answer #9 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur 14!!! u know its not normal or right!!! hows ur family? if there ''off'' they will say-its ur fault,u lead him on, look what i did etc... ALWAYS remember its NEVER ur fault!!! if ur family is ''good'' they will make him leave asap!!!! he should knock n yell ''get up''. n never go in ur room unless u invite him n he stands off-ur 14 member. if ur not dying he should say ''have ur mom or doc look''!!!!! n NEVER touch from the knees up or collar bone down!!! tell ur school or cops right now!!
2007-12-22 16:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by J.D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋