in my family i argue alot. especially with my parents. i am the oldest of 4 (i'm 14)and i am fed up of getting blamed for everything. i'm even thinking of running away. i normal after a arguement i go in my bath room lock it and cry. i'm fed up and it is getting nearer to christmas, so my parents are getting stressed. i try to help but it just ends in a arguement. i'm fed up of feeling like i don't belong. only my grandma knows how i feel. she just tells me it will blow over. i really need help i don't know if i should just leave. it will help my family because then it won't have any more arguements!
2007-12-22 08:41:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Leaving will be MUCH worse than what you have now.
Not having anything to eat, having to sleep outside, being prey to monsters of the human variety.
You obviously don't know how many runaways die, do you?
Try not to argue with your parents.
Maybe you can visit your grandma now and then, when you're feeling extra stressed.
The arguments do no good, and just stress everyone out. Who needs that?
2007-12-22 14:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Running from your problems almost never works! At fourteen, where could you go? What could you do to support yourself? How would you get food? And don't forget all the scuzzy men out there waiting to rape you or kill you! Your family needs to learn how to communicate without arguing. I doubt very much if you are to blame for much of anything. Maybe your parents are stressed out about a lot of things and they don't even realize how upset and hurt you are. You do need help. Start by talking to a counselor or a trusted teacher at first. Your parents need help too. Perhaps you could get help from CPS.
2007-12-22 08:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray about it and ask god to help to get along with your family. It's really not that bad. You just have to overcome evil with good. I learn along time ago that people who are hurting hurt people. U have to decide, do u want to grow up bitter or want to be a loving person and favored by God. No, it's not easy but it will have you feeling good about yourself. If u don't believe me try it and see. Start being nice to people who try and hurt u and be mean to u. U will be blessed, watch and see.
2007-12-22 09:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by lee lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I noe how ur feeling i use to feel like that.But please dnt runaways because that isnt going to help.What i use to do wen ever me and my parents use to fight i use to go to my room and wrote all my feelings in a journal.
2007-12-22 08:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by ana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont leave stay and wait it out
2007-12-22 08:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by tgl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋