Latley i get these feelings on and off like I think the world would be better without me and if i went missing nonbody would even notice and if they did they wouldnt care or do anything. Some days when my boyfriend dosent talk to me i feel like the ugliest girl on this planet and no guys like me and they never will. And i think if I died nobody would care enough to have a funeral and the whole world would be easier and happier with out me. And then my mom always loses her temper and screams at me for leaving a sock in the bathroom, then i feel like she wishes I wasnt born.
Why do i feel this way, I just cant help it, and because of it Im a negative person and sometimes kind of mean, Can you help me w/ out going to a counciler...
2007-12-21 11:15:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
aw hun.trust me, we all feel like crap sometimes. but dont worry, im sure theres a lot of ppl that love you. and if they dont, you dont need them. if your bf doesnt talk to you and makes you feel worse, DUMP HIM. i know its hard because i was in a relationship where he reminded me that he could find better. but in the end, i did. i moved on and finally found a guy thats worth my time. your mom loves you-shes just taking her stress (from work) out on you. talk to her or give her some space and try not to make her mad.
trust me, love yourself and show all those ppl how great you are!
email me if you need anything.
2007-12-21 11:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by Susan♥sJohn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You know its kind of natural to feel that way when you are depressed. You need to find out what is making you sooo depressed first of all. If your mom is yelling at you over a sock she is probably battling issues of her own Don't take it personally. This happened to me I didn't want to go to a counselor either. So I went to the doctor instead and he explained that when you are depressed for along period of time your brain stops producing some chemicals that you normally produce so he gave me anti depressants ( it took a few different kinds be fore I got the right one BUT it really helped and then I went to the councelor and am doing MUCH better email me if you like BUt if you think the world would be better with out you what happens if you go someplace WORSE if you die? Please take my advice!!!!???? Its so exhausting being depressed and it just snowballs into a worse mess I know how you feel BUT there is help! I CARE
If you are here and i don't even know you Please please consider what I said I have nothing to gain by answering your question but you do! I 'll be thinking of you and I hate being sad you are making me sad so help me out try what I said and let me know how it all works out Please?
2007-12-21 11:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hormones, sweetheart. Everyone goes through this period of their life. Just try your best to relax and have fun. Avoid anything that gives stress to you. I felt the same way for most of this year and I learned that the best things to do is listen to music, treat yourself to the salon, shopping, movies, writing, hanging with the people that love you. That worked for me and I'm sure it'll work for you! Just make sure you have someone to talk to about it, trust me. If you feel the need to, speak with a counciler but you truly dont need to. Email me if you need any other tips and things, I'd gladly help, hun. REMEMBER to avoid stress and relax. Take it all easy, kay?
2007-12-21 11:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Reddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of adolescents feel that way. It's called depression. I can guarantee that if you stick with it, life gets better. Try to find things that make you happy and think about them when you aren't able to do them.
And Susan's answer is just about perfect.
2007-12-21 11:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by Al F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called depression. Maybe you should talk to a school counselor or seek adult you trust to help you. boyfriends are not everything you have self worth ..It's ok to be single and find yourself..Seek things you like about yourself and build them up. God makes us in his image...p.s. be patient with your mom try talkin to her when she isn't in bad mood, all moms have moments we are short with our kids we don't mean it...hang in there...you got your whole future right ahead...
2007-12-21 11:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well everyone sometimes has those thoughts. maybe your depressed. you may need to see a counsler if it is everyday you feel like this for a long time. HOPE YOU GET BETTER
2007-12-21 11:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way. Just remain happy with yourself.
2007-12-21 11:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by shygirl93 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby dont commit sucide. Please your mom loves you just dont leave your socks in the bathroom.
and if you think your boyfriend is not there for you leave him Please
2007-12-21 11:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by sassy sha sha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋