When you hear 12, 13, 14 year olds etc. lost their virginity already? Dont you think thats young? Some of my friends lost it and were only 14. They were drunk, I was sober, they left the party and went in a room and you dont want to know the rest. Isnt it sad?
2007-12-22 15:25:43 · 36 answers · asked by Sydney 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
HELL YESS,
well even if your friends really did lose it, most kids think its cool to lie & pretend they aren`t virgins. it makes me laugh when like a 12 year old says that though lmao.
i have no sympathy for little kids who get into that **** because i`m pretty sure they already got the talk. unless it was rape, then that just breaks my heart!
2007-12-22 15:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not sad - its bad. Unless you are forced to have sex (rape) you control your own fate. There are enough ads on TV - in schools - and in magazines - to alert teenagers to the consequences of the choices you make.
If some people lose their virginity at 13 - 14 - 15 because they were drunk then it was a result of actions that they started . It is sad that their life can go in the tank after such
situations but "do the right thing" and your life should be alright.
2007-12-22 15:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by brendan- da man and da myth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are these kids parents??? I find it apalling. Personally I'm of the belief that children shouldn't have sex in high school because that's what they are-children. You may think you are so mature when you are 17 and a senior but you aren't and you aren't ready to deal with the consequences of your actions. But to put that kind of responsibility on a 12 year old is ridiculous. This is what's wrong with our nation today, teaching 12 year olds it's okay to engage in sexual activity. It doesn't make me so sad as it makes me disgusted.
I feel bad for those kids who won't ever have a special time. I didn't have that magical moment but I was at least of age, an adult, and was at a point where although I was just in college, was in a position to accept the consequences.
2007-12-22 15:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some cases it is and in some cases it's not. We're all ready for different things at different times. I mean if it's rape then of course it's sad. But some things just happen and who knows maybe the people that did don't regret it. Which everyone has their own opinion and I feel that people should have it when they are ready to. Not when they are pressued by someone else to have it too early for them or wait until marriage. It's their choice and they shouldn't have to be pressued into anything.
Peace and Love,
Natalie aka Paris
2007-12-22 15:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why are they drunk? Something is wrong right there. I think that it is sad to lose your viginity at such a young age. It's like there is nothing for the guy to respect you for. I mean there should be a reason to do it. Not because everyone else is. What do you have to look forward to if it's all done.
It seems no one these days think it's abnormal.
2007-12-22 16:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by fran c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very sad, most people their age dont think about the fact that sex is something that should be shared between two people that love each other enough to get married. To say that they love the other person so much they waited and gave themselves to their spouse.And especially with all those diseases going around. But not everyone can realize that, yeah its sad
2007-12-22 15:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 02:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by prato 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very sad indeed but that's the kind of world we live in.Everyone's in a hurry to grow up and parents are working so much they have no idea wht their kids are doing.The world needs to take about 10 steps back and start doing the things and discipining the kids the way they did when I was that age.I was still playing with my dolls when I was 12-13.
2007-12-22 15:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by Janell T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES it is i think they are a very bad influence to people younger like 10 or below... it's very shameful to see ppl lose their virginity when they are in middle school as they are veryyy young and just entered the teenhood if this continues then world will become very corrupted (not that it isn't)
2007-12-22 15:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's especially sad when they lose it when they're drunk, because they're not even aware of what they're getting into. Sex can be wonderful if you're ready for it, but I don't see how kids that young could possibly deal with all of the possible repercussions of having sex. Hopefully they at least use protection.
2007-12-22 15:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋