well...i duno wat 2 do! im having christmas dinner with my mum, her boyfriend and my family but i reali want 2 spend it with my dad! its also his birthday on christmas day and i dont want him 2 b lonely! He's single and lives on his own! he doesnt speak 2 any ov his family and his parents r dead! so he'll b spending it himself! hes always depressed and i think spending the day on his own will send him over the edge! i also dont wanna not go 2 dinner with my mum cuz she loves christmas and it wld break her heart if i wasnt ther! wat shud i do?
2007-12-21 10:39:39 · 16 answers · asked by Bradders 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hi, I really like free_ang' s answer. I totally agree. I think you should see both your Dad and your Mum and the plated dinner is a lovely idea and would let him know people care for him. Christmas is really hard for people who are feeling low and it's also hard for children of separated families. (I have experience as the child and now the parent). I would stick my neck out for my Dad as your Mum won't be alone. When you get back to your Mum just make sure you give her lots of hugs and join in the singing and she'll soon forget you were'nt there at all. All the best x
2007-12-21 13:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 22:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If possible schedule the meals so you can do both. A breakfast brunch? A late evening pizza,a mid day dinner?
Tell your Mum that you really love being with her but since your Dad is alone -could she schedule the dinner so that you could spend some of the time with him.
2007-12-21 11:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by Joan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can spend part of the day with your dad and have lunch with him (explaining to your mom that this is something you would really like to do) and then you would still have time to prepare for your christmas dinner with the other part of your family.
K
2007-12-21 13:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by Karleen F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont know if you can do both.
Or do one on Christmas Eve and the other on Christmas day. Then swap it around every year.
Dad gets you on the even years
Mom gets you on the odd years
2007-12-21 11:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by sammy3256 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you compromise? do they live sufficiently close to each other that you could spend time with both? if not, why not spend Christmas with your dad if you want to? your mum's a big girl now; she should understand that he IS your dad & you care for him too. she'll have others with her & it won't break her heart! she'll be pi**ed & may be a bit "off" with you, but it's your life & your decision to make. tell her you're going to your dad & you'll spend boxing day or whatever with her. if she makes a fuss just tell her you're sorry but you love her & dad both & just want to be with him. when she sees you've made a conscious decision & won't be coerced, she'll either accept it or not. i hope she does, but if she doesn't she'll be the loser. please spend the day with your dad & have a great Christmas. diane.
2007-12-21 20:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by diquarry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jings, ye huv left it a bit late tae make changes. I wid think that ye should tell yer Ma that ye will be spending the day wi' yer Da and ye will pop roon tae see her another day in the festive season. She shouldnae be too upset, she huz a bundle o' folk coming anyway. I'm sure she widnae mind if ye wanted tae see him, unless she hates the ground that he walks on, which would be a bit unfortunate. Guid luck yae ye, hope ye huv a great festive time....
2007-12-21 11:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by Angela M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have lunch with your Dad. Spend the afternoon with him. Then go to your mums for dinner, and stay the evening.
2007-12-21 10:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by back from the dead 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should spend it with your Dad,your Mum will be upset but she won't be alone will she.I'm sure she will understand,i would hate to be alone on Christmas and if your Dad is depressed it's even more reason to be with him.
2007-12-21 11:03:53 · answer #9 · answered by sam d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your mother that you want to see your father on Christmas Day and you would like to to see him after the dinner. Suggest to her to send a plate of food to him with you simply because it would be a nice thing to do.
2007-12-21 10:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋